fantasy?????

[F1nland2 (imported)]

what started as what i THOUGHT was just fantasy... is now becoming a possible REALITY!

in short - i met a girl over the internet. she was, surprisingly, 'for real' - just a genuine girl who liked showing her body on the web.

we became v close, and ended up 'meeting up'... three times only. since then we have both kept each other secret from our partners, and while whe haven't seen each other in two years, we communicate by mail or text at least every week... sometimes MUCH more often.

we clearly 'push' certain buttons, with each other, and what HAS happened is that we have explored our 'darker' thoughts.

quite a while ago she said that she had fantasised about castrating a man, and i admitted that i had fantasised about being castrated. we spent literally YEARS exchanging messages with different scenarios etc. to cut a long story short - we have both realised that the REAL fantasy... was us thinking that this was just a fantasy...

she really does want to do it... and i can't think of anything else!!

aside from all the usual concerns there are MAJOR outside factors - such as wives/husbands/children...

AND it has suddenly taken an extraordinary twist, just to add to everything!

i'm very happy to 'post' a much fuller story, but i don't know 'where'.

where will it get the right exposure? i'm not looking for the MAX exposure, as i know i will get all sorts of paranoid/wannabe-not/bible-bashing shite - i'm not interested if the advice starts with "you are a sick wierdo"... and the best it gets is "i reccommend 6 months of intense psychotherapy before you consider going forward"...

i'm happy to hear happy stories... and happy to hear not so happy stories, but i don't want my intelligence insulted... and i don't want to be 'preached' at.

where do i post my story? where do i ask my questions?

:-\

[blondboy (imported)]

Hi,

First of all, welcome to the forum!! To answer your question, I would personally suggest posting your experience, thoughts, and questions right here. There are some very knowledgeable and level-headed individuals who regularly read and post on this board who I know would do their best to offer advice, answer questions, and help you along your path. Naturally, you might get a few replies you don't particularly like, but take everything with a bit of patience for, from what I've seen, the people on here really do want to help others. I wish you the best of luck and look forward to having your questions answered.

[A-1 (imported)]

what started as what i THOUGHT was just fantasy... is now becoming a possible REALITY!

in short - i met a girl over the internet. she was, surprisingly, 'for real' - just a genuine girl who liked showing her body on the web.

we became v close, and ended up 'meeting up'... three times only. since then we have both kept each other secret from our partners, and while whe haven't seen each other in two years, we communicate by mail or text at least every week... sometimes MUCH more often.

we clearly 'push' certain buttons, with each other, and what HAS happened is that we have explored our 'darker' thoughts.

quite a while ago she said that she had fantasised about castrating a man, and i admitted that i had fantasised about being castrated. we spent literally YEARS exchanging messages with different scenarios etc. to cut a long story short - we have both realised that the REAL fantasy... was us thinking that this was just a fantasy...

she really does want to do it... and i can't think of anything else!!

aside from all the usual concerns there are MAJOR outside factors - such as wives/husbands/children...

AND it has suddenly taken an extraordinary twist, just to add to everything!

i'm very happy to 'post' a much fuller story, but i don't know 'where'.

where will it get the right exposure? i'm not looking for the MAX exposure, as i know i will get all sorts of paranoid/wannabe-not/bible-bashing shite - i'm not interested if the advice starts with "you are a sick wierdo"... and the best it gets is "i reccommend 6 months of intense psychotherapy before you consider going forward"...

i'm happy to hear happy stories... and happy to hear not so happy stories, but i don't want my intelligence insulted... and i don't want to be 'preached' at.

where do i post my story? where do i ask my questions?

:-\

O.K.,

Go (CLICK here...) (http://www.eunuch.org/phpNewSubmit/index.php) and post your story after you have written it, proof-read it, spell checked it and remember, a grammar check could not hurt.

Make sure that you divide it into paragraphs every 50 words or so, maximum.

Stories that are not broken into coherent thoughts are almost impossible to read.

You must do a "Copy and paste" to the form.

Or, go here... http://www.eunuch.org/main/ and click on "Submit" at the top of the page.

Be sure to keep a copy somewhere on you computer, at least until your story makes the archive.

Good luck with that castrating lover...

[tugon (imported)]

Yes there are a several of us who have been castrated. Yes we do promote lots of reading and understanding of the plus and minus of castration. We do feel strongly about chemical castration as a trial run beore castration. We also suggest that you are castrated by a medical surgeon for your safety and aftercare.

Much of what you post sounds like fantasy, I hope you wait until it is right for you and before you do anything.

[saywhat (imported)]

Unless you tell me that she is an experienced Urologist who will castrate you professionally in a medical setting, then I would not let here cut you. The testicular arteries are not like other peripheral arteries. They do not constrict and collapse with massive bleeding. If she cuts them off you will bleed to death.

That said if you are seriously interested in castration please, please take the time to read the information in this site. There is a vast wealth of information here. Please consider chemical castration first. And above all you should both talk to your partners. It is sad that you have to keep that information from your partner. You may be surprized if you tell her the truth she may want to castrate you herself!!

[Batman (imported)]

If you value your marriage and family life, then the answer isn't very hard in my opinion. What do you do? Go on a trip and come home with no testicles? I think she may notice. Not to mention the physical and mental changes that would take place if you managed to somehow hide your condition.

[clysmaniac (imported)]

I think too many men have fantasies about castration which center around the simple act itself rather with little regard to living the rest of their life without balls. The act is over in an hour or so but the rest of your life is forever. I wouldn't even seriously consider being castrated if you have not considered how being castrated will effect you for the duration and be able to accept and deal with all the changes. It seems to me that doing this without your wife knowing would be a giant issue in her trust with you.

Yes, I know what I am talking about- am married and castrated. And generally pleased with the outcome. But we knew what we were getting into as I was chemically castrated for over 2 1/2 years prior to the surgery.

[bobweekend (imported)]

I would talk to your partner about this for sure. It took me a year to convince my partner that this was the right choice for me. I am going on 5 years minus biological nuts. (I carry a set of NU-XXL nuticles in my sac)

As others have mentioned the procedure is over very quickly but the results are a life time. Because of interruptions my procedure was nearly 2 hours. I have to admit it was one of the most amazing days of my life. I did it myself with the help of a qualified mentor. (he did the hard part, all I did was cut the cords)

The important thing to do is educate yourself on the impacts of altering your body. If you are going to have your mistress do this for you then she really needs to understand anatomy and have basic suturing skills. You also have to be prepared for a trip to the ER if there are complications. http://cvm.msu.edu/student-information/ ... ery-videos this site has Vet training videos they are not a substitute for formal training, but do give an idea as to what is involved and how to tie sutures.

This is a choice and as an adult you are responsible for your own choices.

Things to think about:

Why do you feel you need this. Everyone has their own very personal reasons for wanting their nuts off. If all your reason revolve around the act vs the results there are many many play things you can do to simulate the act and those can be repeated. Once things are cut off you really can't put em back.

Hormone replacement: I for one love my testosterone and maintain myself at the top of the normal range. Others on this site hate T and try to keep theirs as low as healthy for them.

Do you want to have kids/more kids. no nuts = no more kids.

[cordonone (imported)]

...

she really does want to do it... and i can't think of anything else!!

aside from all the usual concerns there are MAJOR outside factors - such as wives/husbands/children...

AND it has suddenly taken an extraordinary twist, just to add to everything!

i'm very happy to 'post' a much fuller story, but i don't know 'where'.

...i'm not interested if the advice starts with "you are a sick wierdo"... and the best it gets is "i reccommend 6 months of intense psychotherapy before you consider going forward"...

i'm happy to hear happy stories... and happy to hear not so happy stories, but i don't want my intelligence insulted... and i don't want to be 'preached' at.

where do i post my story? where do i ask my questions?

:-\

As someone else has observed, the Archive is as good a place as any to publish something like you describe.

I think you'll find a lot of good advice here from some very level-headed people, many of whom are, like me, eunuchs.

I have three suggestions, none of which I hope you regard as insulting your intelligence:

One, the poster who said that you should have this done by a surgeon/urologist is right. You could luck out and find a competent and experienced amateur, but the risks are high. Whatever you choose to do, I'm sure that no one here would suggest that you entrust your survival of the procedure to your GF who would be doing it, presumably, for the first time.

Two, make sure you know what the physiological and psychological consequences are. Your body will change dramatically unless you go on HRT (I'd be happy to answer any questions you have about that as, I am sure, would others out here). As for the psychological, I don't know about "

6 months of intense psychotherapy,

" but it's probably not a bad idea to talk it through with a professional who is objective. You come across as someone who is in love not only with your friend but also with the idea of doing this; it won't do you any harm to be sure that you're equally as enthralled with the reality of doing it.

Three, I'm not going to preach to you about how you are handling your marital obligations, but you are going to have to address the "consequences" of any such action with your wife sooner or later; probably better to do it "sooner."

Otherwise, thanks for approaching the Board. Good luck. Be healthy. Let me know if I can answer any other questions.

[A-1 (imported)]

F1nland2;

Well. One thing is SURE.

If your GIRLFRIEND does not do it your wife probably WILL if she ever finds out.



My advice? Have your affair but keep the castration a fantasy. Of course, as I stated, it may become a REALITY if your wife finds out and you may pass yourself running up the street with your balls in your hands...