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Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 1:34 pm
by showpony21 (imported)
I am wondering if there are any castrated men who had sex with women after the procedure?

Or if any women had sex with a castrated men.

By castrated, I mean both testicles are not producing testosterone (surgically, chemically or because of medical necessity, it doesn't matter how).

If the above statements describe you, please post stating:

your gender

how you were castrated

whether you are on HRT

and finally your experience (what was positive and what was negative?)

It seems that most of the castrated males are gay or transexual, not many are androgyne, bisexual or straight.

Thanks

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 5:35 pm
by JesusA (imported)
Hello,

Your post reads far more like an undergraduate student collecting data for a term paper than that of someone who is seeking information for personal knowledge. The answers to all of your questions are, of course, scattered among the many posts here on the Eunuch Archive.

If you are really seeking this information just for your own knowledge, you need to do some serious reading of what others have already written. Once you have gained some knowledge and can ask appropriate questions, they will answer your questions and more. If you are gathering research data for a university course, much of the information answering your questions has already been published in academic (primarily medical) journals.

If you want to read the journal articles, please send me an email at:

JAzevado (at) gmail (dot) com

I can send you PDF copies of the relevant articles on which I am a co-author. I would ask that you let me know what class it is for and the subject of your proposed paper so that I can select the appropriate articles.

My research colleague – another PhD academic – will be leaving for Australia next week. He will be a visiting scholar at La Trobe University in Melbourne and, I’m sure, he would be happy to speak with you if you are in that part of the country.

–––Jesus A.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 6:55 pm
by showpony21 (imported)
I'm sorry if my phrasing was too straightforward and tactless but i was wondering about this purely for self knowledge. This topic was meant as a general poll to see the effects of castration on sex life with or without HRT.

I apologise if I hurt anyone's feelngs and that was not my intention.

I just wanted a post to unify some of what has been scattered around the forum and perhaps read new personal experience stories.

Also I think it would be more easy to contact members through a new post rather than an old one.

Thanks.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 06, 2012 7:15 pm
by Hash (imported)
showpony,

Well I have had sex with one woman since being castrated multiple times over the last six years although not recently. This last year my ability to have sex has declined, but I had sex with no real problems up until about year ago. Was it different without my testicles, yes a little bit different, but not all that much. I could not feel my testicles tighten up or pull up and I didn't ejaculate as powerfully, but it was still good. Granted, I was using compounded testosterone replacement, but not the prescribed amount. Without the testosterone I doubt that I could have had sex as long as I did. Any other questions? In retrospect, testicles supply a small amount of sperm and testosterone, your body won't miss the sperm because you don't need them, testosterone though is necessary for sexual desire and erections, without testosterone your penis will eventually shrink and become useless, but you won't really care. If you're married your wife might care, especially if she's young, if she's older, not so much probably.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Wed Mar 07, 2012 5:09 am
by Caith721 (imported)
My gender is female, my physical sex is male, my status is TG eunuch.

Dr. Reed in Miami performed my orchiectomy in June 2011.

HRT consists of 4 mg Estrogen daily

My experience has been nothing but positive. There have been NO negatives.

I can still reliably have sex and orgasm, although there is very little ejaculate.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Thu Mar 08, 2012 2:12 pm
by devi (imported)
These terms that you are using such as gay, transexual, androgyne, bisexual, or straight are not truly discriptive of anything. If a heterosexual male makes love to a non-testosteronated individual that happens to be of the 'male' category, then this 'heterosexual' is in fact a bisexual. Because testosterone is involved with the sexual drive, a homosexual male over the course of time can be driven to have sex with a female. (Stick the gay bull in with the heifers and you still will have calves nonetheless.) Everyone is a bi-sexual whether they want to admit it or not. I doubt that most castrated males could be labeled and stereotyped as "gay" although there are many. This is because of all the people without a sexual drive we eunuchs would be THE ones due to our natural lack of testosterone -which is the primary hormone involved in the sexual drive. Years ago I made love to a woman, if you must know but I think the words that she used were for as much spunk as I had, I had no spunk to come out at all.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2012 7:41 am
by littletits (imported)
Yes I made love to more than one woman while intact. Since castrated never was able to and I never will be able to. The strange thing is I enjoy it this way and I could not care less that I can never get erect and orgasm again. My penis is a shrunken limp organ not even enough to facilitate standing to pee. I have no sexual urges at all.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Fri Mar 09, 2012 12:24 pm
by purpletomato (imported)
wanna second what Jesus said -- the answers are in the forum :). I find the formulation of your title kinda humorous though: what do you mean "vice versa"? "had sex with" is a commutative relation, and one doesn't usually say "castrated" for women.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2012 12:14 am
by punkypink (imported)
In response to one of the posts above that I feel might be misleading and was possibly posted from a narrow point of view from the poster's own personal experience, I don't know about some people, but I don't think I can have sex with a man, ever. Whatever chemicals are pumping through my system, no attraction means no attraction. It'd be far more attractive a solution to masturbate than to have sex with someone simply due to an on-going sex-drive. Also, I'd like to point out that I know of some eunuchs who have no testosterone in their system but are very much still involved in sexual activity on their own accord, and that it is misleading to say that it is testosterone that is responsible for the sex drive of a person. A sex drive is due more to the differential levels of estrogen and testosterone in an individual's body. It matters not which chemical is the one with a higher level, what matters is the difference in each chemical's levels. Personally I think some people here might be too obsessed with what chemicals they have or lack within them, to the point of failing to see how the mind plays a large part in not only who a person is, but also what they actually do or feel.

Re: Has any castrated men had sex with women or vice versa?

Posted: Tue Mar 13, 2012 3:19 am
by Caith721 (imported)
punkypink (imported) wrote: Tue Mar 13, 2012 12:14 am Personally I think some people here might be too obsessed with what chemicals they have or lack within them, to the point of failing to see how the mind plays a large part in not only who a person is, but also what they actually do or feel.

Well said, Emily. 🙏