I wouldn't say my wife prefers it necessarily but is quite unfazed by it. Until recently we've had an active sex life which is important to her but my being a eunuch didn't stop us getting married. She likes to play with my empty bag and of course we've never had to worry about contraception.

One thing I read here a lot is the unfounded belief a Eunuch is incapable of having sex. A great deal of this comes from the medical community and when a man is told that, it simply becomes a self fulfilling prophecy - more mental than physical. So let me be clear. Given no other physical or emotional conditions a castrated man is perfectly capable of having penetrative sex. The significant reduction of testosterone only means a reduction in desire for sex and really has little influence on a Eunuch's ability to achieve an erection. Nor does it mean that ALL desire is gone. A castrated man in his early fifties such as myself is generally on par libido-wise with a menopaused woman such as my wife. That sexual parity is perfect for us, as I am at her sexual beck and call rather than the other way around. Further, if she simply wants to use her vibrator as a quick stress reliever (which she often does) I'm happy just to watch and leave her to her own devices. If she just wants to kiss and cuddle I fine with that. If she gets really horney and wants to get fucked I'm there for her with a strap-on ((because I have one of those "other conditions"). If she gets really horney and kinky she gets to wear the strap-on. If she wants to try sex with another guy or a woman there is no jealousy on my part. Otherwise, she loves the castrated me on more general levels. Finally she has shared that some of her friends said they were envious of her and wished their husbands were Eunuchs.

That is a very interesting post and coming from someone with your experience counts for a lot. I showed my wife and she was fascinated, she agrees with you that having a eunuch husband has certain advantages.

After years of seeing multiple urologists, I can tell you that if you're considering castration, then try to get an appointment with a female urologist. I realize they're scarce, but in reality, it's a growing field. Every year, more women are choosing urology as their field of choice. Throughout my life I have visited 5 female urologists, 3 in New Jersey and 2 in Pennsylvania. Of the five, three were very sympathetic towards me, were easier to talk with, more understanding and willing to help. Early on when I had damaged my remaining testicle, a female urologist told me that she could remove it, but wanted to try and rescue it first. I stayed with her for five months and went through a series of tests, injections, antibiotics, etc. to see if she could revive my testicle. Nothing was really working, but she was still hesitant to remove it. Then I got tire of waiting and had Dr. Kimmel remove it just by asking him to do it. After becoming a full fledged eunuch, I started to work towards getting a penectomy. I had mangled my penis through abuse and it was black and blue when I went to another female urologist. I was having trouble urinating due to a glans piercing and urethra constriction and she happily told me that I needed a reroute (urethrostomy) and that's what she did. She gave me a reroute. So I was a castrated rerouted eunuch. Then I asked her about a penectomy. After years of abuse, my penis did not look healthy and I told her that it was no longer functioning or getting erect, and that I was not interested in having intercourse anymore. She told me that my corpus cavernosums were scarred and partially blocked. I remember her moving my penis back and forth, looking it over and saying, "I can remove it since it's no longer functioning and I am concerned about blood clots, but let me talk with my Dr. ? my lead. She was a young urologist and needed to consult with an older male urologist. I knew when she came back that she wouldn't do it, she wanted me to have surgery to remove the scar tissue and try some treatments to revive my penis. I never saw her again, and started my slow penectomy. I'm telling you about my experiences, because today, there's a growing number of female urologists who are more willing to castrate and nullify men. Female urologists won't tell you this, but male aggression and abuse is something they're keenly aware of and they want to protect females from sexual abuse and assault. Of course they also know that castration will diminish the male sex drive and aggression. If you want to be castrated penectomized, tell your female urologist that your sex drive is causing you to watch hours of porn and causing you to seek out prostitutes and that you're afraid you'll do something worse. It's absolutely true that every year the male sex drive pushes men to the brink of committing horrific crimes. She'll probably start you on Depo Provera immediately to reduce your sex drive, but if you're persistent you might be able to get her to castrate you, especially if you've abused your testicles. One man in NJ squashed his testicles in a vice repeatedly for months and messed them up pretty bad. He was in true pain. He scheduled an appointment with my female New Jersey urologist who set him up for surgery immediately and castrated him three days later. He said later in the waiting room that he really hadn't planned on getting castrated and even told her that he wanted to save them if possible, but she told him that they were beyond repair. Anyways, good luck to all.

Good point about female urologists, as males would naturally feel bad about removing other male genitalia. Females do not have that weird sense like orchiectomy would be too barbaric or whatever males might feel. I am not so sure about females trying to eliminate male aggression, as generally, person who she is going to help does not pose any threat anyway. I had a bad experience with a circumcision, when I tried to find a doc. first male doctor practically laughed at me. And his arguments were very... male... He refused to remove healthy foreskin because normal males would not want that. That was the under lying position of his. Female doctors naturally would not have such a stance. I think. But in the end I found an understanding male doc. He did not ask stupid questions and respected my wish.

Good point on female urologists. My male urologist balked at my request for low dose estrogen despite also refusing me testosterone due to my excessive hemoglobin and other health concerns. He said: "You won't like it". The female surgeon who had removed my scrotum (although not preforming the original orchiectomy) did not bat an eyelash and only insisted on blood tests. She fully agreed with me that in the absence of testosterone estradiol was a viable alternative as long as I could accept the minor side effects. However, she specializes in SRS and obviously is more in tune with her patient's needs.

My wife was not too happy about the idea of castration before my surgery. That was about twenty five years ago. Today she could not be happier. I no longer bug her for sex or push until I get it. We now only have sex when she wants it, about once a month.

I have no sexual desire or sex drive whatsoever.

When she wants intercourse, she gives me a penile injection. I then have the largest and hardest erection of my life for two to three hours. I will do anything to keep her happy.