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Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 01, 2011 10:48 am
by C&TL2745 (imported)
jockey_elance (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 01, 2011 5:57 am Sounds like a lucky husband.:dong: If it doesn't work out will you marry me?;)

LOL! Tim and I have been happily married for 20 years, but I hope you find a girl who's into what you're into. Good luck!

By the way, you might find it useful to know how Tim and I got together. On our second date, he asked me to kick him "where it hurts." I thought he was jerking my chain, so I thought I'd jerk right back and told him I only kick naked men who are tied up. I thought that was the end of it until later when we went over to his off-campus room. He pulled some rope out from his dresser drawer, threw it on the bed, and started undressing. Well, I couldn't let him call my bluff, so I tied him to his bed, and played with his penis until he got a good solid erection, and gave him a good solid knee in the groin, then left him tied up while I explored his room, looking to see what other kinky stuff he might have. (The rope was all he had.)

The night told him that his "unusual interests" weren't going to gross me out and it told me that this guy was going to be a hell of a lot of fun!

I'm not telling you that you should ask for a kick in the groin on the second date, but if your gal calls you a sick bastard and walks away, she's probably not the one you're looking for anyway. And if she takes you up on the offer, that tells you something, too. Just be prepared for a lot of women calling you a sick bastard. Just sayin'.

Sandi

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 2:00 pm
by poorpupnoballs (imported)
For me its all fantasy. Im currently with someone who has no interest in my fetish. I have to sneak to sites like this, and touch myself when she's sleeping or not home. My favorite role play always starts where the girl tries talking me into getting castrated for her, for a variety of reasons. I hold out as long as I can, thru all the persuasion. Eventually im told whether I want it or not, the appointments been made. So if I agree, at least it will be more fun. Man, I miss the girls that used to tease me like that.

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 7:31 pm
by justjustin (imported)
I used to have fantasies, but I think some of the blogs here have cured me. No way is anyone coming at me with elastrators, (something like that) or scissors or knives or even with big needles to go 'down there.'

So why do I still like reading stories? Just kinky, I guess.

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 1:25 am
by Selftailer (imported)
Castration is 100 % fantasy for me too. Furtherly it’s strictly connected with Femdom, otherwise becomes for me just something with no arousal capacity nor kinky attraction. My fantasies about could be rough or really very sweet and could even find space in an affective relationship. I had the opportunity to discover my weird addiction with some women (one of them it’s a Mistress). I have to admit I have been surprised not to have full-force-slammed-door reactions but always a certain effort to understand, acknowledge and possibly share this fantasy with me, with the intensity and mood that was acceptable for each of them. And despite the terrific numerical difference between females and males with castration fantasies I do know that this rare and unusual addiction can be found (and quite strongly) also in the Female universe. I personally met two of these women in my life with a clear, strong and cruel addition in castrating males.

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 2:13 am
by Hash (imported)
Over the years, posting here, I've reminded people that fantasies can, and often do, turn into realities. It's actually logical. If you dwell/fixate on something for a prolonged period of time, fantasizing about it, those fantasies become ingrained in the psyche and after a while, the fantasies stop producing the results or giving one the jolt or satisfaction that they once did. At this point, there's a shift in the mind where one must make the fantasy a reality. It happened to me and I was surprised when it happened. I fantasized about castration for years, it always gave me the biggest orgasms, but after years and years, the fantasy stopped and I developed an overwhelming physical desire to actually be castrated and was. Oh sure, people will say, "That'll never happen to me!" Maybe not, maybe, but the mind is a funny organ, most people don't realize they've become addicted until it's too late, they mentally deny it until it's destroyed them. I think there's a correlation between addiction & fantasy. Fantasy can be an addiction. You fantasize about what you want but can never have or are afraid to do lest you get caught or people think that you're weird because of your desire. So the castration fantasy can be an addiction. Fantasizing about castration might mean that you have some mental problem, it's extreme to say the least. Most men & women are turned on by something, a kink of some sort, but the castration kink is unusual and frightening to most men. Notice I didn't say normal, I don't think anyone is "normal," but castration is at the extreme end (my opinion) of sexual turn on's. So if castration/penectomy fantasies turn you on, I believe you'll become a eunuch sometime down the road. My two cents for what it's worth. So ask yourself, "Am I fixated on castration? Is it the main fantasy I have? Am I addicted to it, meaning that I can't move away from it for very long and always return to this fantasy for sexual satisfaction?" http://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychol ... u-id-1482/

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 5:09 am
by Selftailer (imported)
Hash (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 15, 2011 2:13 am Fantasizing about castration might mean that you have some mental problem, it's extreme to say the least. Most men & women are turned on by something, a kink of some sort, but the castration kink is unusual and frightening to most men. Notice I didn't say normal, I don't think anyone is "normal," but castration is at the extreme end (my opinion) of sexual turn on's.

I do not agree with You Hash. It's not so consequent having mental problems if You "just fantasize" about castration. You consider most "insane" castration kink as a result of its effective unpopularity. Is it correct to consider insane a fantasy only because it is unusual? (even if... at the bottom of the kinkiest rank list?).

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:04 am
by Hot (imported)
Sandy thanks for sharing and I do recall the article about the guy being drugged and losing his penis. Somehow the penis being removed was never a fantasy of mine, in fact it sort of gives me the shivvers! ha ha.... mine was always having my testicles ( we like to call them nuts ) :>) removed. On one occasion my wife told me it turned her on to think of taking my nuts out but she said she would like to do it but not want to go to jail for it. She would squeeze my nuts hard until I said '''uncle''' telling me that if she castrated me it would hurt much more. She also would squeeze the seminal cords between her index finger and thumb and get my reactions.

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:11 am
by sherifffdb (imported)
I don't think that's too far a stretch to turn a fantasy into a reality. I myself have thought about castration, and have actually did some ball torture by putting my balls into a vice. It hurt like hell, and I had blood in my sperm for a while. Just thinking about it now is giving me an arousal. I kinow my wife couldn't care less if I had my balls or not, so maybe in the future this can become a reality.

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:14 am
by Hot (imported)
Hash thank you for sharing your thoughts on the castration fantasy. I have often wondered what percent of men that had such fantasy and ultimately carried it through later had wished they had not had it done?

I think almost anything if it should become an obsession could be a problem. With me it comes and goes. When I am horny I am proned to think about being nutted. After an orgasm the fantasy thought fades away for another day! ha ha

Everyone is wired similar I suppose but differently each according to his own. I am curious to know if any women single or married ever get sexually excited thinking of castrating a man or watching it done under a safe medical environment.
Hash (imported) wrote: Thu Sep 15, 2011 2:13 am Over the years, posting here, I've reminded people that fantasies can, and often do, turn into realities. It's actually logical. If you dwell/fixate on something for a prolonged period of time, fantasizing about it, those fantasies become ingrained in the psyche and after a while, the fantasies stop producing the results or giving one the jolt or satisfaction that they once did. At this point, there's a shift in the mind where one must make the fantasy a reality. It happened to me and I was surprised when it happened. I fantasized about castration for years, it always gave me the biggest orgasms, but after years and years, the fantasy stopped and I developed an overwhelming physical desire to actually be castrated and was. Oh sure, people will say, "That'll never happen to me!" Maybe not, maybe, but the mind is a funny organ, most people don't realize they've become addicted until it's too late, they mentally deny it until it's destroyed them. I think there's a correlation between addiction & fantasy. Fantasy can be an addiction. You fantasize about what you want but can never have or are afraid to do lest you get caught or people think that you're weird because of your desire. So the castration fantasy can be an addiction. Fantasizing about castration might mean that you have some mental problem, it's extreme to say the least. Most men & women are turned on by something, a kink of some sort, but the castration kink is unusual and frightening to most men. Notice I didn't say normal, I don't think anyone is "normal," but castration is at the extreme end (my opinion) of sexual turn on's. So if castration/penectomy fantasies turn you on, I believe you'll become a eunuch sometime down the road. My two cents for what it's worth. So ask yourself, "Am I fixated on castration? Is it the main fantasy I have? Am I addicted to it, meaning that I can't move away from it for very long and always return to this fantasy for sexual satisfaction?" http://www.healthyplace.com/sex/psychol ... u-id-1482/

Re: Castration Fantasy Thoughts

Posted: Thu Sep 15, 2011 9:27 am
by Hot (imported)
One little story I will share with you. This actually happened about a year ago.

We had a big male dog neutered. He was probably a year and half old. Big dog. He was a problem because he would always be taking off and rutting around sometime for 2 or 3 days.

He was scheduled for his castration on a Monday. The receptionist at the clinic was a very attractive sexy blonde, married in her 40's. Took the dog in for an 8am appointment and came back to pick him up about 4pm. The male vet that castrated the dog came out to the reception desk and only he, the receptionist and I was there. He told me the procedure went well with no complications. He said it took a little longer than usual as our dog was very well endowed, he had some big ones. And then saying removing those will help keep him home.

I happened to look at the secretary at this very moment and she was quite amused and smiling at the vet's comment of removing the dogs big nuts. I could tell it was somewhat of a turn on for her listening to the conversation.