Eunuch's Pajama

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

As a fine eunuch,devoted to spouse and all things family, with the possible exception of my M->E surgery, I enjoy the full support of my wife, who has seemed to enjoy my nut-and-scrotumless transition.

I continue on modest doses of injectable T depot, with not-so-frequent sex, but it seems, mutually enjoyed.

Today, I was treated to a pre-holiday surprise present: one of a pair of matching PINK plush hoodie footie pajamas. Can't say that the warmth of generosity and fabric don't feel very welcome, but it seems that dear Partner sees the M->E in her life as ever closer in gender to herself. A few moments exploring this idea confirmed that is how she feels. Fine with me. Middle is good, but I think that I am nowhere near her F.

So, whatever the pajamas, who has noticed a change in how the M->E is sexually perceived by the partner? Suggested clothing, lifestyle hints, other changes? My spouse is ethnic Chinese, and so finds the idea of having a Sun Yaoting at home amusing!

http://www.reuters.com/article/2009/03/ ... 6H20090316

I'm not so sure about taking after his survival quill, but it all raises the question: How does a Partner's view of the M-E at home change with time, and how and whether is it welcomed?

I'll start this thread with the starting thought that having arrived at the eunuch state (western version: balls 0, dick 1), I feel content and at peace with life in general. I cannot answer for my partner, but she would seem to have an evolving view of where I fit in her life. Does she eventually expect an anatomical Mr Sun in the house -not sure about that quill- or do the pair of us evolve to a sexual middle place of meeting as the years pass?

At first, I thought this was none of your business, but it might be something to think about if you have a partner and plan to become a eunuch?

Eunuchs typically become less male with castration, so should they also adopt more gender-middle (someone with better English, please help better words) role in dress, appearance and place in public society? Palace eunuchs were distinctively dressed and behaved distinctly well into the 20th century. It was expected of them. What about us modern eunuchs?

How should we be today? What to expect of our partners tomorrow?

[Arab Nights (imported)]

You two might enjoy gifts from:

http://www.cafepress.com/?cmp=knc--m--u ... epress.com

Try eunuch, castration or whatever in the search box. Enjoy and show of to her friends.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Yes, lots of fun stuff at Cafepress. It raises the question as to how we show ourselves to the world. I suspect that most do not show the bumper sticker?

Anyway part is defined as how we wish to be seen and part howwe are seen by others. It's that part which gives the surprises and the good news is more acceptance.

Does your partner like, dislike or tolerate your eunuch state? How is this shown?

[butterflyjack (imported)]

Hi Daifu..The word you are loking for might be gender-neutral...But what you have described in your relationship with your partner might be described as female subservient?

N'est ce pas?? smooches Jackie

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

No, I suspect Sub/Dom might be something different. It was more a notification that one's gender is not viewed as it was, but the person still valued.

The way the world sees the eunuch may not be so accepting yet. Do we need to change this? While there are few famous eunuchs today, time was in China, they were different in dress and behavior.

[tugon (imported)]

I would like to have some old fashioned night shirts.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

I would like to have some old fashioned night shirts.

The right matching hat would be essential?

[tugon (imported)]

The right matching hat would be essential?

And Ma in her kerchief

And I in my cap,

[Mac (imported)]

I would like to have some old fashioned night shirts.

The last few years my wife has been making matching unisex night shirts for us. She also likes to wear some matching casual unisex like clothing (jeans, t-shirts, sweats, etc,) and other matching slacks and shirts, etc. Haven't yet been able to get her to go more to the feminine side.

[daifu-orchid (imported)]

Maybe here is an link to inspiration. She wouldn't need to make it at all....

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/The-hanf ... 87210.html

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Code-Gea ... 53877.html

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Hot-Sale ... 73459.html

and then there is this eunuch, really quite different....

http://www.aliexpress.com/item/Special- ... 35623.html

Everyone to their preferences, I guess, unless you gained access to the Qing court and ended up with this outfit?

New uniform for our fearless leaders?