My boyfriend of 10 years told me we have a problem.

He is the strong top.

I am passive bottom.

He say and is right. There are time I am not so passive.

There are times I do not wish to eat his cum at his time.

There are times when I do not wish to have his penis in my bum. And have him cum there.

There are time I do not wish to have him spank me.

Now do not get me wrong. These time are rare but happen.

I only wish to make him happy.

He says if I let him have me castrated I will be almost if not 100 % passive.

Is it true that I would be more passive castrated and no male hormone shots.

If it is so I would do it.

I'm usually not this direct in my responses however...

Castration is something you do because *YOU* want it. You don't do it for another person, you don't do it because it is a hot fantasy, and you certainly don't do it on a whim.

Now, if you want it, go for it. That is, if you've studied and have learned all the implications from doing it.

If your partner wants you to do it. RUN! That is RUN, don't walk, and get as far away from that person as you can. Now!

--LT

I do not think this is a good idea. The thing that makes you want to do the things he likes is your sex drive. If you are castrated, your sex drive will decline, and you will be less interested in doing the things he likes.

Believe it!

Both of the previous replies are very much in agreement with my thinking. Doing something, especially something permanently altering, because someone else wants you to is wrong.

I was much more angry and disagreeable when my testosterone levels were low account of my diabetes and a totally insensitive and irrational HR department at my employer. With normal levels, now, I am much more placid and agreeable because I enjoy life.

Speed:D

You should not alter yourself for another person. If this is something you do not desire for yourself tell him no. You could end up without any sex drive and not want him at anytime. Your emotions can change and how you feel about him could change. What if he does not like the new you and you break up. If he was not in your life would you have ever thought about becoming a eunuch? Do you want to live the rest of your life as a eunuch? This is not the time to be passive when making this decision.

Since I became a eunuch 11 years ago I am happier with myself and therefore more assertive than I had been. I thought I would just be a person without a desire for sex and I was wrong. I morphed into a person that was much different than before.

There is a lot to read here on the message boards. Read the stories about those who are happy and those who would give anything to return to the way they were. The one thing I think you will notice is many of us have spent years thinking is this right for us.

Please read this thread.

http://www.eunuch.org/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=4616

I did not tell you everything.

I am 55 years old.

When did I first think of castration?

When I first saw a public. one hair. I shaved it off.

I did it several times as it grew back.

than thought one day why not cut my balls off too.

Why did I think that I do not know.

I had never even heard males could lose them, I just wanted to cut then off. I thought why not cut off my penis also.:dong:

I have never been very far from thinking of doing it.

You said never for someone else.

Well if you do not do things for the ones you love who else?

You never answered my question will I become more passive?

gregwhite (imported) wrote: Mon Feb 02, 2009 2:41 pm You never answered my question will I become more passive?

No one can answer that for you. We all react to castration a little differently. As I stated I became more assertive. If we could predict individual outcomes we could have saved some members from a lot of heartache.

People that want to achieve certain effects from castration often do not get what they want. You want to be more passive. If the other side effects cause you problems you may not be passive but may be more angry or perhaps hateful for becoming a eunuch. Your plans may back fire for you and your boyfriend. Predicting results of castration is not easy.

As mentioned your love and desires to do things with him may loose interests for you. Good part of it is hormone driven. At age 55 your hormone level could already be on a decline. Becoming an eunuch may not have a large effect on you.

The smart thing would be to try chemical castration. It will give you the effects of being an eunuch. You will know how your body and mind will react to being an eunuch. It would be a good test for you and him. You have little to loose and much to gain this way.

good advice

we have a doctor friend who told me a long time ago he would take care of it if I wanted to go that way.

The doctor I talked about came right over and gave me 150mg of Depo provera. I was given 150mg after 2 weeks and now another 2 weeks another 150 mg.

i love the change.

Maybe because I wanted to be more passive I am more passive.

We make love more often with me on the recieving end. oral,:dong: anal and spanked.

I love him more and more and he loves me more.

I will stay on depo provera for a year. Then if the above stays the same or better I will let them castrate me.