Can anyone help?

I am not attracted sexually by my husband any longer, we want to stay together. He wants to get castrated and I think that is a good idea but cannot find the finance at the moment for someone like Doc Spector

Can anyone tell me the side effects of elastricating the testicles? Maybe using those plastic tie-tags used for electrical cables? to tie the scrotum and cause castration

Plastic ties are no good because you cannot get them tight enough, whilst they do not shrink with the skin like elastic bands. Even Elastrator Banding (although far better) is not as good as Eze banding, but only these have any chance of doing the job. You should be aware that the process can be extremely painful!

Quillman

sylviacirc (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 07, 2002 9:48 am Can anyone help?

I am not attracted sexually by my husband any longer, we want to stay together. He wants to get castrated and I think that is a good idea ...

Since there is no longer any sexual interest between the two of you, you should consider total nullification (testicles and penis) for him. He would probably be happier in the long term as he would no longer have any sexual urges. You would also not have to worry about him straying or inadvertantly poking that thing at you.

I have the opposite problem. My wife has minimal interest in actual sex and will not masturbate me either. However, she will not agree with castration or nullification unless it is medically necessary. Thus, my dilema is how to make it medically necessary.

I suggested this to you in another post.

You need to explore why your wife does not like sex before you do ANYTHING.

I am serious. There may not be any change in her attitude, but you all need to talk to a professional.

Concerned,

A-1

A-1 (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 07, 2002 8:22 pm I suggested this to you in another post.

You need to explore why your wife does not like sex before you do ANYTHING.

I am serious. There may not be any change in her attitude, but you all need to talk to a professional.

Concerned,

A-1

Maybe you mis-read - I am the wife and my Hubs is keen to be castrated. I love him as a person but not for sex, we have not had sex for over a year now, I have a man about 12 years younger than me who is my sexual partner and visits me 2 to 3 times a week, he satisfies me sexually far more than my husband ever could but I prefer my husband in all other respects and want to stay with him, I will probably change my sex partner but not my husband! We are open about it - we all sleep in the same bed on the nights I have sex - I notice my husband has to masturbate for relief while my partner and I are having intercourse. It will help him very much if he is catrated.

Mac (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 07, 2002 1:29 pm Since there is no longer any sexual interest between the two of you, you should consider total nullification (testicles and penis) for him. He would probably be happier in the long term as he would no longer have any sexual urges. You would also not have to worry about him straying or inadvertantly poking that thing at you.

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(I like the look of the couple holding hands - where he has no penis) -

I have passed on your suggestion to my husband who says he finds a penis very convenient when urinating - standing I think has an advantage over sitting to pee - but he did say that he finds the idea of removing the glans to ensure that he cannot have any sex feelings quite appealing - has anyone had experience of this?

sylviacirc (imported) wrote: Sat Jun 08, 2002 2:41 am (I like the look of the couple holding hands - where he has no penis) -

I have passed on your suggestion to my husband who says he finds a penis very convenient when urinating - standing I think has an advantage over sitting to pee - but he did say that he finds the idea of removing the glans to ensure that he cannot have any sex feelings quite appealing - has anyone had experience of this?

Sylviacirc, tell your husband that sitting to pee actually has advantages over standing. You do not splash on your pants or get the last squirt in them. It is easier to relax and completely empty your bladder when setting. You get more privacy when in public restrooms but the stall walls are frequently less adequate than in the women's restroom. However, it takes a little longer as you have to pull down your pants every time and place paper on the seat when in public restrooms. I have sat to pee full-time for the last 5 years and find the added convenience to be worth the extra effort. I will never go back to standing.

:realpisse Unfortunately, I still have my penis and testicles. :realpisse

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Mac (imported) wrote: Sat Jun 08, 2002 4:21 am I have sat to pee full-time for the last 5 years and find

> the added convenience to be worth the extra effort. I

> will never go back to standing.

As for me, I've never stood up to pee ever since I was a child. I didn't like how standing up to pee seemed to involve more coordination, and I didn't like touching my penis that much.

(I do stand up to pee on occasions where the restroom is dirty or something, which is rare since I rarely travel anywhere, but I prefer to sit.)

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Mac (imported) wrote: Sat Jun 08, 2002 4:21 am I have sat to pee full-time for the last 5 years and find

> the added co

Happousai (imported) wrote: Sat Jun 08, 2002 11:22 am nvenience to be worth the extra effort. I

> will never go back to standing.

As for me, I've never stood up to pee ever since I was a child. I didn't like how standing up to pee seemed to involve more coordination, and I didn't like touching my penis that much.

(I do stand up to pee on occasions where the restroom is dirty or something, which is rare si

nce I rarely travel anywhere, but I prefer to sit.)

Each to his/her own I suppose - I do travel quite a lot and sometimes wish I could stand up to pee - we, that is Roger (my Husband) and David (my current sex partner) often go walking in the forest and it is so much easier for them to just go behind a tree - I have to take off my pants and crouch down - and a problem if I don't have a kleenex on me - and all this - just simply having a pee starts turning the boys on - and all this us ends in David and I having sex while Roger keeps watch - and more dripping if I don't have that kleenex !

I must say we do have some fun times but poor Roger sometimes finds it stressful only having masturbation as a form of relief. We just are not sure which method to use - elastic rings or even a burdizzo.

I really like being able to stand to urinate. I know there are issues people have brought up regarding splashback, but at least in my bathroom there is a spot in the toilet that if you aim at, there is no splashback. Only when flushing.

In college the urinals were shaped in such a way that when you used them you always got splashback unless you flushed them and used them while flushing.

I don't know. The very fact that we use indoor toilets will always provide some sort of insanitary results.

For Sylviacirc I provide a memory:

Once, four of us went on a camping trip deep into the Shawnee National Forest in Illinois (usa). Three of us were veteran campers while the fourth could do nothing but complain at every little thing along the way (coffee grounds in the bottom of the cup, hauling food and water, not being able to find immediate shelter in the rain, etc). On the second day out she got a very bad rash around her privates. She didn't know what poison ivy looked like so she squatted down in a nice big patch to urinate and ended up blistering.

While I felt sorry for her, I was also happy because it shut her up - that is until we got in the car to go home. Later on in life her dog bit me during a volley ball game.

talula