As I age, I recall that I violated boundaries. Even a fleeting moment sometimes was sufficient to make a major violation. That is what I now acceept about myself. What I hope is that I did not cause too much damage.

Blaise (imported) wrote: Wed Feb 13, 2008 2:00 pm As I age, I recall that I violated boundaries. Even a fleeting moment sometimes was sufficient to make a major violation. That is what I now acceept about myself. What I hope is that I did not cause too much damage.

At this late stage I am trying to learn how to establish personal boundaries. I do not know if not understanding my need for boundaries caused me to overlook others as mine had been overlooked. During my sex addiction I was the nicest person as long as you did not enter my sexual radar. If I got a fix on you boundaries be damned. Today when I see those men I tend to hang my head.