As a eunuch not on HRT, I found that I like women and enjoy being with them and appreciating their beauty. I also discovered I have no sexual desire for them, nor they for me. You become a sexual non-entity not only to ladies, but to yourself also. Many different activities occupy my thoughts but sex is not one of them. Zero libido and zero ability to engage in sexual intercourse.

I find being spanked or receiving anal sex provides a very intense, pleasing substitute to sex that lack of testicles doesn't diminish. This allows me to enjoy the highly intense feelings I would otherwise miss do to lack of sexual interest.

Do other eunuchs enjoy these activities and sensations or have you any other means of savoring high intensity stimulation?

Thank you.

No, I have not found a substitute for lack of libido. Lack of libido was just that--lack of desire and it is a problem that goes away with different ways of expressing sexual play.

Exactly! There is no substitute for libido and it's benefits. I've found spanking can provide an alternative, high level means of participitating/interacting with others and feeling strong sensations for those of us unable to express sexual response. Same with receiving anal. It provides intense psychological and physical sensations even though one is not sexually excited by it.

Thank you.

There has been a couple of questions and clarification requested.

We are a heterosexual M/F couple. Spanking was introduced to us by her girlfriend. There is a protocol to provide or receive a proper spanking. On occasion we will have fun administering a good one to each other. There is plenty of feedback so each of us get what we want and enjoy doing it together. We don't tie each other up or otherwise restrain ourselves. We willingly submit to the spankings.

A couple of homosexual friends showed us the joys of receiving anal. They turned us on to strap on devices. We have a smaller one we use to service each other. The larger one I put on and she sits on me and scratches her sexual itch. Let me tell you, no libido is needed to enjoy the look on her face as she's rocking on you and gets herself off! Anal sex using strap ons is the only way a male and female can do each other with equality. We both know what it feels like to give and get because both of us experience the same feelings on either side of the strap on. It's fun!

Our homosexual friend pointed out that the ideal way to receive a spanking is to be "bitch assed" (no visible junk when bending over to receive). Having no testes satisfies that requirement. He must wear a thong to keep his lover from smashing his balls when they spank.

Having your girl poke you with a strap on makes you literally "double bitch assed"! Fun for both of you!

pais

...hmmm

...whatever happened to "real Eunuchs don't have sex?"...

...just a rhetorical question...

...welllll

...they don't.

They do have interpersonal relationships though. When she feels she needs some attention, out come the toys. Those above are two ways people can experience high intensity, albeit non sexual, interaction with each together. Spanking is non sexual. Receiving anal is sexual, yet it also can provide non sexual physical and psychological high octane pleasure. Strap on devices are passive ways of producing passion. Because one is unable to engage in intercourse doesn't mean he can't strap one on, lay back and enable the other to get her rocks off. Their useage allows and ensures those who can't, can.

...just an existential answer, if you will, to rhetoric

pais

datyiasp (imported) wrote: Wed Sep 17, 2008 1:44 pm As a eunuch not on HRT, I found that I like women and enjoy being with them and appreciating their beauty. I also discovered I have no sexual desire for them, nor they for me. You become a sexual non-entity not only to ladies, but to yourself also. Many different activities occupy my thoughts but sex is not one of them. Zero libido and zero ability to engage in sexual intercourse.

I find being spanked or receiving anal sex provides a very intense, pleasing substitute to sex that lack of testicles doesn't diminish. This allows me to enjoy the highly intense feelings I would otherwise miss do to lack of sexual interest.

Do other eunuchs enjoy these activities and sensations or have you any other means of savoring high intensity stimulation?

Thank you.

I am nearly chemically castrated and do take pleasure from receiving anal penetration.