Good Morning!

I just want to respond to something Ms. XNoCTuRNaLRoSeX posted in a thread that closed while I was gone on business. I totally concur that a "real" man stays with his Woman and doesn't fart around with various ladies in his life. Many successful and highly regarded men stay with their original spouse throughout their lifetime. Then there are many clowns who play roulette with Women.

I've not had the good fortune to meet my life mate yet, but I am anxious to. Another point by Ms. XNoCTuRNaLRoSeX -- she described an egalitarian marriage, which I support. I like being with a strong Woman. Even though most of the time I enjoy being submissive, it is fun to change things around. Play time is *not* the end-all, it is only the beginning. For a couple to survive, both parties must have a balance of power with no one in particular being "in charge".

Anyway, thanks for your thoughts, Ma'am. I hope I made sense.

- Jim

slave_jim (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 04, 2002 4:50 am I totally concur that a "real" man stays with his Woman and doesn't fart around with various ladies in his life. Many successful and highly regarded men stay with their original spouse throughout their lifetime. Then there are many clowns who play roulette with Women.

The same applies to women. Many women are also guilty of unfaithfullness and lack of commitment.

A successful marriage depends on faithfullness and commitment of both partners.

Relationships require a lot of giving by both partners. Trust, communication, affection, etc. All that good stuff. I think that people rush into marriage too fast and/or they don't completely bare themselves to their partner. Oh, what do I know, I'm just a youngin`.. *laughs*

Cheating on someone means you're not into the relationship. And.. it just boggles my mind how people do these things to the people they supposedly love. If you really loved someone, you won't be able to hurt them. Well, I can't fathom people that hurt their partners.....

I hate ending things with a bunch of periods. There, I'll end here. *smiles*