OK, so today I was at my urologist for a cord block. While he and the nurse are standing down at the end of the table and he's showing her what he's going to be doing with the needle using the ultra sound, I piped up and asked them, "If you find what's left of my dignity down there, let me know." Cord block done, now the nurse is gone out of the room and the doctor is explaining what he did and what to expect. Then he comes out with if this doesn't work, we'll have to look at other options including removal. (Keep in mind he doesn't know I'm transgender.) So I pipe up with something along the line of my age and it's not that big a deal. Now here comes the doctors answer. (Drum roll) "Well that may be your age but you only have one testicle that works and your wife wants a husband, not a sister." I am immediately trying not to roll off the exam table laughing and my wife is sitting across the room trying not to fall out of the chair laughing. He's just standing there looking confused. I guess next appointment I should clue him in, mention I'm seeing a gender therapist and my wife's had a part time sister for quite a few years. And who knows, may get one full time somewhere in the future.

H1

Tell him you are already a part time girl with her and you no longer penetrate her with that thing.

Hey,

Great story. And seriously, you don't have to worry about your dignity. It seems to me that you know right where it is and it's firmly rooted to who you are.

Roflmao

what an amazing story... and i admire you both for your sense of humor

I guess I should update this. The day after that post, I saw my gender therapist and she recommended both starting HRT and an orchiectomy. She wrote me the letter for the orchiectormy and that same doctor did the surgery 4 1/2 months later.

Well congratulations on getting your surgery!