Friends and Lovers,

I may be making a huge change soon IF this works out.

(Wolfie and Moi, you'd better sit down.)

I have a new man in my life and this time it isn't based on my well-known little kink.

He's 42 and just back from arranging meetings between Allah and a lot of ragheaded SOBs (after two previous tours of doing the same ,)...if you get my drift. He's now posted not-to-far from here, plans to retire soon (Lieutenant Colonel) and is a friend of BG.

His wife bailed on him during his last deployment but he's OK with that and, frankly, so am I.

He's handsome, funny (for a dedicated killer) and loves to hunt, fish, and (I'm betting,) make whoopee. He's an accomplished horseman as well. My kind of guy. I have NO designs on him, castration-wise, BTW.

Perhaps the best part is that he was awarded custody of the kids (Ex is actually under care for mental issues.) He has a son (age 7,) and a daughter, (5,) and I've met them. They are super-polite and adorable; Both adopted, BTW, the boy being from Kosovo (I think,) and the girl is a Korean/Caucasian...beautiful too. She's going to be a heartbreaker.

He's aware of my little kink but is willing to ignore the whole KiKaKo thing. If we DO really link up I'll have to retire, so to speak, from the KiKaKo, as well as give up sex with Barry T. Eunuch and Treasure T. Castrated Ladyboy...unless he'll treat Treasure as a "Special Assistant"...

So far as Ash(leigh) goes, she is part of the package or NO DEAL! He likes her and she likes him AND his tykes so maybe, just maybe.

I've accepted the fact that sex with BG and WOBG will be a thing of the past but the bonds of friendship will never break, especially since he and BG have been close buds since they both served in the same tank battalion several years ago.

If we DO join forces we'll likely move to one of BG's ranches and run the place as a working ranch and hunting/fishing lodge, with Ash(leigh) retaining management of the rest of the Empire and dividing her time between Paradise (here) and our new "homestead".

The rural school district that serves that area is excellent, very advanced, and has a kick-a55 athletic program for both boys and girls as well as an award-winning band...all good! The football team, BTW, is 7-0 so far...Yayyyy!

It's too soon to make predictions but there is genuine mutual interest. We haven't done more than share a dinner or two, maybe two short smooches, phone chats, and a long hug. (I've also detected a substantial presence in his pants, but that was by visual means only.)

The office crowd suspects something and one of my bosses muttered something about not letting me leave the firm entirely. I'm sure I can be of service to them now and then and come back at my current level if I wish.

I've always dreamed of an Army (Cavalry, or course!) wedding...the arch of sabers...the band escorting us to the O Club for the reception, etc. My dad will die of sheer joy. My sister will die of envy. (Her hubby is a winner, to tell the truth.)

Well, that's all the news that's fit to print.

Yoli

w - o - o - o - w . . . . . .

Sun is shining and I'm just now starting on my first cup, man.

I'll come back and see if I actually read this right.

I wish all the best to you and keeps hooves crossed. Finding "the one'" is not easy..but you seem to be on the right track. I hope it all works out. Dave aka sheepy

Friends and Lovers,

Moi, you'd better sit down

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Sun Oct 18, 2009 6:36 am I have a new man in my life and this.

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Yoli

Dear Yoli,

The best of wishes to you and your new horizons.

Thank You for advising me to, "sit down".

No doubt changes will come it your life regarding past associations as you have shared with us.

But, what about us ?

Or more accurately Moi, with respect to the 21st Century. All about, Me.

Will we still all have the association with our Yoli, or do we loose out too?

How about an Amazon dot Com wishlist for wedding presents?

You were here for me through years of alcohol, stress and ill health.

Don't want to loose your good heart on the board.

and

Moi

Hope this develops into something good Yoli.

As a mother with children you're going to have to learn to block some of your thoughts and to be able to hold your tongue while refraining from using any type of derrogatory and demeaning language toward other people since with kids it DOES come back to you. They might very well act out on it which might get them into trouble. You don't want them to be in hell taking aim at a never ending supply of rag whatevers. It's better that over there they take themselves and each other out (and they will) without the aid of your children. And then nobody comes back from an occupation unchanged. My best friend until he died was an older Vietnam vet. I could speak volumes on that but I won't. And then my Uncle last year did tell me that over sixty years later once in a while he still does see the face of the man in the cockpit barely a wing length away hunched over his controls and screaming something out like, "sink ship, SINK" as his plane skidded into the deck and went up in flames. I'm hoping that I'm not getting on too much of a sour note and that nobody else follows up on me. I do wish you the best and I really do think that in the end you will probably be a lot happier. And you will have earned the title of "mother" and end up the Mother Goddess of the web site. None of us here are mothers nor could we ever be. I think. Oh yeah, I forgot about our Mother Superior. Anyway good luck!

Yoli, I wish you the very best, I hope it turns out as you wish.

River

I'm happy for you Yoli.

...but...

...wife with mental issues?

...who cared for the children while he was on duty?

...but I AM paranoid.

Listen to the people at the law firm and DO NOT quit them completely. Housewifery will be a BIG adjustment for you, and kids need lots of TLC.

ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN "B"

... & take care of yourself, baby!

A-1 (imported) wrote: Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:34 pm I'm happy for you Yoli.

...but...

...wife with mental issues?

...who cared for the children while he was on duty?

...but I AM paranoid.

Listen to the people at the law firm and DO NOT quit them completely. Housewifery will be a BIG adjustment for you, and kids need lots of TLC.

ALWAYS HAVE A PLAN "B"

... & take care of yourself, baby!

A-Wun,

His younger sister and brother-in-law, (Navy folk, stationed in the US.) had the kids for a while and now they're here with him. They have a really nice nanny (From Scotland, Laddie!) and she's adjusting to our culture well. She even likes Mexican food but she REALLY needs to remember the BEANO(TM)...if you get my drift. If she forgets to use it, stay UPwind.

I won't entirely quit the law biz. If I tried they'd Yolinap me and chain me to a desk.

Let's not get too far ahead of ourselves here. We haven't become "officially" engaged and I still need to resolve some questions. One of the questions relates to that nice bulge in his trousers.."Just how big IS it?"...Does it come to "Attention" instantly on command? Is it pretty or gnarly? (Pretty=great. Gnarly=No deal.) Can he last forever? Is his spuzz too thick and gooey? (I prefer it on the thin side when I "swallow the music".) Picky, picky, picky!

I know the foregoing seems shallow and petty but, after all, I want things to be right. I think he's entitled to hold me to the same relative standards.

Will report after the first "test run", if one even occurs.

About the ex-spouse...She is from a stinking rich family, "Tidewater Aristocracy of The Old Dominion State" (See: Ol' Virginny, "Carry Me Back to..." Got that one from Dad, as might be expected.) She attended UVA, got a Master's in something or other, and was a debutante celeb, etc.

Ennyweigh, she, unknown to him at the start, had experienced some episodes as a child and young woman. I know not the exact details but she did have her ups and downs. The stress of his being off killing ragheads and the risks attendant thereto overwhelmed her to the point where she hit a new low and remained there despite all efforts by him, her family, and the professionals. She was finally adjudged "nutso" and is now in a private care facility, cutting out paper dolls and singing "Red Sails In The Sunset" in the Key of M. (I'm guessing here, and am appropriately ashamed.)

He adores her family and they love him so the kids don't lose grandparents in all this. They understand that he is entitled to a life and have responded positively to my still-semi-limited role therein. They've assured him that they will travel to attend any nuptials that take place, whether they involve me (See: Angel on Earth) or some HUSSY!

Sooooo...be of good cheer, Dear Steak Sauce. All is well...All is well.

And now...Off to my mani/pedi, thence to the ranch to "guide" a hunt! Must annoy doves...Must annoy doves....Must...(fade to gray.)

Yoli

YOU'LL BE HAPPY!!! --A few trials maybe but YOU'LL BE HAPPY!!!