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I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Wed Aug 17, 2016 12:43 am
by Catheterboy (imported)
I am a disabled man who lives in a nursing home in the UK where I am well looked after. I have no use of my legs and have a permenant suprapubic catheter which is a tube going into my bladder thru a hole surgically made just above my penis where my pubic hair line finishes. I have a leg bag and also where a diaper 24/7.
Now what I would like to happen to my testicles.
I would love to have both my testicles removed but my scrotum left in place. I would favour burzzido but no way I could stand the pain so would want it done by a medical profession surgeon. Why would I want this. I think about sex all the time. I watch porn whenever I can. I just think this is such a waste of time when I could be doing something better. After I cum I am ok for a few hours but it does not take me long to start thinking of sex and porn again. It would have been better if after my accident 4 years ago that left me paralysed if my sex life had ended but I am fine with getting erections and cum easily. I have good feeling too that's why burdizzo would not be good with the pain. I also get pain in my testicles and have 2 cysts in them left over from having orchitus 2 years ago.
I am new here to this forum and this is my first post. Thanks for reading.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Fri Aug 19, 2016 1:56 am
by bestofboth (imported)
Strong libido with no good opportunity to vent it off can be torture...so your desire to lower it is reasonable and should be considered by your doctors.
I assume the burdizzo idea is an interference of your sexual fantasies - it is not viable nor reliable, so best forget about it.
Just tell your doctors honestly about your dilemma, and find a solution together. There are enough possibilities to lower your sex drive to an acceptable level (even if that would be zero if you choose so), with chemical or surgical castration only one way.
You will see - lowering your libido will make you see clearer and help you to avoid drastic and damaging measures.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Fri Aug 19, 2016 3:54 am
by Catheterboy (imported)
Thanks for that. I am going to see my doctor about it when I can pluck up the courage. I have been looking at the medication called cyproterone acetate as a possible. Wonder if anyone else on here as tried it and if so how did it go. Thanks.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Tue Aug 23, 2016 2:06 am
by nvrgag44 (imported)
I have no answers for you but I understand how you feel and can at least offer some sympathy. I hope you're able to achieve your goal because I completely lost any libido I had after castration. It brings with it a peaceful feeling and I now realize what a distracting waste of time a libido can be, especially in your 70s. Good luck!
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2016 2:03 pm
by theemptyone (imported)
I agree that castration helps remove libido. I used to watch porn and masturbate a lot, but since I was castrated by Dr Arnkoff, my libido has been drastically reduced. I haven't watched porn or masturbated since November of last year, and I have no desire to do so. It's the best decision I think I ever made.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Thu Aug 25, 2016 8:58 pm
by CastratedTomcat (imported)
Also Androcur is a good way and I think your doctor will understand you and prescribe it for you.
Otherwise, in the UK is Androcur free available, as far I know. Thats the place, where I'm ordering it (so long it is still in the EU...

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Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2016 6:02 am
by Catheterboy (imported)
Still in the EU at the moment. Thanks for that. Have a doctors appointment made for the 5th September. I may chicken out when I get there are and ask for something completely different but I will try and hold my nerve. After reading more stuff on here and on line I am leaning more to asking for depo provera injections instead of the androcur. Think I will prefer the injections I already take so many tablets. I will see what he thinks.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Fri Aug 26, 2016 7:24 am
by bestofboth (imported)
There´s no need to chicken out
Just explain your problem plain and simple - that you are plagued by a high level of libido and need a way to lower it.
Don´t come up with suggestions about therapy; many doctors will have doubts about your motive then (fetish?) and will not cooperate.
Catheterboy (imported) wrote: Fri Aug 26, 2016 6:02 am
Still in the EU at the moment. Thanks for that. Have a doctors appointment made for the 5th September. I may chicken out when I get there are and ask for something completely different but I will try and hold my nerve. After reading more stuff on here and on line I am leaning more to asking for depo provera injections instead of the androcur. Think I will prefer the injections I already take so many tablets. I will see what he thinks.
Re: I do not know where I fit in with all this.
Posted: Sat Aug 27, 2016 12:09 am
by Catheterboy (imported)
I think that might be very good advice bestofboth thanks for that.