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Jealous wife cuts off husband’s sex organ

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By JOSEPH JUBELAG

GENERAL SANTOS CITY – A jealous wife cut off the penis of her husband while the victim was asleep in Buluan, Maguindano, last Sunday.

Police said the victim, Aladin Diwali, figured in a heated altercation with his wife identified only as “Neneng” who confronted him over his illicit affair with another woman.

Diwali who was reeking with liquor fell asleep after their verbal tussle.

While her husband was asleep, the wife stripped off her husband’s trousers and, with the use of a kitchen knife, slashed at his penis. The victim was brought to the provincial hospital in Koranadal City in South Cotabato but attending doctors said they could hardly restore the husband’s mutilated sex organ.

The wife told police that she cut off her husband’s private organ because she can no longer bear her husband’s womanizing habit.

China, Vietnam, Thailand and the Philippines seem to be hotbeds of this sort of thing. Even here in the West, a disproportionate number of cases of male genital mutilation by women seem to be done by women from these areas. Is there something about the culture there that makes it seem acceptable, or is it a case of publicity from one such mutilation inspiring the next woman to play copycat? Or is it, perhaps, that men in these areas are more prone to philandering? It seems curious that so many of these cases come from just these four places. Lorena Bobbitt was the last woman with no East Asia connections I recall who's been arrested for the crime, and that was over 20 years ago.

The phrase "could hardly restore" is tantalizingly vague. Does that mean that they restored his penis with great difficulty or that it was too difficult to restore? In either case, it appears that the woman was a believer in the saying, "If it's worth doing, it's worth doing right."

Sandi

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 29, 2014 4:34 pm China, Vietnam, Thailand and the Philippines seem to be hotbeds of this sort of thing. Even here in the West, a disproportionate number of cases of male genital mutilation by women seem to be done by women from these areas. Is there something about the culture there that makes it seem acceptable, or is it a case of publicity from one such mutilation inspiring the next woman to play copycat? Or is it, perhaps, that men in these areas are more prone to philandering? It seems curious that so many of these cases come from just these four places. Lorena Bobbitt was the last woman with no East Asia connections I recall who's been arrested for the crime, and that was over 20 years ago.

The phrase "could hardly restore" is tantalizingly vague. Does that mean that they restored his penis with great difficulty or that it was too difficult to restore? In either case, it appears that the woman was a believer in the saying, "If it's worth doing, it's worth doing right."

Sandi

I think the men in those areas are open philanderers and do it in a way that is embarrassing and insulting to the women and is an overtly sexual slight. In places like France or US, philandering is usually more secretive and often implies other emotional fulfillment. I think the men in Vietnam and Philipines probably go out for night of sex with younger woman and then come home drunk with no excusing and furthermore when the women confront their drunk, cheating husband they probably just get abusive. That could occur in all cultures of course, but I think it is common in SouthEast Asia to cheat and make a show of it.

Wasn't Lorena Bobbitt of Phillipine extraction? Smooches Sandi..The bastard probably deserved it..I'll guarantee the drunken bum beat her up tooScrew him...

butterflyjack (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 30, 2014 8:00 am Wasn't Lorena Bobbitt of Phillipine extraction? Smooches Sandi..The bastard probably deserved it..I'll guarantee the drunken bum beat her up tooScrew him...

From Quito, Ecuador, not the Philippines. (Yeah, I had to look it up on Wikipedia.)

Sandi

Pene juega, pene paga.

I did a job in China (story to follow). Prostitutes were assigned at the start of the trip. I declined. I made a comment to the translator that I did not want to do something for the moment which would cause long term problems. The translator allowed as how that practice also caused domestic problems with wives in Chinese society.

SplitDik (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 29, 2014 11:56 pm I think the men in those areas are open philanderers and do it in a way that is embarrassing and insulting to the women and is an overtly sexual slight. In places like France or US, philandering is usually more secretive and often implies other emotional fulfillment. I think the men in Vietnam and Philipines probably go out for night of sex with younger woman and then come home drunk with no excusing and furthermore when the women confront their drunk, cheating husband they probably just get abusive. That could occur in all cultures of course, but I think it is common in SouthEast Asia to cheat and make a show of it.

I offer a differing opinion, at least on the Philippino women. I have the misfortune to know something about Philippino women, they are INSANE. Their culture puts great shame on the wife in any dysfunctional marriage, and the women are dangerously intolerant of any humiliation caused by a philandering husband, they are known to attack and even murder any boyfriend that goes astray. As for divorce, there is no divorce in the Philippines, and among Philippino women here in the U.S., they are universally very averse to the idea of divorce, and go to what I consider quite insane measures to conceal a divorce in their past if they ever are divorced. No matter what the cause of a divorce, a Philippino woman feels very humiliated by a divorce.

Deacon may be on to something. There are a lot of rigid societies in the world, but people are the same. Often women bear the brunt of the gossip (I love the line in one Miranda Lambert song about Mama's phone ringing off the hook when word got around to the barflies and the Baptists) and social humiliations in those societies.

I don't think that I would have stated it as forcefully as DEACONBLUES but I did think that a disproportionate number of these stories were from the Philippine Islands. So no I can say that my reaction wasn't wrong.

DeaconBlues (imported) wrote: Sun Nov 30, 2014 11:30 pm I offer a differing opinion, at least on the Philippino women. I have the misfortune to know something about Philippino women, they are INSANE. Their culture puts great shame on the wife in any dysfunctional marriage, and the women are dangerously intolerant of any humiliation caused by a philandering husband, they are known to attack and even murder any boyfriend that goes astray. As for divorce, there is no divorce in the Philippines, and among Philippino women here in the U.S., they are universally very averse to the idea of divorce, and go to what I consider quite insane measures to conceal a divorce in their past if they ever are divorced. No matter what the cause of a divorce, a Philippino woman feels very humiliated by a divorce.

Actually, that's not a differing opinion -- I'm sort of saying the so thing. My point is that in those countries the cheating is extra humiliating. I do think the guys probably flaunt it more, and you're probably right that the marriage breakdown might reflect more strongly on the women there. In US I think a woman's reaction to man cheating is mostly sadness, a blow to self-esteem and disgust, whereas in other cultures it is more humiliation and anger. It is a subtle difference but can mean quite different behavior.