Hello there,

Messalina (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:48 pm There is another reason many of us don't voice such fantasies, even on sites such as this. We tend to receive unsolicited private messages or requests to add someone to our instant messeger lists. I for one, constantly receive these messages from men. They range from the benign request to discuss their fantasies to the more serious "Come and nut me" types.

Messalina

Messalina,

I've found that occasional reminders in the forums serve to discourage unwanted PMs. Since I've begun mentioning that I've had very few such messages awaiting when logging in. Once in a while I will respond to such a message when I know the sender from his/her postings and said person poses a valid question or requests clarification.

When it comes to the Chat Room, however, we found it necessary to completely withdraw therefrom due to constant "attention" from the "Tell me how you'd (*Choose one) castrate; penectomize; shave; eviscerate; skin(or scale); cook; inconvenience; ridicule; etc. me."

Yoli

*With two you get Egg Roll.

Sanosuku (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2009 11:40 pm I say the same as Messalina, because we get hit with a TON of emails, PMs and IM requests asking or begging us to castrate them. Although I DO have the fantasy of castrating a male, I don't want it to be just any male... I want to find someone I can actually care for, someone near my age that I could actually have a relationship with.

But this isn't a location type post so I;m not going into specifics...

Anyway, my real fantasy is finding a male willing to devote himself completely to my pleasure... being a Nympho is tough, and I've ruined multiple relationships due to being sexually unsatisfied with my partner, plus I am sadistic on top of it. I think that being in a mono relationship plus a castrated or emasculated male whose purpose is to please me is a perfect situation for me.. of course this is also assuming I can find someone willing to go along with the situation...meh.. thats why its called a fantasy ^^

Also, I WILL be ignoring ANY requests, unless I deem someone worthy of actually warrenting a reply....>_>

Just my two cents,

Sanosuku

Edit~ Wow. I actually posted for once XD

Hi Sanosuku,

Welcome! I'm so pleased to see another woman posting. Yea, girl power! Yes, I've had the recurring fantasy of sex with a eunuch. It's been mostly out of curiosity. Alert! This is NOT an invitation to anyone reading this to contact me and extend an "invitation". Nor do I want to read comments from eunuch members, telling me they aren't like that. This message isn't directed at you.

Girlfriend, I DO understand about "Being a Nympho is tough"! lol In point of fact, there's no such thing. Dr.Alfred Kinsey wrote- and Masters and Johnson echoed him that, nymphomania is nothing more than "How a male describes any female who wants sex one more time than he does".

In other words, Kinsey concluded that there's no such thing as nyphomania! It's a fictional abnormality that exists only in the minds of men as a cover-up for their own sexual insecurities. Rather than admit that it may be themselves who are undersexed, men have created the face saving myth, that women with lusty appetites in bed are oversexed!

In 1982, psychologists Robert & Theresa Crenshaw wrote in Human Sexuality magazine that even women who crave 100 orgasms a day shouldn't be labeled nymphomaniacs! Regardless of how often a woman wants sex, "In the event that the frequency and quality of the sexual behaviour is within the woman's value system, we would consider the behaviour appropriate", wrote the doctors Crenshaw. They were sex therapists at the University of California Medical school at the time.

If it isn't nymphomania, what does cause some women to indulge in sexual behaviour that most people would regard as excessive? So glad "you" asked! <giggles> My late husband (who was a "shrink") gave me the answer and my physician sister confirmed it.

Essentially, there are three basic causes of hypersexuality in women and none of them is nymphomania. Firstly, there's the noninfectious clitoric woman whose constant need for gratification stems from a purely medical condition. Don't worry guys, I won't go into detail on this one! lol Sanosuku, if you want the details PM me.

Secondly, there's the emotionally conflicted woman whose sexual lust is the manifestation of some neurotic drive. Unlike the noninfectious clitoric woman, the conflcted woman is rarely multi-orgasmic. In fact, she's often incapable of orgasm. Her sexual behaviour is aimed at punishing someone, usually herself, her parents, or both. In her classic form, her sexuality was warped from early childhood by puritanical proscriptions against sex. She was told sex was dirty and sinful. As an adult, she's rebelling against the childhood teaching. But of course, she's overreacting. She's "liberated" to the point of promiscuity, and is often mistakenly labeled a nymphomaniac. Sadly, a lot of clergyman's daughters grow up this way.

Finally, there's the woman who was simply born lustier than her peers! Unlike men, we're biologically constructed to be able to climax as often as we're stimulated to do so. Some of us, simply choose to exercise this biological "option" more frequently than others. AND why shouldn't we? Sex feels good, it's healthy exercise for the bod, and it's soothing to the nerves.

I mention of all this to you for a reason. It seems, you've had a rough go of it. AND I don't want you to be the way I was, for a long time. When you're told you're a nymphomaniac by enough people, usually disgruntled lovers who can't keep pace with you, there's real danger you'll come to believe the accusation. AND even though, it's utter nonsense.. believing it can make you quite miserable.

As you can tell, I've done a great deal of research on this. I actually presented a paper, at university on nymphomania! No one fell asleep that day!

BTW, I've a sadistic side as well. However, it mainly seems to come out when, I see a man abusing a woman. I've kneed or kicked the balls of a number of men that, made the mistake of striking a woman in my presence. Also, I've "unmanned" two rapists, whose crime I interrupted. I can be a sadistic bitch!

Anyway, thank you for putting in your "Two cents". I hope we read more from you in future. Please, feel free to contact me anytime. We randy girls should band together! Oops! Perhaps, I shouldn't use that term on this board!

Warm regards,

Messalina

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2009 1:18 am Messalina,

I've found that occasional reminders in the forums serve to discourage unwanted PMs. Since I've begun mentioning that I've had very few such messages awaiting when logging in. Once in a while I will respond to such a message when I know the sender from his/her postings and said person poses a valid question or requests clarification.

When it comes to the Chat Room, however, we found it necessary to completely withdraw therefrom due to constant "attention" from the "Tell me how you'd (*Choose one) castrate; penectomize; shave; eviscerate; skin(or scale); cook; inconvenience; ridicule; etc. me."

Yoli

*With two you get Egg Roll.

Hi Yoli,

How are you, darlin? Thank you, for the tip. How's the Texas weather? I've been meaning to reply to one of your posts re: Kinky Kastratrix Koven. However, I keep forgetting and then, I get busy again. lol But, one of these days, I promise. I've a question that, I've been meaning to ask for some time; what's the "deal" with the various levels of membership and "reputation"?

Warm regards,

Messalina

P.S. I once lived in San Antonio for a bit.

P.S. P.S. BTW, Is Galveston still there?

Messalina (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 28, 2009 11:56 pm Hi Yoli,

How are you, darlin? Thank you, for the tip. How's the Texas weather? I've been meaning to reply to one of your posts re: Kinky Kastratrix Koven. However, I keep forgetting and then, I get busy again. lol But, one of these days, I promise. I've a question that, I've been meaning to ask for some time; what's the "deal" with the various levels of membership and "reputation"?

Warm regards,

Messalina

P.S. I once lived in San Antonio for a bit.

P.S. P.S. BTW, Is Galveston still there?

Messy,

I am OK, thanks to the miracle of airconditioning and the cooooool waters of our swimming pool (it's fed from a deep well, thank Heaven.)Yesterday marked the 34th consecutive day of temps of 100F or MORE here.

Actually it's The KinkyKastrationKoven, not "Kastratrix", since none of us have actually castrated anyone (so far as I know) although our nurse member has certainly assisted in quite a few castrations a lesser number of penectomies...all for valid medical reasons, be assured.

While I've entertained a fantasy or twelve I would probably faint if someone handed me a knife or scalpel and said "Well, Yoli, get to work on him." I've seen several medical vids and I cringe at those. Oddly, the "samples" our RN member has brought for Show and Tell haven't bothered me but I have felt sadness and sympathy for the loss and/or the health issue that necessitated the removals, especially for whomever it is whose detached peepee I'm peering at.

If by "membership and reputation" you refer to the KiKaKo rather than the EIEIO...I mean EA, all I can say is that we are, at best, a loosely run outfit except for the threat of nipplesnipping and clittyclipping for those who bring unwanted attention to us. Just kidding about the punishments, of course. We would never impose more than banishment for any offense. Violence is Verboten, y'see.

"Reputation" is a non-starter with us, since we are friends first and foremost, and we have neither a pecking order nor chain of command although I am the tacitly acknowledged Alpha Loony. We just never have disputes over anything more serious than where Happy Hour will be conducted or whether to have breakfast here after an overnighter or invade the Cracker Barrel or The Magnolia Pancake House (THE most wonderful place, BTW, but we have to book in advance unless we want to wait forever. Yes, it's THAT good.)

If any of the girls wants to "borrow" Barry T. Eunuch or Houston Eunuch #1 when either or both are in town, that's at the discretion of the "boys". They are not indentured servants. Nobody has ever asked for the services if H.E.#2 but I suspect my exclusivity (along with Ash[leigh] now and then,) re "Treasure The Ladyboy" may be the cause of some jealousy on the part of a member or two. Still, if TTL wants to share some intimacy with another member then it's OK. In that regard, TTL has "been" with Barry and H.E.#1 and the couple of sessions with Barry included me, I'm happy to say. TTL and H.E.#1 had already "broken the ice" before he introduced "her" to our little posse.

Well, once again I've told you how to build a watch when you've only asked the time...sorry.

Hugs and perhaps a little touchy-feely.

Yoli

PeeYess: When were you dwelling in SA, and where, area-wise?

PeePeeYess: Yes, Galveston is still there, with the insurance industry nervously watching the weather for more hurricanes...the season approaches.

Y.

Messy,

FianceeUvBigGuy (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 29, 2009 3:16 am I am OK, thanks to the miracle of airconditioning and the cooooool waters of our swimming pool (it's fed from a deep well, thank Heaven.)Yesterday marked the 34th consecutive day of temps of 100F or MORE here.

Actually it's The KinkyKastrationKoven, not "Kastratrix", since none of us have actually castrated anyone (so far as I know) although our nurse member has certainly assisted in quite a few castrations a lesser number of penectomies...all for valid medical reasons, be assured.

While I've entertained a fantasy or twelve I would probably faint if someone handed me a knife or scalpel and said "Well, Yoli, get to work on him." I've seen several medical vids and I cringe at those. Oddly, the "samples" our RN member has brought for Show and Tell haven't bothered me but I have felt sadness and sympathy for the loss and/or the health issue that necessitated the removals, especially for whomever it is whose detached peepee I'm peering at.

If by "membership and reputation" you refer to the KiKaKo rather than the EIEIO...I mean EA, all I can say is that we are, at best, a loosely run outfit except for the threat of nipplesnipping and clittyclipping for those who bring unwanted attention to us. Just kidding about the punishments, of course. We would never impose more than banishment for any offense. Violence is Verboten, y'see.

"Reputation" is a non-starter with us, since we are friends first and foremost, and we have neither a pecking order nor chain of command although I am the tacitly acknowledged Alpha Loony. We just never have disputes over anything more serious than where Happy Hour will be conducted or whether to have breakfast here after an overnighter or invade the Cracker Barrel or The Magnolia Pancake House (THE most wonderful place, BTW, but we have to book in advance unless we want to wait forever. Yes, it's THAT good.)

If any of the girls wants to "borrow" Barry T. Eunuch or Houston Eunuch #1 when either or both are in town, that's at the discretion of the "boys". They are not indentured servants. Nobody has ever asked for the services if H.E.#2 but I suspect my exclusivity (along with Ash[leigh] now and then,) re "Treasure The Ladyboy" may be the cause of some jealousy on the part of a member or two. Still, if TTL wants to share some intimacy with another member then it's OK. In that regard, TTL has "been" with Barry and H.E.#1 and the couple of sessions with Barry included me, I'm happy to say. TTL and H.E.#1 had already "broken the ice" before he introduced "her" to our little posse.

Well, once again I've told you how to build a watch when you've only asked the time...sorry.

Hugs and perhaps a little touchy-feely.

Yoli

PeeYess: When were you dwelling in SA, and where, area-wise?

PeePeeYess: Yes, Galveston is still there, with the insurance industry nervously watching the weather for more hurricanes...the season approaches.

Y.

Hi Yolanda!

"M'lina", will do just fine... thank you very much! lol "34 consecutive days of 100F or more"! YIKES! I did the conversion to celsius and = hot as Hades! LOL

I stand corrected re:KiKaKo. However, if you've never destroyed a pair of rapist balls well, you just haven't lived! The adrenaline rush of the moment, along with the release of the pent-up fear, the pride at having successfully defended oneself, and the grim satisfaction of knowing the bastard will never do it again.... is indescribable.

BTW, I come from a medical background. My da and sis are both physicians. Mum and my best friend are both nurses. AND I'm a certified A.E.M.T. or paramedic. So, I've witnessed and or treated ghastly male genital injuries. I've felt great sadness and sympathies for the lads, as well. BTW, I've cringed at video of radical bilateral orchiectomies too.

The loss of genitalia must be devastating to a man. Fortunately, I've never witnessed or treated a penile injury so severe, removal was the only option. Just thinking about it brings on a shudder! However, I've witnessed and or treated a number of testicle injuries. Some severe enough to require removal, sadly. A good athlete ("jock' here?) friend at university suffered testicular torsion, as a result of a sports injury. Sadly, he was misdiagnosed and lost both testicles.

Sometimes, (judging by the PM requests) I don't think people get the "true" gravity of testicle loss. Besides, the emotionally devastating loss of sexual function and the ability to sire children, there are very real health consequences.

The male body is very dependent on testosterone. Absent the hormone, the male loses muscle fiber and tone. Eventually, this leads to muscle atrophy. Also, the male loses bone density. Eventually, this leads to osteoperosis. Ultimately, both these conditions become life-threatening. Naturally, there are many other physical consequences of testosterone loss for guys.

The psychological effect is just as serious. Absent testosterone, the male suffers clinical depression. This makes sense, as there's now a chemical imbalance in the brain. If untreated, this can often lead to suicide.

The emotional loss of the testicles is nearly as crippling. 90% of our personality is tied to "gender identification". Our "sexual identity" governs; how we talk, walk, "sit", dress, and eat. All this is in addition to impotence.

HRT can prevent or minimize much of the aformentioned consequences of testosterone loss. However, it's not a panacea and isn't for everyone. Also, it can take months and sometimes years, to find the correct dosage for a fellow.

I mention all this to demonstrate, my clear understanding of the reality of castration vs the fantasy. I'm not one of those gals that, engages in ballbusting for "sport". As even "light" blows to the testes, can cause scar tissue to form on the inside. Overtime, this makes them less "effective". I know a couple that spent thousands of dollars on fertility treatments, for this reason. The husband was an athlete and carouser in secondary school and at university. He took shots to the "gnads" on and off the athletic field, over the years. Eventually, it caught up with him and his Mrs..

So, I don't support a woman (or anyone else, for that matter) hitting a man in the balls, save for purposes of self-defence. However, childmolesters and recidivist rapists, are a different matter entirely! I've no problem with them being "unmanned" in the course of a woman defending herself. As you know, I support the surgical castration of thrice convicted sexual predators. Provided; it's offered as a "choice" and the fellow receives therapy before "snip, snip".

Now, re: the Kinky Kastration Koven! To quote the great actor Strother Martin; "What we have here, is a failure to communicate". My question about "Membership and reputation" was directed at Eunuch Archive! I'm curious re: the various designations; "I am shy", " Active member", "Active participant", "Fully qualified member", and so on. How does one progress from one level to another? AND what's the highest level?

Actually, my question about the KiKaKo (now, that I recollect) is how you went about "creating" or organising it. That is, how you all got together and how new members come to be. What generally constitutes your activities? I'm thnking about putting together a kindred group of wenches!

No worries re: "Building a watch when, you only asked the time". I'm notorious for that! I've written a "short" story for a friend that's, thousands of words long! :-\

Ooh "Touchy feely". I'm straight but, I think I might be "bi-curious". How does one know? Asks the girl educated by "penguins". <blush>

I spent some of my teen years (early-mid 90s) in Fort Sam Houston. My da was under contract to some military agency there. I'm embarrased to say, I don't know much about him. Wasn't he the president or first governor of Texas? I'm pleased the Isle of Galveston is still above sea level and will cross my fingers (along with saying a Rosary for its inhabitants) that, it remains so.. Why do people stay?? Is there really that much oil there?

Messalina,

Soon to be "Alpha Loony" of her own KiKako, maybe.

You must never have visited Hippie Hollow on Lake Travis just outside Austin! It's a gay, nude beach and 100% legal. Warning signs are posted for those unaware of the local tradition of looking the other way! It's quite possible to see nude boaters there on and in the lake!

I am totally shocked in a wonderful way to hear you speak of the feelings and condsiderations of the male and his Testicles. You speak wisley about the many things that are attached to the meaning of the testicles to the male and his very identity. I was castrated by myself, here on this site. I did the procedure myself, which latter requred surgical intervention, but I gathered the info here. I am a happy EUNUCH and found the members most wonderful, helpful and caring. In fact they helped me when my mood was so low and I was so lost that I almost did bad things to myself that would have complicated an already complicated mess. I injected a certain chemical into my testicles which over time desolved them. The outer skin of course had to rupture for draining and got all to infected. I almost lost my life from blood poisioning, but the advice from this place saved my life. Eventually the left over dead tissue had to be removed. I am doing very well with being a Eunuch. I take low dose estrogen and am monitered by my Docotors. My health is good on all levels and I can not tell you how wonderful it feels to be a Eunuch.

When I read your comments, I was amazed at the depth of the subject and the knowledge you have shared. I also wonder quietly if having more groups like yours wouldn't be such a bad idea. What I am speaking about is actual groups that could do the procedures in saftey while at the same time enjoying the ritual. We can not have men running around doing themselves and creating dyre consequences. There is a REAL need for these types of procedures in real time to be done with care and sensitivity. Ah... what a blessing not to have to lie, beg, cajole, do half baked procedures and have to use Emergency Rooms to save our butts. In fact, I am now seeking complete nullo. Where in the heck can one find that behind closed and private doors at a reasonable price and in safte? Be well, spankey2

Messalina (imported) wrote: Thu Jul 30, 2009 4:18 pm I've felt great sadness and sympathies for the lads, as well. BTW, I've cringed at video of radical bilateral orchiectomies too.

The loss of genitalia must be devastating to a man.

As one of those lads do understand some of us needed this for medical reasons. Cancer, Orchialgia (Chronic Pain) and were quite pleased (Relieved!) to have the surgery. Your right about HRT. That takes some work to get right but its worth the trouble! Glad to see your still alive. Oh, and as father of daughters I'm with you. Rapists etc need to have their set handed to them. And I would be very happy to either hold them whilst you do a field goal attempt or lay in a boot myself.

MrT

spankey2 (imported) wrote: Fri Jul 31, 2009 10:23 am I am totally shocked in a wonderful way to hear you speak of the feelings and condsiderations of the male and his Testicles. You speak wisley about the many things that are attached to the meaning of the testicles to the male and his very identity. I was castrated by myself, here on this site. I did the procedure myself, which latter requred surgical intervention, but I gathered the info here. I am a happy EUNUCH and found the members most wonderful, helpful and caring. In fact they helped me when my mood was so low and I was so lost that I almost did bad things to myself that would have complicated an already complicated mess. I injected a certain chemical into my testicles which over time desolved them. The outer skin of course had to rupture for draining and got all to infected. I almost lost my life from blood poisioning, but the advice from this place saved my life. Eventually the left over dead tissue had to be removed. I am doing very well with being a Eunuch. I take low dose estrogen and am monitered by my Docotors. My health is good on all levels and I can not tell you how wonderful it feels to be a Eunuch.

When I read your comments, I was amazed at the depth of the subject and the knowledge you have shared. I also wonder quietly if having more groups like yours wouldn't be such a bad idea. What I am speaking about is actual groups that could do the procedures in saftey while at the same time enjoying the ritual. We can not have men running around doing themselves and creating dyre consequences. There is a REAL need for these types of procedures in real time to be done with care and sensitivity. Ah... what a blessing not to have to lie, beg, cajole, do half baked procedures and have to use Emergency Rooms to save our butts. In fact, I am now seeking complete nullo. Where in the heck can one find that behind closed and private doors at a reasonable price and in safte? Be well, spankey2

Hello there,

How are you? Were you responding to my post or someone else's?

Messalina

mrt (imported) wrote: Fri Jul 31, 2009 1:10 pm As one of those lads do understand some of us needed this for medical reasons. Cancer, Orchialgia (Chronic Pain) and were quite pleased (Relieved!) to have the surgery. Your right about HRT. That takes some work to get right but its worth the trouble! Glad to see your still alive. Oh, and as father of daughters I'm with you. Rapists etc need to have their set handed to them. And I would be very happy to either hold them whilst you do a field goal attempt or lay in a boot myself.

MrT

Hello there,

Yes, some men require

Messalina (imported) wrote: Thu Jul 30, 2009 4:18 pm radical bilateral orchiectomies

for "Medical reasons". However, am I not permitted to feel sadness and sympathy for the fellows, just the same?? I should imagine that, the ONLY reason men agree to such a drastic step, is the necessity of the aforementioned medical needs.

I do not support or condone vigilantism. However, I do advocate the humane castration of convicted recidivist sexual predators If, it's their "choice". That is, either life in prison (without the possibility of parole) or "snip, snip". However, (as stated previoulsy) I've no problem with a woman "unmanning" a sexual reprobate, in the course of defending herself, or her child.

Messalina