Now that you are castrated, how have the dynamics of your relationship changed with your spouse or significant other, if at all, vis-a-vis your sexual relations and your daily interaction with one another?

My experience is that I seem to be more clinging and affectionate now and more attentive in trying to please my wife. For my wife, sex has become her sole prerogative. She now often seems to be a bit more assertive in our everyday communications with each other.

Good question. I think we talk more and discuss issues more deeply, the process of discussing castration itself definetly opened up our communication and that has carried over into other parts of our life.

We were always pretty good on the cuddle thing so not sure that has changed much, but we werent having much sex beforehand, but when we do now its more intamit.

I was on TRT for over a year before my castration and remain on it. The main change is that I can play longer because I do not have nut pain anymore.

unencumbered (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 18, 2010 2:24 pm Now that you are castrated, how have the dynamics of your relationship changed with your spouse or significant other, if at all, vis-a-vis your sexual relations and your daily interaction with one another?

My experience is that I seem to be more clinging and affectionate now and more attentive in trying to please my wife. For my wife, sex has become her sole prerogative. She now often seems to be a bit more assertive in our everyday communications with each other.

Depends on many factors. HRT and age are major for younger couples. Reason for castration where women are far more accepting of injury or illness losses than they are of "recreational" emasculations.

Older is better for those relations where the male is unable or unwilling to avail HRT usage. The man really doesn't notice any difference. All things a man likes about women are heightened and when he finally realizes he has no desire for sex, it doesn't bother him at all. She appreciates your much improved behavior. You can be such a good boy without those boulders you were always stumbling over... Her only real downside isn't the lack of sex, but your greatly diminished imtimacy ("He couldn't keep his hands off me, now he never touches me any more"!).

My wife is quite accepting of the fact that I am non functioning. When I am on very little hrt we have a good sex life as I am very interested in her needs and wish to please her. However when I go on my full hrt replacement I lose all interest in her and only think of myself and my inability to perform to standard. Sex is a problem only for me and I wish to be nullified so I don't have to be what I am not. Only problem is how to explain this to my wife. Any suggestions would be appreciated.