Hi

[piscarean (imported)]

Greetings to all. I am not exactly new to this forum, having been a member some years ago, yet some re-introduction does appear in order.

I was involuntarily castrated some years ago in another country where the laws were rather unforgiving and perhaps rather simplistic in nature - where I was accused of having committed a sexual offense by a young woman. Whether guilty or not is immaterial, I was taken from the court and castrated, which there meant that everything was taken; yes, testicles, penis and scrotum all went, and I was left completely unable to function sexually.

For a number of years, I was destitute and bemoaned my situation continually, yet with psychiatric assistance, I eventually came to accept the inevitable and even to appreciate the calmness and serenity inherent in the total absence of sexual urges and the inevitable conflict associated therewith. I now enjoy the company of women as equals, as opposed to sexual objects. Upon occasion, I do satisfy the opposite sex in the only way that I still can, and do find them appreciative.

I do find it difficult to understand the desire, or fetish if you will, to be castrated, as expressed by so many contributors to this forum but do support the practice in the case of the oversexed, the abusers of women, and for those seeking the inner calmness and serenity thereby brought about. I particularly support the views expressed by Ms. Messalina and do encourage her to continue posting - her common sense approach is most refreshing and welcome.

Regards,

P

[Milkman (imported)]

IS this fantasy? Where on earth would they still do this openly and with legal sanction?

[Patrickchemcast (imported)]

In some arab countries it is a common procedure to remove part or all of the genitals, penis, testicles. In Darfur in Somalia, non-muslims are considered as inferior people and lose testicles and/or penis and/or hands, feet etc. This has lasted ever since islam was introduced into that area, just 1,400 years ago.

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

In some arab countries it is a common procedure to remove part or all of the genitals, penis, testicles. In Darfur in Somalia, non-muslims are considered as inferior people and lose testicles and/or penis and/or hands, feet etc. This has lasted ever since islam was introduced into that area, just 1,400 years ago.

This is a little known fact about that region. I believe that most of the countries that do this punative amputation sort of keep it quiet, and oddly enough, the small number of westerners who have had this sort of thing happen to them do not talk about it.

I suppose that if it happend to me, there are damn few people I would want to know. Firstly, even if I was convicted in some islamic kangaroo court, I would probably be ashamed to admit I had ever been accused of any sort of sex crime. Secondly, even if I knew I was innocent, I would not be getting back home telling everyone that I had left any parts back in the Middle East or Africa, some people are really crude, stupid, insensitive jerks and would no doubt speak vulgarly about any human who was un-sexed, especially an un-sexed male.

While I lived in the Middle East, some of my local friends told me that this sort of amputation does in fact happen, it is not advertised, but it does happen. They were emphatic that I never place myself in any situation that such an accusation could ever be even made against me, i.e. "DON'T ever be alone with any female, no matter who, what, why or where ever, don't be alone with any female (other than your wife or family) while in the Middle East." At first I thought they were joking, couldn't be serious, but yes, they were serious, and I took their advice.

[paring (imported)]

Not so long ago, while apartheid was still ruling South africa. Black rapist by law were castrated by removing surgically the whole package. Though, I doubt that they'd do that to white rapist. I've heard that the night before his castration, probably one of last to be done, a rapist was allowed to have sex with his spouse and he made it 12 times. The poor guys didn't have much to say for theirs defence, because they were black, they were guilty.

[Arab Nights (imported)]

My experience was pretty much like Deacon Blue's. I was told to ignore them like they did not exist. It was so refreshing to get back in the compound and talk with the Philipino wife of the camp grounds manager. Since people from the Philipines are pretty much like us, I could talk to her like an equal. God, it was refreshing.

I use humor to express my frustrations in life. One of the few phrases I learned in Arabic was, "Are you wearing panties?" It was the most outrageous thing I could think of to say to a woman in a society where she is covered in black head to toes. Of course I never would say it because it would embarrass the lady and they are a product of their rules, just as I am. The interesting thing is that when I was asked what I had learned and repeated that phrase, Arabic men rolled on the floor laughing.

The other interesting thing is that there was all the usual unauthorized fucking (but not by me, thank you). People are people. I was kind of left with the impression that it was a system to control baser urges, just as in the small church in the rural west where I was baptized.

[DeaconBlues (imported)]

I honestly believe that most criminal accusations in those places (and lately even here in the good ol' U.S.A.), have very very little to do with reality.

For example, if a woman accuses a man of rape there (or child molestation here in the U.S.), it is actually very UNlikely any sexual act has happened with the accused, but it is quite likely that the accuser is under the influence of someone who wishes to harm the accused. Possibly because the woman has been told that she will either be stoned to death for committing adultery OR she will accuse some guy she may not have even seen before (a foreigner is always the best candidate for this)... Either way, the sick perverts in the community who need to see horrid things done to others get their jollies, hmmm, in some ways, the fundamentalists trash in the Middle East is just like the fundamentalist trash here.

After I got to really understand the way things worked there, and here actually, I got a lot more careful. Even here in the U.S. I make it a point to never be in a position where any sort of accusation could be taken seriously, and I make it a point to be careful just who I piss off. Everyone always says "choose your friends wisely" but I think it is even more important to "choose your enemies carefully." There are some people out there who are really good at lying, manipulating others, twisting facts, and they are universally shameless about the harm they do to others.