New Castration Couple Seeking Advice

[Kynetic01 (imported)]

For the past few months I've been going out with a wonderful girl who I've told about my interest in castration. To put things into context, we've been friends for about 4 years and are both active in our local fetish scene, which made all the "usual" awkwardness surrounding talking about each other's fantasies pretty much a non-issue as we'd discussed topics like that numerous times in the past. We both share several kinks we enjoy and its through these that we sparked up our initial friendship as well as share a few common ones we both would like to explore. I'd always held back on directly saying I am interested in castration as for some it can be seem too extreme, but each to their own I always say when the topic ever arises.

With my girlfriend however I felt I could be open enough to tell her my interest in it, and I'm so glad I did, she didn't seem to mind in the least. Must be the benefits of having an open-minded and kinky girlfriend I guess. She herself is into body modification and has quite a detailed long term plan for what she wants to have done down the line, most notably breast augmentation and nipple removal.

She has made it clear that castration is to be nothing more than fantasy for now, and we have started adding a little castration play into our sex life which she seems to like. It's not a critical element to our fun, but it's becoming something we both enjoy more and more as we explore. Little things like when we're in bed and she squeezes my scrotum and whispers in my ear that it feels "empty" or when I sometimes push my balls up into my abdomen when we have sex.

I realize we're a far cry from actually seeking castration (yet), but so far everything seems to be moving along ok. We're exploring what we like and having fun along the way. So I guess my questions are;

Do any other couples do similar, or have you taken it further?

What games do you uncut couples like us like to try? We're up for trying almost anything (safe & sane) you suggest.

thanks

[C&TL2745 (imported)]

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Do any other couples do similar, or have you taken it further?

What games do you uncut couples like us like to try? We're up for trying almost anything (safe & sane) you suggest.

thanks

When my hubby and I got married, over two decades ago, he took a stack of recipe cards and wrote on each card something he'd find exciting for me to do to him: bondage, sexual teasing, abusing his genitals, mock castration, leading him around the house by a rope attached to his testicles, pretending I was going to hang him by his testicles, etc. Then he gave me the cards and invited me to pick one that I found amusing, or pick one at random, and do to him what was on the card. The cards have long since been abandoned since I got to know what he liked and how much he was okay with my improvising, but it got the ball(s) rolling. Have fun, but play safe.

Sandi

[Kynetic01 (imported)]

What an awesome idea Sandi, thanks so much for sharing it. I love how it can be both random and pre-chosen. We could do a set for each other also and see where it goes from there.

[nvrgag44 (imported)]

Sandi's right. At first things seem pretty far out but as time goes on and you indulge in fantasy play it takes more to excite you. And the more you hang around EA, the more you'll discover. I think I joined around 2011 or 12. It went from simple curiosity to being castrated last year. So, enjoy yourself but don't be surprised where you might land.

[Kynetic01 (imported)]

I imagine that's how most people develop Nvrgag44, I mean it usually starts with a initial idea and starts rolling from there. She's made it clear it's all a fantasy for now as she (and I) are quite happy with our sex life as it is at the moment. I can't tell what the future will bring, but so far we're having fun exploring things.

[nvrgag44 (imported)]

Your profile says you're 33. I'm 72. That's a big difference and I had other health issues too. So, while I'm glad they're gone now I would have undoubtedly felt different about it at age 33.

[Kynetic01 (imported)]

We're both quite happy with the way things are at the moment Nvrgag44. I don't have any plans to undergo any surgery anytime soon, we're both level headed enough to know this is within the realm of sexual play and fantasy for the foreseeable future.

[poorpupnoballs (imported)]

You're very lucky. Not only do you have someone to explore the fetish with, you've both understood that for now it's a fantasy. In the nearly twenty years since I started being open and discussing it, it's brought me nothing but shame and pain.

[CuriousSteve (imported)]

That's pretty much the boat I'm in, except my wife is very not kinky, but she still tells me she wants to take my balls and will put needles in them when I ask.

[Majicdan (imported)]

We went through all the fetish steps, to banding, and injections. I finally had a bilateral orchiectomy performed by a urologist, after i proved to him that I had chronic bilateral testicular pain from a vasectomy after 20 years. After jumping through some hoops, he finally performed it for me. It was the best thing I have ever done. I am on TRT to keep my wife happy, but low enough that i have no sex drive. My wife is much happier. I am much calmer. I stay home and do not roam.