In the chat room last night I was asked the question, "What are the advantages of being a eunuch?

I honestly couldn't think of any.

I'd like to hear opinions from eunuchs and non-eunuchs alike.

Thanks,

MacTheElderly Wolf

I cannot imagine the desire or fantasy to loose my balls and living with it since I was an adolescent.

I can and do imagine loosing my dick and living with the condition fully balled.

The desire to loose the nuts is something I cannot fathom.

Those on HRT don't count.

Moi

The advantages are many, and they are real, for me at least.

I remeber when I first started on depo provera, I will forever be in love with depo provera. Basically, everything that made my life unhappy, evaporated a few days after that first shot. I have posted elsewhere my experiences with depo provera so I will not duplicate them here, besides, you wanted only the advantages and disadvantages of being a eunuch.

So, ADVANTAGES... biggest one for me was that I suddenly quit hating myself, and I was no longer angry at the world, the rage and anger that I feel most of the time were gone! GONE!

Second, I was not a stupid horney moron anymore. I wasted too much time and money just looking to get laid. I NEVER missed my "morning wood" or any other erections that I no longed had, and I was quite happy not to have any erections. I was very happy that I was no longer making a fool of myself for any woman who I might have sex with.

My back and other muscles did not ache so much, I was a lot less tense.

I had feelings again, I could empathize easily, and I understood people. I had feelings before the depo provera, but I never understood the feelings, I just felt the feelings and drifted from one mood to another without really thinking about things. On the depo provera, I UNDERSTOOD my feelings and the feelings of others much better.

Now the disadvantages... the only REAL disadvantage that keeps me from getting castrated (aside from the insane cost of the operation) is the threat of osteo perosis and weight gain and weakness.

I would be lying if I said my depo provera (temporary and reversible) castration was ALL great. There were a few fleeting moments when I was so profoundly LONELY, and I knew that I would have been so grateful for anyone I could talk too. I felt so lonely in bed, I wanted to sleep next to someone, not for any sexual things, just wanted someone, anyone, to be with. Seriously, it was lucky for me that no con artist found me during any of those fleeting moments, I know I would have been very vulnerable at those times.

Finally, I suppose the disadvantage of not being able to have children, but really, IF you are lucky enough to have a woman you want to have children with, then sperm donors are a dime a dozen to get a woman pregnant. So infertility is NOT, in my opinion, a real disadvantage.

DeaconBlues (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 23, 2011 10:34 pm I was not a stupid horney moron anymore.

This is one of the best advantages I can claim. There is no more senseless drive to achieve orgasm or look for methods to achieve it. I can appreciate women in a very new way, rather than as simply sex objects. I still desire women for sex, but that's my personal preference. It's rather nice to appreciate them for who they are and how they behave, as well as how they look and act.

I really don't think I had a choice. My desire to be castrated seemed to grow year after year until the desire became so overwhelming and compelling I couldn't stop thinking about it, I had to be castrated. The benefits were/are calm, peace, serenity, no more drive to do and say stupid things to get off sexually. Testosterone controlled me and my thoughts, without my balls I can control myself or my sex drive. Well, really I have little to no sex drive. I think it's hard for non-eunuchs to understand why becoming a eunuch is beneficial because most men are so attached to their testicles.

My story is complicated.

I had ever a submissive nature. The thougts about castration started when i was 15, after my first (non-consensual) sex experience, whit another boy of my school. He was two years older than me. He started to fondle me in a way i disliked at first; in minutes he was into me. I cried for the pain and had a very strong orgasm at least: so i started to seek for it with other boys, but i felt guilty about sex and pleasure and about my sexuality. That feeling of guilt was joined to fantasies about submission and castration. At 17 i made some attempt with a therapist but it was not useful, and my family made all the worse.

At 19, almost an year ago, i met :hearthrob my actual master (he's 20 years older than me and he was the first i really can call like this). To be kept naked at home, to be shaved, to be "punished" (spanking mostly ) , and shared like is usual in such a kind of relations, all those things were all new for me and i felt better for a while. Nevertheless, my thoughts about castration were not over. I talked about it with him. We parted for a month, then all restarted. It restarted with the proviso that my castration could not to be only a fantasy eventually. It became reality twenty one days ago. I was used a last time as a male slave-boy in the morning. More than an hour later i had a burdizzo between my legs.

It seems my malehood is not totally off (a little remnant of testosterone), altough desire for the most part run low and my sexparts are now visibly smaller than before (especially my testicles) and i begin to need less shaving. The relative calm seems to make me really tranquil about sex (it's not simply a joke), making me really submissive. So i feel good about it and no more guilty for the first time since my puberty started.

Perhaps someone could say i was too hasty about having my nuts modded like this. I know only that now i can really accept myself.

Is there any advantage bigger than "being yourself"?

One does not need to justify being oneself as long as it does not harm others.

I think the psychological aspect of casrtation is the most important.. For me there were some real mental injuries by Christians. Those injuries really pushed me to go get castrated. I love being a Eunuch. Oh there is the issue of little strength and the issue of finger nails being paper thin. But I have a fantastic significant other that is a real help..

Lower or no sex drive resulting in a clearer mind and being a better person. One who can love another to his full potential; mentally, emotionally and physically.

punkypink (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 26, 2011 4:28 pm Is there any advantage bigger than "being yourself"?

One does not need to justify being oneself as long as it does not harm others.

Thank-you punkypink. Your quote hits the nail on the head.

Yeah, there are physical advantages, and disadvantages. These things are subjective, and vary from person to person.

Wanting to be myrself, and to be comfortable in my own body, are my reasons for desiring castration.

For me, as a guy with naturally low levels of testosterone, I don't have a burning desire to be rid of my dangly bits. I'm already about where I want to be. I'm already sterile, and because I do have "some" testosterone in my system, it's like I'm already a eunuch, who has a natural maintenance level dose of testosterone in my system.

I remain on the edge of making the decision to go "full eunuch". If I go all the way, I'd have to start hormones to maintain my bones, and overall health. On the other hand, If I did go all the way, I'd be more myself. My external body would match who I am on the inside.

Frankly, I've never been too emotionally invested in my testicles anyway. I imagine I'd feel much more comfortable without them. All they do for me now is get in the way, and sweat uncomfortably on hot days.

To just lose them, and live as I truly am... What better argument could there be?