TheHavier (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 30, 2024 9:34 am Well, as of yesterday, I have been castrated for two months. Still very happy with the outcome. The incision is completely healed. Climbing on a ladder all day will make me feel where the cords were cut, but nothing bad. The relationship between my wife and I has improved. We Love on one another more than we did before. My wife initiates more than she did. I asked her about it. She told me, " You don't get mad now because you don't get it." Well, she's right.
Two months without balls and my sex drive is still higher than my wife's. We still have sex, about once a week. I start to get antzy after 5-6 days. I orgasm, most times, but if I don't it doesn't bother me. I no longer ejaculate. I kinda miss that, but it doesn't bother me. My wife really seems to really appreciate that! I still get morning wood, sometimes. Erections don't come as often as they did. We have to work a little harder to get it hard enough, but we still can.
I still have a few hot flashes, but either they're not as often, or I don't notice them as much. I haven't noticed a loss of strength, but even before I was cut I wasn't as strong as I was 10 years ago. My beard doesn't grow quite as fast as it did, but yes, I am a bearded eunuch.
Bottom line. I am much happier, and a lot less frustrated. I am a lot less likely to get mad. My wife and I are closer. All because I was willing to get de-nutted. I'm glad I did.
I'm glad this worked out as you had hoped before going into it. I'd say with your description above, welcome to a normal sex life. Being able to be with your mate once a week, in a loving way instead of just pumping to get off, has to be a wonderful thing. You can just BE with her now and enjoy the moment.