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Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:11 am
by mccrayle (imported)
Not sure in what forum this belongs, so I'm posting it here:
Suppose someone wants to get rid of all of the following:
a) erections
b) ejuculations
c) orgasms (i.e. the spasm-like contractions of the prostate area)
Is there a way to achieve that, and if yes, what would be the simplest, medically least 'drastic' way to achieve it?
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:55 am
by kristoff
mccrayle (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 18, 2013 6:11 am
Not sure in what forum this belongs, so I'm posting it here:
Suppose someone wants to get rid of all of the following:
a) erections
b) ejuculations
c) orgasms (i.e. the spasm-like contractions of the prostate area)
Is there a way to achieve that, and if yes, what would be the simplest, medically least 'drastic' way to achieve it?
Probably castration.
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 10:26 am
by mccrayle (imported)
Probably castration.
Ok. But from what I read here on this site, that's not a sure bet; many castrates still can have all three. Right?
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:39 pm
by kristoff
mccrayle (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 18, 2013 10:26 am
Ok. But from what I read here on this site, that's not a sure bet; many castrates still can have all three. Right?
Possible, but most do not experience them.
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 1:57 pm
by unencumbered (imported)
kristoff wrote: Tue Jun 18, 2013 12:39 pm
Possible, but most do not experience them.
Unless one is taking TRT, of course.
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Tue Jun 18, 2013 5:04 pm
by tugon (imported)
Or if you are me. A no T eunuch for 15 years I can cause myself to become erect and have dry orgasms. I rarely have spontaneous erections unless talking to a very good looking man or in a rare erotic dream.
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 3:04 am
by scatra2791 (imported)
tugon (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 18, 2013 5:04 pm
Or if you are me. A no T eunuch for 15 years
Its amazing that you have had no T for such a long time.
On the one hand it inspires me to believe I could do the same and hopefully longer but then on the other hand, all the trials and tribulations that come with it scare me slightly.
I have a question for you Tugon, (obviously feel free not to answer

) in one word, how would you describe your life since having no T?
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 3:47 am
by nullorchis (imported)
Some say, " cigarettes and whiskey and wild wild women, will drive you crazy, will drive you insane..........................." (a song)
Having been cursed with high testosterone throughout most of my life, and now at last experiencing low testosterone, it is my contention that it was T that drove me crazy to the point of nearly becoming insane.
Achieving a low enough T level to cease having strong overpowering mental and physical sexual feelings and urges put me back in control of my thoughts, emotions, actions.
We like to think that we can control our minds, our thoughts, our actions.
But just look at how many educated, proper, intelligent men, gay and straight, throughout history have lost control of themselves and got mixed up in some sort of sorted sexual affair.
I contend it is nature's testosterone that overwhelms us and makes us engage in prime-evil activities.
In one word I would describe being low T as being FREE. Free at last. LESS has turned out to be much preferable than more .
Nature really has us men by the balls.
The grip is strong.
It is so strong most don't even want to think about what it might be like to be out of that grip.
Most men with average level of T manage to stay in control.
Others (I contend who have high T ) loose control one way or another though actions or just internally.
A few crave to be free of the grip, but breaking free is not personally, or technically, easy.
If being free of the grip of T is deep seated, well intentioned, then not being able to break free creates a whole new set of problems.
But after multiple years of torture, finally breaking free made me have a new appreciation and understanding of freedom.
This does not apply to most men who are in a state of hormonal balance and they can not possibly begin to understand or have empathy.
Only when one has experienced the before and after can one achieve a real understanding.
How does one explain being free from T ? How does one explain any kind of internal feelings or emotions ?
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 5:43 am
by tugon (imported)
scatra2791 (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 19, 2013 3:04 am
Its amazing that you have had no T for such a long time.
On the one hand it inspires me to believe I could do the same and hopefully longer but then on the other hand, all the trials and tribulations that come with it scare me slightly.
I have a question for you Tugon, (obviously feel free not to answer

) in one word, how would you describe your life since having no T?
Genuine! If I had to pick one word. Under the influence of T I struggled with how I thought of myself and how T fueled my negative behaviors. In some ways I felt like two people in one but now I am truly myself.
Re: Becoming 'desexed'
Posted: Wed Jun 19, 2013 5:55 am
by scatra2791 (imported)
Thank you for your honesty
I can relate to the feeling like two people, if not in my case, I sometimes feel like I have a billion "me's" competing with each other all the time!
PS. Is that dog in your avatar yours? If so, it is very cute
Best Wishes