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New Forum

Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 6:51 pm
by kristoff
Effective with this thread and post, we are establishing a new forum. It is called "Orchalgia, Involuntary or Medically Needed Castration."

The purpose of the forum is to address the needs of a growing number of folks who do not choose to be eunuchs necessarily, but who find themselves in that condition. Hopefully, with a forum addressing their needs, they will feel more welcome here.

We do, after all, want to address the needs of ANYone who is dealing with eunuchism, whether voluntarily, involuntarily, or merely as an adventure in fantasy, or the explorations of curiosity.

Re: New Forum

Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:18 pm
by Paolo
And for those that don't know, orchalgia is chronic pain in the nuts.

Not to be confused with chronic pain in the ass!

Re: New Forum

Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:56 pm
by iBorg317 (imported)
What about medically created castration? I still have my testicles but due to a glandular problem they're more for decoration than anything else. My T production is not quite nothing but without any supplement (now shots after trying gels and patches) I don't register on the low end of the scale. While I don't want to be transformed into a full eunuch, if you use the definition of being ball less, the course of events has pretty much made me a balled eunuch. This group has been really helpful in helping me understand how to control my condition so that I'm livable to be around.

iBorg

Re: New Forum

Posted: Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:22 pm
by kristoff
iBorg317 (imported) wrote: Tue Feb 19, 2008 9:56 pm What about medically created castration? I still have my testicles but due to a glandular problem they're more for decoration than anything else. My T production is not quite nothing but without any supplement (now shots after trying gels and patches) I don't register on the low end of the scale. While I don't want to be transformed into a full eunuch, if you use the definition of being ball less, the course of events has pretty much made me a balled eunuch. This group has been really helpful in helping me understand how to control my condition so that I'm livable to be around.

iBorg

The forum is intended to be pretty open to many different needs here. Yours certainly fall within the range as I see it. So does MrT, and a several others around here. Post all you want, ask questions....

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:25 am
by limpdick (imported)
:dong: well, i guess i fall in here.:-\ I still have equip :dong: but not functional.low t count [just enough to keep me from depression] , no sperm count, no erections:dong: no penetrative sex possible,generally pretty much dead there. thanks to EA 🙏, which has been a good source of infoto help me along.🙏

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:13 am
by gpb3aol (imported)
Well I started out being "castrated" due to poisoning by chemotherapy. It turned out to be temperiary. Now I've chosen to become a eunuch by choice. I'm on 50mg of spironolactone. But I can relate to the feelings of castration not by choice. So I hope I can add something to this group.

Pauline.

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 10:34 am
by mrt (imported)
kristoff wrote: Tue Feb 19, 2008 6:51 pm The purpose of the forum is to address the needs of a growing number of folks who do not choose to be eunuchs necessarily, but who find themselves in that condition. Hopefully, with a forum addressing their needs, they will feel more welcome here.

We do, after all, want to address the needs of ANY one who is dealing with eunuchism, whether voluntarily, involuntarily, or merely as an adventure in fantasy, or the explorations of curiosity.

Very cool! And thank you thank you thank you! I think this is a great idea. I've fielded a lot of PVT Messages from people who don't seem to post very often in the other forums but DO want to talk about these types of things. I think it will be a plus to have this forum.

If I can re introduce myself a bit I'm a guy who had chronic pains (Orchialgia) for decades. Messed up testes (And Hypodonadism) from a virus and tried to solve the problem with a variety of schemes. Drugs, nerve block injections etc. In the end I opted for a Bilateral Orchiectomy and Testicular implants. I am happier with average male levels of Testosterone so I am on HRT. Life for me post op is much better. No pain & no shrunken up testes. Because I had been on HRT prior to the surgery not much changed there nor would I want it.

I had a few minor glitches getting the surgery done. Some doctors are not too keen on this as a solution but the doctor who did mine said its worked better then any of the other things he suggests. I don't say that this is the first thing to try btw. I do think looking at other alternatives is a good choice so you won't look back and say "I wonder if XXXX would have worked?"

I started a Yahoo group "Orchialgia" that has some file space so if your curious what other medical options are available you can download the "Orchialgia Playbook" and read over what can be done and in what order its suggested.

Thanks again for starting this forum!

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:47 pm
by I Worship Women (imported)
Maybe it is because of the way society at large views things like sex and sexual things, and society at large views those it considers to be "different", society at large including doctors take a very negative view of castration and especially of voluntary castration.

If a man has chronic pain in his testicles, pain that takes away from his quality of life, especially he has dealt with it for some time, and castration surgery would end his pain. But surgeons are very reluctant to do that.

Isn't improving the patient's quality of life a legitimate medical reason for a medical or surgical procedure? If you have something like a pinched nerve or other problem causing chronic pain in another part of your body such as your arm or leg or back, and an operation would releave it completely, most surgeons would be very happy to give their patient that relief. But if that chronic pain is in a man's testicles, or he has other legitimate reasons for needing or seeking castration, we have to let him keep on hurting because society is so uptight about sex, and men's parts.

If a woman has chronic female problems she can get medical or surgical treatment that takes care of her problem and improves her quality of life, but a man with a problem in his testicles can't. I think it is not only about how society at large views sex and sex things, but also how our still largely patriarchal male dominated cultures and society views men and males and the "destruction" of a man's manhood.

Doctors take an oath "to first do no harm." And they take that oath very seriously and also have to worry about malpractice lawsuits and medical ethics. But things like leaving a man in chronic pain when a fairly simple surgical operation would releave it and improve his quality of life does not sound to me like doing no harm.

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 2:00 pm
by mrt (imported)
I Worship Women (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:47 pm Maybe it is because of the way society at large views things like sex and sexual things, and society at large views those it considers to be "different", society at large including doctors take a very negative view of castration and especially of voluntary castration.

If a man has chronic pain in his testicles, pain that takes away from his quality of life, especially he has dealt with it for some time, and castration surgery would end his pain. But surgeons are very reluctant to do that.

Isn't improving the patient's quality of life a legitimate medical reason for a medical or surgical procedure? If you have something like a pinched nerve or other problem causing chronic pain in another part of your body such as your arm or leg or back, and an operation would releave it completely, most surgeons would be very happy to give their patient that relief. But if that chronic pain is in a man's testicles, or he has other legitimate reasons for needing or seeking castration, we have to let him keep on hurting because society is so uptight about sex, and men's parts.

If a woman has chronic female problems she can get medical or surgical treatment that takes care of her problem and improves her quality of life, but a man with a problem in his testicles can't. I think it is not only about how society at large views sex and sex things, but also how our still largely patriarchal male dominated cultures and society views men and males and the "destruction" of a man's manhood.

Doctors take an oath "to first do no harm." And they take that oath very seriously and also have to worry about malpractice lawsuits and medical ethics. But things like leaving a man in chronic pain when a fairly simple surgical operation would releave it and improve his quality of life does not sound to me like doing no harm.

Humm...

I think Doctors got into trouble giving women hysterectomies so easily and some of what we see is a bounce back. Plus there is a component that my surgeon admitted. He said that some male to female transexuals didn't want to go through the standards of care. And he did not want to be part of short circuiting that process. Oh! and the Heavens Gate cultists made anyone asking for Orchiectomy "suspect" so... I guess I understand some of that and agree that some checking is in order.

For Orchialgia - Things like consultation with the patients GP, asking them to work with a pain doctor first and even requiring some kind of simple mental health exam before surgery is booked. But yes there are doctors who simply won't do it because? I think they put themselves in our shoes (Which can't be easily done) and they say "I" would never consent to having this done to me. But they don't have the problem. These are the folks who feel that its "Dehumanizing" a term I was revolted to hear in connection with prostate cancer patients who really have little to no choice in the matter other then to accept death! And really.. Do women without ovaries really get so wigged out about this? I think its insane...

Re: New Forum

Posted: Wed Feb 20, 2008 3:24 pm
by DonFL (imported)
god where to begin..

but im glad to see this section open. If it wasn't Orchialgia, it would have been my f-ed up hormone system that did them in. Or the "beign" tumor slowly growing in one. Or one of the re-occurring infections they have caused me all my life, or yet another injury. Fate just didn't want me to stay fully male.

Unusable T, sterile, letters from 2 shrinks and a GP, and you think it would be a cinch. Yet they treat even useless and dangerous ones like gold.

Castration Dehumanising? Something ive heard too. Making me stay on chemical castration, be on the most powerful pain meds made, have to beg to be helped, and finally only get the minimum of help after the most desperate of acts. THAT'S dehumanising.

To be shrugged off as a patient without explanation after a surgery, that's dehumanising.

To be proded in places that only cause pain & more damage after telling a doctor not to, that's dehumanising.

To be made to question if you life is still worthwhile... that's the most dehumanising thing they have done to me.