Tell me, how can your limbido be so out of control you'd want to castrate yourself?!

I'm pretty horny, but I'd never want to chop off my nuts to control it.

Is it so bad that you fuck anything and everything?

In a word, Lovey, YES!

I realize that there are those here who are Christian, those who are something else, and those who are nothing at all. I respect all of the above, but I am a Christian, and I try to be a good one. It is my Christian faith that makes me believe that what happened to me was absolutely the will of God, and the answer to my prayers.

I married a very fine lady when I was 25. I knew at the time that I was gay, but I still didn't understand what that meant. I still believed that being gay was something that one chose, and I had chosen NOT to be gay because I did love this lady dearly.

Things went not too badly for a few years, but eventually my true self came back to haunt me. Things got worse and worse until I knew I had to do something. I had urges and desires that I simply could not control. It would have been so easy to just give in, but there was this lady in my life who was one notch short of an angel, and it would hurt her horribly if I did give in to my urges.

God, or fate, or whatever you want to call it, intervened. I had already been contemplating castration for at least two years, but my wife is also a committed nurse, and I knew she would never consent to such a thing. But then the pains started. I developed pains in my testicles that were so severe I could hardly get up out of a chair without help. It might have been psychological, I really don't know. All I know for sure is that two doctors and $7000 later I was no closer to a resolution, so I went to visit Dr. Spector. Now I am a happy eunuch. the pains are gone, but infinitely more important, that incredible sex drive is gone!

Ouch.

It seems your link is a victim of the VB code for the puking smiley ... I need to fix that ... Sorry!

...man, there's NOTHING in this life that can make existance hell any quicker than money and women.

It doesn't matter how HORNY you are, if you do not keep it at bay it will return to bite your ass and bite it hard!

HIV, diseases of all sorts, not to mention palimony, alimony and greedy lawyers lend credence to the argument.

Don't you think that if O.J Simpson had been castrated that he would not have been implicated in Nicole's murder? According to if he IS guilty or not she might even possibly still be alive.

No, Lovey. Out of control sex is one of the most awesome forces on the planet. People who cannot control themselves need the calming effect that castration brings. Of course, that should, however, be their decision and nobody else's unless a criminal conviction occurs.

So think about this the next time that you go out seeking some strange women. Sooner or later you are going to get bored with the chase and wonder to yourself why you spend all the time and money just so you can find a warm, wet place in which to stick your willie.

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Lovey (imported) wrote: Fri Mar 08, 2002 1:52 pm Tell me, how can your limbido be so out of control you'd want to castrate yourself?!

I'm pretty horny, but I'd never want to chop off my nuts to control it.

Is it so bad that you fuck anything and everything?

It comes down to how much time, money, and effort you invest to have sex, and whether or not you feel things have become excessive.

Perhaps it needs to be pointed out that after castration, most men do not NEED sex. There is not enough of that amorphous lust in you to make you uncomfortable. You rarely think about sex. You can devote more time to other activities. You calm down. Now that I have the eunuch calm, I see no reason to give it up.

With an out of control libido, you get very tired of constantly chasing women, having your thoughts full of sexual urges, cruising for prostitutes, endless nights masturbating to porn, cheating on your wife, exposing yourself to diseases. It can be expensive too -- I had a $300/week prostitution habit!

I think what really gets frustrating about a high sex drive is that rationally sex is kinda silly -- it is simply a desire to stick a body part into a hole in another person's body (or vice versa). Seems a silly reason to screw up all the other areas in your life.

If you don't have a high libido, but want to understand it's effect, all you need to do is to hang out on a street where hookers are and watch the number of cars with baby seats or religious bumper stickers that are picking up the working girls. It is very sad that men are driving to poison the positive aspects of their lives.

Now, I don't think sex is bad, but sex without love that ruins other aspects of your life has to be treated harshly.

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SplitDick (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 09, 2002 2:15 pm I had a $300/week prostitution habit!

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You make it sound like a drug habit. From personal experience I know that a person can kick a drug habit, (7 years clean). Would it not be possible to stop a destructive habit in much the same way? Drugs can be both physically and psychologically addictive. With proper counseling this can be overcome. To castrate oneself seems to me a more drastic and radical direction to take. I might be off base here, though.

I, on the other hand, enjoy the feeling of being "on edge" all the time. I find that this gives me greater energy and keeps my mind sharp throughout the day.

I also can relate to what Andrew has said about the "eunuch calm" he feels. After orgasm, days afterwards, I feel this "calm", however, my energy level decreases and my mind isn't as focused. I compare it to coming out of anesthesia after surgery.

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Davidfl (imported) wrote: Sun Mar 10, 2002 4:49 am I also can relate to what Andrew has said about the "eunuch calm" he feels. After orgasm, days afterwards, I feel this "calm", however, my energy level decreases and my mind isn't as focused. I compare it to coming out of anesthesia after surgery.

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Then it's NOT the same. Your "calm" seems to be one of exhaustion whilst sex drive builds up again. In contrast, my mind is always focused as it is not distracted by constant thoughts of sex and aggression. My energy levels do not increase or decrease, but remain at a level where I am active but not stressed.

Andrew,

I stand corrected on relating my "calm" to yours. Rather, the calm of the eunuch is much more stable, remaining the same instead of, how you put it, the up and down of a recovery time. Indeed, to maintain mental focus and minimal stress would be enviable.

SplitDick,

I was only thinking of a less radical approach to this issue. I could understand chemical castration as a proposed remedy but a physical castration seemed so permanent. I was only attempting to relate with my own life experiences. Alcohol, pot, pills and cocaine were my choices at the time. After desiring to quit they were still available all around me and it was quite difficult not caving in to the desires, which I did on several occasions but eventually I overcame.

I realize I have much to learn, so bare with me. In no way am I attempting to judge here, just open to new ideas. I've always believed in the adage, "People who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones." and I have one big glass house.