Has anyone who still has the desire to masturbate notice that they don't have the urge to reach 'completion' but can just stop practically at any time and walk away. I have noticed that I have desire but not that urgency to orgasm, but to maintain a heightened level of excitement and hold it there.

Can, though prolonged testosterone deprivation, the male sex drive shift towards more of a female one?

billie_tv (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:46 pm I have noticed that I have desire but not that urgency to orgasm, but to maintain a heightened level of excitement and hold it there.

That is one way to achieve multiple or more intense orgasms. The pleasure is extended. Some try hard to stay at the high level as long as possible. Most get it over too fast. Some like to see just how fast they can get it over with.

billie_tv (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:46 pm Can, though prolonged testosterone deprivation, the male sex drive shift towards more of a female one?

Reduce testosterone levels will drop the sex drive. I am not sure what you are asking on sex drive shift. You drive will be reduced but you will not change your sexual desires. If you like a woman you will still like woman for sexual thoughts. Same if man loving a man. Sexual orientation does not change with hormone levels

Feels like something's changed. Still do like women; but at times I feel- it's hard to explain- quite different. The great mysteries of the endrocrine system.

It is not uncommon at all for heterosexual M2F TS to end up with a preference for men after they transition. It is estimated at about 50% but Im not sure where that data came from.

Its hard for me to comment because iv always been bi sexual. but what i can say is the desire to take on the "passive" role in sex has certainly increased with the hrt. as have the new and amazing physical sensations that come with it

billie_tv (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:46 pm Has anyone who still has the desire to masturbate notice that they don't have the urge to reach 'completion' but can just stop practically at any time and walk away.

I sure feel the same. Once in a very long while, I'd want to play. But I no longer care at all whether I cum.

billie_tv (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:46 pm I have noticed that I have desire but not that urgency to orgasm, but to maintain a heightened level of excitement and hold it there.

I always liked to do that way before I had my chemical castration. I would go on for hours staying near the brink until one too many strokes brought me off.

After the chemical castration, I did that far far less frequently, in part because it is so difficult to get hard to begin with. But I seem to cum quite easily, before I even got

kyennamo (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 26, 2011 7:47 pm half hard.

billie_tv (imported) wrote: Fri Jan 07, 2011 4:46 pm Can, though prolonged testosterone deprivation, the male sex drive shift towards more of a female one?

what i can say is the desire to take on the "passive" role in sex has certainly increased with the hrt. as have the new and amazing physical sensations that come with it

Before chemical castration, I have always liked being versatile, sometimes being top and then bottom all within the same session. Not being able to get real hard now, I don't have much choice but to take the passive role any how. But I always enjoyed that too.

I still have the ability to achieve a pleasing errection when I want one ( and ONLY when I want one for the most part ). Althought if I don't concentrate or change positions I can begin to loose it. Im not sure if this ability will continue the longer im on hrt. I would be ok if I lost the ability, but would probably prefer to be able to still be intimate with my wife in that way (she would too). But ultimately fate will decide. And like I said.........there's always the passive role.

Hi This happens quite alot now. Much to my BF's anoyance I don't want sex all the time. Also when I do get an erection I find it quite hard to orgasm and realy have to work at it if I want one. It's almost like "Meh" I just don't need to cum.

I only get a real good hard EMHO erection. (early morning hard on).

It's bladder related.

It is fun to hold, but I have no need or urge to do anything with it.

Other than that, manual manipulation will make it puff up a bit, but not get hard.

In flacid state it now pulls inward like a turtle's head going back into its shell.

Since it does not get fresh air anymore when flacid, Keeping it clean is vital or it gets irritated.

it does seem to get irritated more easily now. i now have to stretch it out to clean it and get all the nooks and crannies or it gets uncomfortable. and i find that mine remain completely flacid ALL THE TIME now. the ONLY time it gets hard is when being intimate with the wife. but i can still get a raging hard on and orgasm as well ( although the volume of ejaculate has significantly decreased ). one strange thing is how quickly this all happened. 10-15 days in involuntary errections stopped. within 30 days i had quarter size hard knots behind my nipples and my body started to feel amazingly different when touched. and about 2 weeks ago i realized my testicles didn't quite fill out my scrotum the way they used to. i compared an old photo (and a faded scarline from when i went too far with an elastrator one night) and they are probably less than half their original size. my wife saw them the other day after i got out of the shower and made a joke about how pathetically small my once gigantic balls have become. i have been taking dp once a month and only 100 mg of spiro a day ( 200 mg spiro got me dehydrated and funny feeling ). as for estrogen i take 2 2mg estrofem every day. every other day i use the transdermal gel and once a week i take shot of progynon depo.( i like to cover my bases ) like i said, its been quick. im like 4 days shy of my 2 month mark and already im pretty sure that a large degree of what has happened thus far is irreversable. Ath the very least im SURE my balls would never be the same again has anyone else had such rapid testicle shrinkage?