Stevenator_too (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 17, 2022 10:03 am It’s been a month since Sean’s last update.

Has anyone heard how he’s doing?

I hope everything is Okay.

Previously, here (on the forum) Seathomas invited to visit his personal Eunuch Blog

https://eunuchlife.blogspot.com/

I hope that Sean will continue to update his blog and report on his well being.

I hope all is well with Sean. I hope he and his wife aren't regretting is nullification

Nidaho Rachel (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 17, 2022 4:20 pm I hope all is well with Sean. I hope he and his wife aren't regretting is nullification

I think he put a lot of thought into his decision from all he posted. I think that if he was having regrets, he would share them. I hope he and his wife are healthy and well.

I just looked at Sean's Blog page, he has some recent updates. He is recovering from a stroke unfortunately. You can look at the link in the above post by Varery_V to read Sean's blog.

Very sorry to see the message about having a stroke, I hope he recovers well....

I'm not surprised about his comment in the last entry about changing his mind about giving up sex if he could walk again... I sort of went through the same deal myself, and there is some significant research in the SCI community on the subject.

Most relevant was a survey of SCI folks that had were more than a couple of years post-injury. They were basically asked if they could get ONE function back, what would they pick. The quads first choice was hand and arm function, the rest of the choices ranked the same for both paras and quads.

1. Normal Bladder and bowel function control...

2. Sex

3. Walking

So it sounds like Sean has reached the usual conclusion. I also agree that Physical Therapists have an aspect of sadism - I've always joked with the ones I've had to work with that their proper uniform involves thigh-high boots, fishnet stockings and a corset.... (in black of course)

WheelyCurious

WheelyCurious wrote: Mon Sep 12, 2022 6:20 pm I also agree that Physical Therapists have an aspect of sadism - I've always joked with the ones I've had to work with that their proper uniform involves thigh-high boots, fishnet stockings and a corset.... (in black of course)

WheelyCurious

A lot of people think it's the job of the Physical Therapist to make them better, it's not! They are there to give you the tools to make yourself better. Some people just don't get it that recovery could be the hardest job they will ever do!

I've had to re-learn walking skills twice, the first time at 50 and the second time at 60. I knew the only person that was going to make recovery happen was the person looking back at me when I brush my teeth.

WheelyCurious wrote: Mon Sep 12, 2022 6:20 pm I also agree that Physical Therapists have an aspect of sadism - I've always joked with the ones I've had to work with that their proper uniform involves thigh-high boots, fishnet stockings and a corset....

Nidaho Rachel (imported) wrote: Mon Sep 12, 2022 7:33 pm (in black of course)

WheelyCurious

A lot of people think it's the job of the Physical Therapist to make them better, it's not! They are there to give you the tools to make yourself better. Some people just don't get it that recovery could be the hardest job they will ever do!

I've had to re-learn walking skills twice, the first time at 50 and the second time at 60. I knew the only person that was going to make recovery happen was th

e person looking back at me when I brush my teeth.

Oh, I agree completely, but that doesn't change their outfit any... After all in any sort of BDSM kind of activity the person on the receiving end IS consenting....

WheelyCurious

Anyone ever hear from our have heard of Sean Thomas?

Cseriess (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 13, 2022 4:33 am Anyone ever hear from our have heard of Sean Thomas?

I read his message dated September 1st, 2022:

Change Of Heart

http://eunuchlife.blogspot.com/?zx=9086bbbef170cd2c

He has serious complications from the operation, but he is holding on.

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Valery_V (imported) wrote: Tue Sep 13, 2022 5:43 am He has serious complications from the operation...

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I read the most recent entries on Sean Thomas' blog, and he did not make such a connection. Indeed, he suffered a stroke, but he did not say that his operation caused the stroke. I wish him well in his recovery.