sindeekb (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 22, 2009 2:58 am I am surprised at the thought that so many men have fantasies of castration. After many failed relationships, I have often had thoughts of removing the manhood of several past "lovers". I envision them pleading and crying as I use a banding tool on them, I want to use bands because I want them to suffer the pain of knowing they will be geldings soon, and after a point removing the band will make no difference. Men need to now we women have feelings and should not be trifiled with!

sindeekb (imported) wrote: Wed Jul 22, 2009 2:58 am hat so many men have fantasies of castration

I Worship Women (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:10 am I have said this before but have gotten veyr little feedback and I would like to know what others think of this line of thought.

I think there are a lot more women who have femdom type castration fantasies than one would think there are. Women who have fantasies where she herself personally castrates a man, maybe even fantasies where afterward she keeps him as her own personal eunuch slave, one she herself has castrated.

So why don't we hear more from these ladies about their castration fantasies? I think women tend to be more private and secret about their fantasies than men are, but beyond that there is another big reason.

If a man says he has fantasies about a woman castrating him, fantasies where she cuts his nuts out surgically, we think it is different, strange, even sick, but still relatively harmless.

But if a woman says she has fantasies where she castrates a man, fantasies where she cuts his nuts out, we think she is some violant sicko and she's dangerous so we had better watch her or even lock her up so she doesn't hurt anyone.

The big difference here is that if someone says they have fantasies where someone else does something to them, we regard those fantasies as perhaps sick, but still relatively harmless. But if someone says they have fantasies where they do something to someone else, we regard those fantasies and the person who has them as dangerous. Fantasies where someone else does it to you are regarded as relatively harmless. Fantasies where you do it to someone else are regarded as dangerous.

So if a woman has femdom castration fantasies where she herself castrates a man, for example a woman who has fantasies where she cuts a man's nuts out, she is going to be very reluctant to express or share that out of fear she will be regarded as violant and dangerous and we have to protect society from her.

I hope all the women members on this forum feel as free to express themselves and share their feelings as the man who are members here. All the members here should feel free to express and share their thoughts and feelings about castration. If there are women members on this forum who have femdom castration fantasies, women members who have fantasies where she herself castrates a man, even fantasies where she does it by cutting his nuts out surgically, I hope they feel free to express and share their fantasies and feelings. Like I said, everyone here should feel free to express themselves.

What do others think of why I believe there are women with femdom castration fantasies but why we don't hear more from them about it?

Messalina (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 26, 2009 9:48 pm Hello there,

There is the ring of truth to much of what, you've written. As to why many women don't voice whatever, castration or femdom fantasies they may have. However, another reason is that, many women's fantasies tend to be personal. That is, they tend not to be fetishistic. In your message; you make repeated reference to a woman fantasing about "Cutting his nuts out surgically". I submit; this is largely a male fantasy... yours maybe?

There is another reason many of us don't voice such fantasies, even on sites such as this. We tend to receive unsolicited private messages or requests to add someone to our instant messeger lists. I for one, constantly receive these messages from men. They range from the benign request to discuss their fantasies to the more serious "Come and nut me" types.

I hope you're well and that, this answers your question.

Messalina

emasculateme (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2009 12:44 pm As one of those who sent an unsolicted message/email to you...though i didn't ask you to nut me in that message...i apologize and am sorry you're often bombarded like that...it's so rare to find a female here with this interest, i guess our hopes trump our judgment at times.

Arab Nights (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:19 pm My limited sampling suggests that not all, but a reasonable number of women given the right guy, right mood and the right build up over time can thoroughly enjoy castration thoughts and play judging by the evil twinkle in their eyes and smile on their lips. However, note the pre-amble. The answer isn't just no, it is HELL NO for some guy out of the blue that wants them to do anything about castration. However, over time BLAH BLAH BLAH they can be enthusiastic players when it just sort of happens.

Arab Nights (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2009 2:19 pm horoughly enjoy castration thoughts and play

I Worship Women (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 26, 2009 5:10 am So why don't we hear more from these ladies about their castration fantasies?

Beau Geste (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 27, 2009 4:24 pm Maybe I misread the earlier post, but isn't post #29 above, in contradiction to a post on an earlier thread, where the author recounted how she encountered a boatload of naked people on a lake in Texas, and one of the persons on the other boat was described as having his male organ swell up? Did she not therefore see his organ, or how did she know what its condition was? Not a mention of that in this post. Or, maybe, boaters don't count.

Reminds me a little of the passage in a James Fenimore Cooper novel, where someone floats down a creek that was twenty-one feet wide, on a raft that was twenty feet wide. Possible, but only believable with suspended disbelief. I think that may have been in The Last of the Mohicans.

I mean, boatloads of people drift around totally naked, right in the middle of Texas? Where are the park rangers? Where are the water police? Where are the Texas Rangers? Every preacher out on the lake is going to dial in 911 every time he sees so much as cleavage in front or rear.

This can probably be chalked up to a little embellishment and exaggeration by somebody, but writers should really be careful to be consistent.