uselessballs (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 24, 2011 3:58 am
Hi everyone. Im 22 years old guy who is in relationship with 30 y.o. We are together for 2 years. He cheated me 3 times but everytime he told me that he loves me very much. About 4 months ago he became more agressive and he wants to fuck me everytime.
I want to calm him down. My first idea was to give him antiandrogenes but i dont know which one and which dose. Main point is not to be caught. He cant know that he takes something.
Please help me
Don't know if you should be encouraged to do something 'under-handed' to someone you say is becoming "more aggressive". You could put yourself in danger.
If you are in an abusive relationship, at the age of 22; you might want to reconsider how much you 'love' your partner. Being in an abusive 'partnership' is no partnership. It's master/slave, or some other dominating/ownership situation. But, if that's what you 'need' to survive . . .
If you are being beaten, get out, get help.
If you just don't want to have sex, you should talk to him.
Either way, it may mean you need to leave him.
From someone more than twice your age, it ain't worth it.
For anyone who wants to know about anti-androgens, a simple internet search would produce active answers; most however need physician prescription.
There are several known herbs that have estrogen properties, but seldom do they relieve testosterone aggression, or mask the established male . . . as in M-to-F, and not worth the effort and expense.
Something easy to get, and widely accepted, is Saw Palmetto Berries. It has anti-androgen properties, and typically used for prostate health in older men with swollen prostates. It shrinks the prostate, but has side effects. Long-term use of Saw Palmetto Berries have been scientifically proven to affect sex hormones in men, with noticable shrinkage of the testicles in most test subjects. Not a 'problem' in older men, but for someone who is "30", maybe. Offer a couple of doses every day as a daily regimen "for his health". Open a couple of capsules, and sprinkle over a salad, or soup, or use it to flavor gravey, or a sandwich spread. It has a peppery/sage/savory-slightly pungent taste, which lends well with salt, like black pepper does.
Hydroxycitric Acid is scientifically proven to atrophy the testicles, and is found in a few weight-loss products (not really 'readily' available without ordering). But, it is also the main chemical in Purple Mangosteen, Queen of Fruit, or Monkey Fruit (Fruit of the Garcinia tree) (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Garcinia_cambogia), and also found in Hibiscus bushes (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hibiscus_subdariffa). These plant flowers, fruit and leaves are favorites in many countries. Start giving him hibiscus tea and candies. Search for recipes to include Garcinia fruits into the daily diet.
Other vegetation that affect sex hormones (desire);
If you like to eat salads, try adding sweet violet flowers and leaves, for 'color' and texture. They grow wild all over the world in Spring and Fall. The leaves taste a little bitter, like black pepper on lemon, but the flowers taste like honey.
Several types of Sorrel 'reduce the urge'. French Sorrel is very popular salad addition, like spinach (also a sorrel). Dock (Rumex crispus) [called Yellow Dock where I'm from], is the most potent of them all. Sorrel is a good intestinal/colon tonic too.
Red clover stops testosterone/sperm production in cattle, but human trials with long-term results not found. You can get red clover tea, herb preparations, and foods quite easily.
For those reading this that want to play a prank on their partners, or experiment with their own bodies . . . realize it may be permanent, and may have legal implications/complications.