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castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 4:01 am
by eunucherotic (imported)
Regarding RIVER's last post on my previous thread "...Now for the second part, we do not support cutters here, we ban them forever. This is not a question that is asked here.

So if you have a great need to be castrated, many of us can relate to that, we felt that way ourselves and I like many others here went to a Doctor to have it done. If you would like to learn stick around but don't bring up using a cutter again, we won't tolerate it.

River"

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First of, thank you for the warm and welcoming greeting for a newbie to this site. (note the sarcasm in that sentence 👁️‍🗨️) I merely asked for advice and offered a suggestion. I did not expect the hostility of your comments. You can catch more flies with honey, sweetie...

Since you know nothing about me, please don't try to pre-judge the reason why I wish to become a eunuch. It is certainly something of which I don't need your permission (or anyone else's) to have done. And this is why I ask questions. If I had answers, I wouldn't need to ask questions. And everyone here seems to deliberately skirt the issue. I suspect this is rather what it must have been like for women trying to get an abortion before it became legal to do so in the United States. Would you also deny clean needles to drug addicts, who would otherwise shoot up using dirty, used needles instead?

Maybe I don't belong here. This site, thus far, hasn't been very welcoming. And I don't really appreciate the dictatorial, aggressive personality you are displaying. I mean, really, comments like "banned forever", "won't be tolerated", "these are questions not asked here".....

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 5:49 am
by kristoff
eunucherotic (imported) wrote: Tue May 31, 2011 4:01 am Regarding RIVER's last post on my previous thread "...Now for the second part, we do not support cutters here, we ban them forever. This is not a question that is asked here.

So if you have a great need to be castrated, many of us can relate to that, we felt that way ourselves and I like many others here went to a Doctor to have it done. If you would like to learn stick around but don't bring up using a cutter again, we won't tolerate it.

River"

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First of, thank you for the warm and welcoming greeting for a newbie to this site. (note the sarcasm in that sentence 👁️‍🗨️) I merely asked for advice and offered a suggestion. I did not expect the hostility of your comments. You can catch more flies with honey, sweetie...

Since you know nothing about me, please don't try to pre-judge the reason why I wish to become a eunuch. It is certainly something of which I don't need your permission (or anyone else's) to have done. And this is why I ask questions. If I had answers, I wouldn't need to ask questions. And everyone here seems to deliberately skirt the issue. I suspect this is rather what it must have been like for women trying to get an abortion before it became legal to do so in the United States. Would you also deny clean needles to drug addicts, who would otherwise shoot up using dirty, used needles instead?

Maybe I don't belong here. This site, thus far, hasn't been very welcoming. And I don't really appreciate the dictatorial, aggressive personality you are displaying. I mean, really, comments like "banned forever", "won't be tolerated", "these are questions not asked here".....

You're certainly welcome to come or go as you please.

We do not allow "cutter" issues to be an issue here for some very simple reasons. We will not be party to practicing medicine without license, undertrained personnel cutting on folks is dangerous and can kill someone - we don't wish to be responsible for that. There are any number of laws under which we or I could be held to account by allowing such information to pass through our hands on the way to your's or someone elses injury or death. As a result we take the official position that we will not educate anyone about the practical matters of "cutting" and related details. We cannot control, nor would we like to, whatever you choose to do in private; we do care very much what happens on our boards.

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 8:00 am
by Riverwind (imported)
Sorry for my lack of explanation as it was midnight and I had been up sense 4am, you are most welcome here, learn as many here can help you on that path but we do not support anything to do with cutting and cutters.

River

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 12:10 pm
by punkypink (imported)
Some things should not be tolerated for very good reasons.

As for not wanting to be pre-judged, here is a simple saying anyone with any sense should know, and follow:

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Don't want to be pre-judged? Think twice about things like your forum name. Want that forum name? You know what's coming.

This forum isn't trying to win a popularity contest. It's here to serve as a network to educate and exchange legal information. Hence, whether you can catch more flies with honey or not is moot, since they're not trying to catch more flies.

Now, off you go with your queeny, "look at meee" attitude, SWEETIE.

*chortles*

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 12:32 pm
by smoothyboi (imported)
punkypink (imported) wrote: Tue May 31, 2011 12:10 pm Some things should not be tolerated for very good reasons.

As for not wanting to be pre-judged, here is a simple saying anyone with any sense should know, and follow:

You can't have your cake and eat it too.

Don't want to be pre-judged? Think twice about things like your forum name. Want that forum name? You know what's coming.

This forum isn't trying to win a popularity contest. It's here to serve as a network to educate and exchange legal information. Hence, whether you can catch more flies with honey or not is moot, since they're not trying to catch more flies.

Now, off you go with your queeny, "look at meee" attitude, SWEETIE.

*chortles*

Very well said!!!

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 3:48 pm
by Riverwind (imported)
Agreed, points.

River

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 5:15 pm
by tugon (imported)
Wow you are new and if you want to fit in you might want to figure out who is who. Some of the people you are complaining about are respected members who have been involved with this site for years. They do not deserve attitude. You started out by asking questions about one of the most dangerous ways to become a eunuch.

I am not impressed with your attitude but you might grow into a good member yet. We are a family and protective of one another. You can choose to become a member or be that cousin everyone wants to avoid. Tone it down and you might be adopted into the family.

Punkypink...who gave you approval to give me a piece of your mind? Are you sure that you can afford to do that? Best to save those fingers of yours to diddle yourself with, rather than typing nonsense. :dong:

As for my username...do I care what you think of it? What a stupid, trivial thing to try to bitch slap someone over. Get a life. I will say that my username is as valid a name as some of the names I've seen on this site (yours included, btw). I'm sure you will get over it.

As for River: if River would have bothered to explain things in her original response, none of this would be happening. I would be much more likely to accept River's reason for being snarky with me, if it were not for the fact that she then goes on to obviously agree with punkypink's snarky comments. So, this makes River's explanation merely "window dressing"...means nothing. Listen, stay away from me, and all will be well. You and your friends can use your snarky posts on other newbies.

And thanks to kristoff for her explanation.

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 5:32 pm
by A-1 (imported)
Well, anyway, eunucherotic, welcome to the ZOO.

Now at least you know a little something about the "pack". I do believe that you can find what you want and do it legally and safely. This site is just an information exchange and a place where the desperate receive instantaneous reality checks.

While the information that you seek may be obtained in any medical library in a textbook of surgery, there is more than theory to this subject. There is the subject of practice and that is the 'rub'.

Many here have travelled the road that you seek and some have died or almost died. Please pay heed to the accumulated wisdom and don't worry too much about the diverse opinions that abound here. However, the consensus that you have experienced on this subject has been obtained first hand and is seared in the psyche of a few here.

It is your life that you are risking with sadistic people who would do surgery without a license. If you hunt hard enough you can find what you seek and have it done in a safe and legal manner which will not put your life in jeopardy. It may not be cheap but you must consider what your life is worth. Look for what you need and put your own safety first. After all, what good will it do to 'lose' your balls if you die in the process? If you do not care about dying then your problem is not needing castration and not being able to get it. That kind of problem is referred to as a death wish and castration is then just an excuse.

The ones that you encounter here care enough about you to chew your ass out for considering something that could be fatal to you. Please accept that there is zero tolerance here for facillitating your risking your life in a wreckless manner when getting it done legally and safely is just a matter of having enough money.

Stay here and the 'pack' will keep you safe.

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 9:01 pm
by jemagirl (imported)
Dear eunucherotic,

Perhaps it is that your ears are burning from all the feedback and that is why your responses are so fiery, but take a moment and be calm.

No one hear is your enemy. If you stick around long enough you will understand why things are the way they are.

Huggs,

Jema

Re: castration, newbie questions, and intolerance

Posted: Tue May 31, 2011 11:47 pm
by punkypink (imported)
Laughs.

Queeny, attitude seeking, arrogant. This one won't be a keeper for sure.

Guess his deleted reply just answered the question about whether he has any sense! I get a feeling he's going to end up winning a Darwin award, and not the way he wants too if he doesn't, as they say in the army: "wake up his effing ideas".

Some people are just so self-centered and "me me me", urgh. Why is it so many of the queeny types are like that?