My wife and I both agree we want my permanantly limp but testicles remain intact. We want my sex drive to remain and only release is milking by her or equal stimulation. Is there any knowledge on this from experience or other means? No meds wanted or trip too Em room , just want a broken to accomidate our lifestyle and wishes, her desires are taken care of by her boyfriends so we are very happy with this thought! Any thoughts or Ideas will be appreciated Carl

Large amounts of Soy / Soy Protein did this for me. I was on a mostly vegetarian diet several years ago, which had a whole lot of Soy products in it. After about two weeks or so, I was horny-as-hell but couldn't "get it up" to save my life. Also, the "horny" feeling I felt was just a little different than the "normal horny" I felt before -- sorry I can't find the words to describe it.

Masterbation (no girlfriend at the time) was a useless waste of time -- no orgasm/ejaculation, and provided very little sexual relief. The best I could get, with a long time of stimulation, were partial (very partial) erections.

After about 2 months, I stopped this diet. I totally didn't like that feeling of being very horny but unable to orgasm. Also, it was causing me mental problems. I was extrodinarily scatterbrained and unable to focus/concentrate, and it seemed to really mess with short-term memory. I kept losing my "train of thought". It would require a huge amount of concentration to remember what I was doing (like I would walk into a room to get my keys or something, then by the time I got into the room, I would forget why I walked in there).

I did manage to have ONE full orgasm during that whole 2-month period (that's really out-of-the-ordinary for a guy in his early-20's). But it required a long time of intense stimulation and intense sexual thoughts/fantasies. When I finally did ejaculate it was pretty weak and I was probably 80% flaccid 20% erect (penis was just barely "up" just a little). It was not worth the effort. I was working on myself for over an hour -- probably at least 90 minutes. Normally when masterbating I would have been at orgasm in 2-5 minutes.

Anyway, you might try loads of Soy in your diet just to see if it has any effect on you.

Personally, I now try to avoid the stuff as much as possible (difficult to do because Soy or Soy Products are found in many modern foods -- just check the ingredient labels. Almost everything has at the very least Soybean Oil or Soy Lecithin!)... And I'm *NEVER* going on an "all Soy" or "mostly Soy" diet again -- definitely not for me!!!

I dont know if this helps and I dont advise drug use as it will lead to greater issues BUT I do know that using adhd stimulants on a daily basis will leave you limp while at the same time making you horny as hell. You will try to get off for hours sometimes but you will not get very hard.

The drug itself is highly addictive though.

another one is to take something like spironolactone - testosterone blocker - this is much safer but can leave you somewhat feminized.

( i have taken both by the way )

carl32536 (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 19, 2009 10:02 am My wife and I both agree we want my permanantly limp but testicles remain intact. We want my sex drive to remain and only release is milking by her or equal stimulation. Is there any knowledge on this from experience or other means? No meds wanted or trip too Em room , just want a broken to accomidate our lifestyle and wishes, her desires are taken care of by her boyfriends so we are very happy with this thought! Any thoughts or Ideas will be appreciated Carl

Maybe you both should see a marriage counsellor. If she will not go then GO ALONE, but go...

...because, you my friend, sound like you are at the end of your rope...

I've found a combination of diabetes and cardio-arterial disease and the resultant drugs will keep flaccid most of the time.

Currently on Metformin, Atenolol, Plavix, and some others.

But seriously dude. I'm coming at this from another angle. I'm damn near driven to tears. Even with Viagra and Levitra I still don't achieve the erections I had in my twenties and thirties. Alas, apparently those days are gone.

:-\

jwa007florida (imported) wrote: Thu Feb 05, 2009 12:39 pm I've found a combination of diabetes and cardio-arterial disease and the resultant drugs will keep flaccid most of the time.

Currently on Metformin, Atenolol, Plavix, and some others.

But seriously dude. I'm coming at this from another angle. I'm damn near driven to tears. Even with Viagra and Levitra I still don't achieve the erections I had in my twenties and thirties. Alas, apparently those days are gone.

:-\

Oh yeah! Diabetes and low testosterone are often bedfellows. I can relate, indeed.

Speed

carl32536 (imported) wrote: Mon Jan 19, 2009 10:02 am My wife and I both agree we want my permanantly limp but testicles remain intact. We want my sex drive to remain and only release is milking by her or equal stimulation. Is there any knowledge on this from experience or other means? No meds wanted or trip too Em room , just want a broken to accomidate our lifestyle and wishes, her desires are taken care of by her boyfriends so we are very happy with this thought! Any thoughts or Ideas will be appreciated Carl

If you are into the cuckold lifestyle by choice, it really turns both of you on, and it doesn't limit her love for you, fine. If one or the other of you, (especially you), has coerced the other into it, you are in trouble.

I have known one couple that has maintained a cuckold relationship for over twenty years, and is very happy with it. But, what I have seen happen in four other marriages, is that the wife, no matter how sexually satisfying it is for her in the beginning, eventually looses all respect for her cuckold husband and dumps him for a lover. If you were to find yourself in this position with an inoperable penis, what would you do then?

Given that warning, from the experience of the successful cuckold couple, almost continuous use of a properly fitted chastity cage, allowing only milking for release, restricts night time erections and will cause your penis to shrink as well as loose it's ability to maintain an erection. Be warned, the resulting shrinkage is permanent and that this limited release may cause prostate problems when you get older. (See the thread "Frequent sex and masturbation in 20s and 30s linked to higher prostate cancer risk." )