Becki,

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Wed May 21, 2008 8:45 am Barry T. Eunuch has no particular interest in females with the happy exception of my female lover/roomie Ash(leigh) and me. He has a very few male chums he has sexual relations with, two of them being eunuchs themselves.

Barry is the sweetest, kindest, most caring, and downright fun person I know. He is goodlooking, very well-educated and well-spoken, and very much fun, sexually. He's the perfect escort for a woman who wants nothing sexual to occur or for a closet lesbian who wants to impress others with a cute MALE date.

Hmmmm...let me seeeee...Ash(leigh) would probably be more accurate in this matter but I'd say Barry has been a eunuch for at least 7-8 years now. He was castrated, via scrotal incision, by a doctor in Juarez Mexico.

He seems happy and accepting of his condition, but there is a dark side to it all that makes me dread ever meeting his mother in a dark alley. I'D be the attacker, not her.

Best Wishes,

Yoli

Thank you so much for your reply and comments.

So the eunuch you wrote about is gay. I assume of course that his being gay and having

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Wed May 21, 2008 8:45 am no particular interest in females

did not result from his castration.

But it is interesting that he does find some interest in at least some women and does have a sex life remaining this long time after castration.

Blaise (imported) wrote: Thu May 22, 2008 12:32 am Do you want a lover to be limp? Is this something you desire to do to a man--make him limp? It sounds as if you want to make a man a eunuch. Nice idea for many of us!

What is the payoff for you in fulfilling that desire? I think that I understand your desire. I just wonder what you want to do and what you want from a lover. It is so exciting to hear a woman voice that she desires what many men desire from women! You have no idea how wonderful it is to know that some woman somewhere wants to love a eunuch and even wants to make a sexually functioning man her eunuch.

As you look for that man,there are those here who would gladly let you experiment and practice! Heck, we are standing in line with our balls in hand.

I am not so sure you understand my desire at all.

As I mentioned in a previous post:

Becki2Shoe (imported) wrote: Sun May 18, 2008 9:17 am I much prefer to be masturbated by a lover than to have intercourse. Intercourse does not give me orgasm. But to be masturbated by a lover that knows how to masturbate a woman and if the lover will take the time for extended masturbation - that is divine!

Most guys don't know how to masturbate a woman or give proper, complete, satisfying oral.

Seems like a man has to experience impotence before he can become really expert at masturbating a woman and oral, as they are too eager to get on into intercourse if they are potent, then they go to sleep. I am sure there are exceptions; that is just my experience.

Perhaps a eunuch with some interest left would be good ???

So, yes, I prefer a lover to be limp.

The first eunuch I knew was a neighbor in his 20’s who had been castrated due to tumors in his nuts. We were not lovers, just neighbors. Then one day I tripped and fell down the stairs and sprained both wrists. Being a good neighbor he helped me while I recovered. He not only shopped, cooked, and cleaned my apt but also bathed me, washed my hair, shaved me, etc.

He was straight and had been castrated about a year at that time and was impotent but he still had a great interest in the female body even though he was unable to penetrate me. He seemed overjoyed to undress me, bathe me, shave me, apply moisturizer, massage me, etc. He would do anything to touch my body and would spend hours kissing me all over my body, nursing my breasts and masturbating me. I taught him how to do oral sex the way I like and he would spend hours pleasing me that way.

It was really great that he did not get aggressive or forceful with me and did not get horny the way uncut men do, especially after spending hours together when we were naked.

He was somewhat frustrated by his inability to penetrate me but it was not the way uncut males express their frustration. He expressed his passionate frustration by extended hugging, clinging, kissing, and sucking. Perhaps it was more of a mental thing, expressing affection and foreplay as a way of trying to achieve some sort of satisfaction. Not that he needed release the way a man does but he said he remembered how fucking used to feel and struggled to get it up. Even when I sucked him he said if felt wonderful but he still did not get hard enough to penetrate me.

Perhaps he was expressing what remained of his castrated manhood? I have read that sometimes it takes a while for a man to lose all of his desire after being castrated? Some lose it immediately and others take a while? Was this the death throes of his sexuality?

He was always extremely - nice, subservient, gentle, and obedient – totally unlike any man I had ever known. Like I mentioned, he had been castrated for about a year and I understand that castration sometimes changes a man to be like that.

I hope so because I loved that kind of extended, affectionate attention and since he is no more around I am trying to learn all I can about straight eunuchs.

So that is what I seek and desire – my desire is NOT to make my lover limp or to castrate him – but if that is what it takes – oh well!

All eunuchs seem to be different. Some say once you castrate a man he loses all interest in women – but I know that is not always true for all eunuchs. And, it seems that all eunuchs do not become submissive but I know that some do. So I am just trying to learn as much as I can about what happens to a man after you castrate him because that is the kind of friend or lover that I prefer.

I see a lot here on this website about castration and guys have fantasies about being castrated, but not so much about the nature of eunuchs and life with eunuchs even tho there are threads with that title.

Becki2Shoe (imported) wrote: Mon May 26, 2008 1:46 pm I am not so sure you understand my desire at all.

As I mentioned in a previous post:

Becki2Shoe (imported) wrote: Sun May 18, 2008 9:17 am I much prefer to be masturbated by a lover than to have intercourse. Intercourse does not give me orgasm. But to be masturbated by a lover that knows how to masturbate a woman and if the lover will take the time for extended masturbation - that is divine!

Most guys don't know how to masturbate a woman or give proper, complete, satisfying oral.

Seems like a man has to experience impotence before he can become really expert at masturbating a woman and oral, as they are too eager to get on into intercourse if they are potent, then they go to sleep. I am sure there are exceptions; that is just my experience.

Perhaps a

Becki2Shoe (imported) wrote: Mon May 26, 2008 1:46 pm eunuch with some interest left would be good ???

So, yes, I prefer a lover to be limp.

The first eunuch I knew was a neighbor in his 20’s who had been castrated due to tumors in his nuts. We were not lovers, just neighbors. Then one day I tripped and fell down the stairs and sprained both wrists. Being a good neighbor he helped me while I recovered. He not only shopped, cooked, and cleaned my apt but also bathed me, washed my hair, shaved me, etc.

He was straight and had been castrated about a year at that time and was impotent but he still had a great interest in the female body even though he was unable to penetrate me. He seemed overjoyed to undress me, bathe me, shave me, apply moisturizer, massage me, etc. He would do anything to touch my body and would spend hours kissing me all over my body, nursing my breasts and masturbating me. I taught him how to do oral sex the way I like and he would spend hours pleasing me that way.

It was really great that he did not get aggressive or forceful with me and did not get horny the way uncut men do, especially after spending hours together when we were naked.

He was somewhat frustrated by his inability to penetrate me but it was not the way uncut males express their frustration. He expressed his passionate frustration by extended hugging, clinging, kissing, and sucking. Perhaps it was more of a mental thing, expressing affection and foreplay as a way of trying to achieve some sort of satisfaction. Not that he needed release the way a man does but he said he remembered how fucking used to feel and struggled to get it up. Even when I sucked him he said if felt wonderful but he still did not get hard enough to penetrate me.

Perhaps he was expressing what remained of his castrated manhood? I have read that sometimes it takes a while for a man to lose all of his desire after being castrated? Some lose it immediately and others take a while? Was this the death throes of his sexuality?

He was always extremely - nice, subservient, gentle, and obedient – totally unlike any man I had ever known. Like I mentioned, he had been castrated for about a year and I understand that castration sometimes changes a man to be like that.

I hope so because I loved that kind of extended, affectionate attention and since he is no more around I am trying to learn all I can about straight eunuchs.

So that is what I seek and desire –

my desire is NOT to make my love

Becki2Shoe (imported) wrote: Mon May 26, 2008 1:46 pm r limp or to castrate him – but if that is what it takes – oh well!

All eunuchs seem to be different. Some say once you castrate a man he loses all interest in women – but I know that is not always true for all eunuchs. And, it seems that all eunuchs do not become submissive but I know that some do. So I am just trying to learn as much as I can about what happens to a man after you castrate him because that is the kind of friend or lover that I prefer.

I see a lot here on this website about castration and guys have fantasies about being castrated, but not so much about the nature of eunuchs and lif

e with eunuchs even tho there are threads with that title.

You are right; I did misread what you asked. Please accept my apology.

Linda did not like my eunuch status or eunuch like status. Much of the effect of my medication caused me to mirror what you described about your eunuch friend. Your description of your relationship with him touched me.

Many descriptions in old posts here describe in considerable detail what actual eunuchs experience, even if a lot that we post here is fantasy. Many who post here are indeed eunuchs.

RE: Becki2Shoe

I did misunderstand you.I apologize.Also, I was being a tad too rhetorical, but I was trying to understand you. I ask your forgiveness for my not responding to what you asked but to something else.

Clearly, Linda did not want me to be a eunuch. She hated my loss of libido. She resented the loss of sexual desire that she had enjoyed from me for her. I never actually lost desire for her, but I just stopped thinking about making love as frequently as I had. I was much more passive and subservient than I had ever been. Linda did not like that change.

She was upset that one of my doctors lied to her about the effects of the medication. She was furious about the lying.

I don’t know how well I masturbated Linda, but I think that I learned how to share cunnilingus with her. It was a great way to make love and I think that it was really my favorite sexual practice.

I knew her well enough and she was sufficiently articulate about voicing her sexual needs that I think that she would have told me if she did not like my technique. .

Your description of your eunuch friend is simply beautiful. You touched me with your account. I can understand why you miss him.

I am pretty sexually aggressive when I not medicated with antidepressant medication. Linda liked that.

It is difficult for me to know how I am different when I am in eunuch mode, because I don’t really notice that I am different.

From the beginning, Linda and I usually made love for long intervals. We usually copulated for at least an hour at a time, often longer. Someitmes I was not fully erect during the entire time, though I usually was when I was younger.

We were extremely affectionate while we made love, but copulation was often intense at least some of the time. Making love takes many forms.

A lot that appears on this forum is clearly fantasy, but the archives reveal many details about actual experience from people who have lived and do live as eunuchs.

I loved women and desired them even when my testosterone level was extremely low, I desired making love--at least the idea of making love--

and felt immense affection for the women I loved.

At times, I would have delighted in knowing a woman who wanted me to love her without my using my penis. However, I am not certain how my experience is like that of those who have had their testicles removed or had them atrophy. However, from my reading here, I think that I have experienced being a eunuch.

Again, I apologize for not being more attentive to what you are asking. I hope others do a better job of answering you.

If I had not have HRT, I think that I would have lost most if not all libdo. I am not certain that I did not.

Gosh. I am impressed. I am a sub sissy-boy with a very low testosterone level, little ability to get hard, and much less ability to ejaculate. I am still beset by a sex drive but I can generally rise above this by remembering that I cannot perform. Why am I going to be neutered? To remove the attraction to have a sexual experience which will only be frustrating. I bang my wife three or four times a year and this is always my faking an orgasm with my limp weenie while she strongly comes three or four times. So having my nuts deactivated will only make things easier for me. Voila! Masturbation? Every four or six months I whack off, pushing my limp dick for a while. Every year or two, I actually come, a small amount of ejaculate. Now, the thought of having a dick spurting in my mout or my ass, that is a sweet thought and that one I generally realise every couple of months. After I'm altered, I'll probably keep that up. I like the guys I service.

Marc

I'm looking forward to oneday finding out what it's like to masturbate as a woman. This is a few years away though.

alba6789 (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 09, 2008 9:43 am Gosh. I am impressed. I am a sub sissy-boy with a very low testosterone level, little ability to get hard, and much less ability to ejaculate. I am still beset by a sex drive but I can generally rise above this by remembering that I cannot perform. Why am I going to be neutered? To remove the attraction to have a sexual experience which will only be frustrating. I bang my wife three or four times a year and this is always my faking an orgasm with my limp weenie while she strongly comes three or four times. So having my nuts deactivated will only make things easier for me. Voila! Masturbation? Every four or six months I whack off, pushing my limp dick for a while. Every year or two, I actually come, a small amount of ejaculate. Now, the thought of having a dick spurting in my mout or my ass, that is a sweet thought and that one I generally realise every couple of months. After I'm altered, I'll probably keep that up. I like the guys I service.

MarcLove the avatar!

joanne-f (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 12, 2008 10:47 pm I'm looking forward to oneday finding out what it's like to masturbate as a woman. This is a few years away though.

Keep in touch and let us know how the changes feel. Good luck.

I work on not masterbating