im new to this site and i have struggled for years with a gender crisis

i find myself wanting to cut off my dick and balls please pm me so we can talk about null

musicians_fury69 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:27 pm im new to this site and i have struggled for years with a gender crisis

i find myself wanting to cut off my dick and balls please pm me so we can talk about null

Welcome to the Zoo .

And please - before cutting - read the archive it is not as simple as you might think.

musicians_fury69 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:27 pm im new to this site and i have struggled for years with a gender crisis

i find myself wanting to cut off my dick and balls please pm me so we can talk about null

WELCOME to the Eunuch Archive musicians_fury

fhunter gives good advice, read the Boards. Lots of helpful information there.

Come to the chat room too. TheOtherSide, Wetherman and others are very helpful.

Woo Hoo, musicians is one of us now

musicians_fury69 (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 22, 2010 7:27 pm im new to this site and i have struggled for years with a gender crisis

i find myself wanting to cut off my dick and balls please pm me so we can talk about null

Welcome.

For starters, I'd like to suggest that wanting your physical genitals gone does not necessarily indicate a gender crisis. It could be physical dysphoria, but until we know more details I, and others here, cannot say with any certainty what you might be facing.

punkypink (imported) wrote: Tue Mar 23, 2010 9:39 am Welcome.

For starters, I'd like to suggest that wanting your physical genitals gone does not necessarily indicate a gender crisis. It could be physical dysphoria, but until we know more details I, and others here, cannot say with any certainty what you might be facing.

i have never liked the look of my dick or balls

i think they are useless!

i have been in and out of relationships because the women i date always want sex

i find sex with my penis to be a waste of time

and i have always wanted to be rid of the damn thing

What little information you have given sounds far more like a body dysphoria than a gender dysphoria. Both are very real, but what you should do about them is very different. Your first assignment is to do some reading around in the Archive and to start giving more information about your background and asking some more detailed questions that might help to focus what is best for you. The Archive is a vast support network for people in your situation, but we can't help unless we have more information.

JesusA (imported) wrote: Tue Mar 23, 2010 7:11 pm What little information you have given sounds far more like a body dysphoria than a gender dysphoria. Both are very real, but what you should do about them is very different. Your first assignment is to do some reading around in the Archive and to start giving more information about your background and asking some more detailed questions that might help to focus what is best for you. The Archive is a vast support network for people in your situation, but we can't help unless we have more information.

i really dont want to share my WHOLE life story to the public but what the hell

i grew up in Rochester NY, where all the girls in my class wanted to date me

after a while we moved to MN and my little sister was born. girls just thought it was so sweet that i had my baby sister with me all the time babysitting

after a few years of that we moved to WI, and things where kinda normal for a while. until i got my first car a beat to shit 69 dodge charger that i semi-restored

what is it with girls loving classic muscle when the guy behind the wheel is so ugly?

anyway it didnt help that i always played guitar when i wasnt in school or at work

so after a whil of that while of that we moved to MI

where i still live today

i guess the bottom line is that i have always hated my man parts cause they always led me to trouble

i got my first girlfriend pregnant and she ended up terminating

i never want to go throught that agian

there was also a time when i was still a freshman i was going out with a senior she was what you would call emo/punk she was heavily into cbt and she always talked about cutting my penis off

i pretended like i thought she was crazy but i secretly loved the idea of getting rid of it

after a few months we stoped dating

but i was never the same after i got a glimpse of her view

i have been wating to cut them off ever since she told me it was possible

If you could get rid of your genitals, would you want people to still see you as a man, or a woman, or neither?

punkypink (imported) wrote: Wed Mar 24, 2010 9:19 pm If you could get rid of your genitals, would you want people to still see you as a man, or a woman, or neither?

i would want people to see me as a man

unless i decide to get a sex change

musicians_fury69 (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 25, 2010 5:44 pm i would want people to see me as a man

unless i decide to get a sex change

You could get a sex change and still identify as a man you realise that?

We need to be clear about gender as an identity, as opposed to physical sex. In the attempt to help determine what you might be facing, the two have to undergo a clear delineation.