Re: your father has ever measured your dick?
Posted: Mon Nov 15, 2010 8:42 pm
SplitDik (imported) wrote: Mon Nov 15, 2010 4:38 pm You're still normalizing an abnormal experience. Abuse does not have to be sexual. Most abuse is probably psychological. Why would your mom and aunt be discussing a rash on your dick in front of you? It is true that a mother might consult other mothers on how to care for their kid, but it is usually done in private. It is similarly inappropriate to discuss a kid's psychological issues, their acne, any physical deficiency, etc. in front of them.
Also, whether or not it was sexual intention on her part, it still may have had sexual connotations for you. A woman commenting on the non-ideal state of your genitals will have a sexual aspect to a formative boy's mind.
Exactly. That is why it was wrong.
Obviously we have to endure all sorts of challenges, abuses and setbacks in life. So I'm not saying you should feel like a victim or anything. (which you don't). However, I just don't think you should brush off the wrongness of it either.
Drop it!
I never said it was right. Possibly, my mother was asking for her opinion about what was wrong and had to show it to her. I don't remember. I've already said it had an adverse affect on me. Weren't you listening?
I'm becoming more concerned with your obsession with this than I am about what happened 63 years ago. Hell, the woman's been dead fifteen years or more. She was one of a kind and loved to poke her nose in everyone's business, but that's not your concern.
Just fucking drop it. You're pissing me off.