I am happy because I found a great guy, and online at that. We have alot in common, and he seems to really listen to me when I talk. I am wondering should I tell him about my fantasies. I have told him alot, and I dont nessacarly want him to castrate me. I want to have a normal relationship with him, but I feel I should be totally honest with him about my life. I am happy, and he has told me that I can say anything to him. We have been very open to each other. Tell me what would you all do.

I would advise caution. Get to know him better before you plan to meet, and meet in a public place. Have a plan, as in someone who knows you personally in real life knowing where you are and when you will return. Make sure he does the same. This is just for starters.

Two words : Jeffery Dahmer.

It took me YEARS to meet up with my Internet buddies, and in the end, I'm glad I did. I was cautious, though.

Having friends is a good thing, but be careful!