Maybe because Canadians are smarter in not circumcising as many of their newborn boys as us Americans left you feeling like one of the few circumcised cocks growing up. Here in the US nearly all the men in your generation were circumcised as newborns. Your cut dick would be perfectly normal in the US. Plus, women tend to be more wrapped up in romance and spending money than in what men s dicks and bodies look like. A rich old geeezer will attract more women than the most handsome poor man every time.

I think most men are brainwashed as kids to fear being attracted to men and told being gay is the worst thing a man can be. That brainwashing wrecks all the great teen sex guys could all be safely enjoying and benefitting from. Then after leaving school most men figure out just how brainwashed we were as kids and teens. Men try sex with women and then later try sex with men. Man to man sex is custom made for us men. The hassles of sex with women almost disappear in having sex with men. I think most men will eagerly enjoy sex with men or women as long as it is thrilling and he enjoys what he does. The old brainwashing labels are created to stifle male sexuality. You don t see the same rabid anti lesbian propaganda and brainwashing of kids that is always shoveled out against gay males. Our western cultures fear male gay sex because it makes str8 sex so full of problems by comparison. In a free culture, male to male sex would be almost non stop and overwhelmingly popular among males. It would be difficult to get males to work so hard and put up with so much shit if you could enjoy male to male sex openly any time you want. Sex breaks would replace cig and coffee breaks at work lol !

Lots of older men would enjoy your company and sexual abilities, just like you would enjoy theirs. The internet is the great modern day matchmaker for the most unusual or usual tastes. A good man by your side and in bed with you would do wonders for your life and happiness. Look what you can offer another retired man ! Throw off the brainwashing and find a man like yourself who would enjoy a life with a man like you at his side. He s out there, you just have to find him. He doesn t have to be perfect to bring happiness to your life and you to his life.

Cutnbulls2ox Thanks once more, you're are a wise man.

True, here about 15% of men are circumcised. Women here aren't as used as American women to deal with circumcised penis, so to them I look like a freak. The warmth of a human being next to me is way more important than sex but sex is the key to get close to someone.

paring (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 22, 2018 3:04 pm Cutnbulls2ox Thanks once more, you're are a wise man.

True, here about 15% of men are circumcised. Women here aren't as used as American women to deal with circumcised penis, so to them I look like a freak. The warmth of a human being next to me is way more important than sex but sex is the key to get close to someone.

Not sure if sex is the key to get close to someone

so much as the lure of it. So many are too afraid of sex to understand how to enjoy it.

Begoneboy It's perhaps not the only way but the most common way.

I ve tried trial and error to see what works the best to move from being strangers to sex together to friends in that order. Sometimes people just want a quick one night stand or just long enough to get off. Other people do want companionship as much or more than sex. Blunt honesty seems to work the best man to man. Sometimes it backfires and honest comments freak people out who are used to playing coy and games with prospective sex partners. But more times it surprises people if you are honest and many people respond with honest reactions to my blunt honesty. Those people who enjoy being honest make better lovers and friends than game players anyway. You win some and lose some with honesty. But it cuts thru the bull and gets right to the point. Some people fear its a trick or manipulative. But if you are consistent with being truthful some people will come back to see what you are like.

The sad thing is if you honestly say, " I m not out for sex tonight. I just want some companionship. " Most people will blow you off and look for someone to have sex with. As if that s the only acceptable interaction for 2 strangers to desire or seek.

Sometimes you do end up having sex just to have someone to wrap yourself around for the night and share some companionship. Hey, sex is great ! But sometimes people just want to spend time with someone and a lot of people think that s weird to do without sex as part of it, men especially.

paring (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 22, 2018 7:43 am Thanks cutnbulls2ox

I wish I could have fathered a child, when I was younger, in the most normal way with a woman. All my relations with women have been failures. I felt rejected only because of my stupid looking circumcised dick. I quitted dating women to avoid suicide. I did 2 self castration attempts,. at 26-27 y.o., to put an end to my sex life. Since my chem castration (42 till 50 y.o.), I rarely have sex with anyone, perhaps once a year or less. I say that I'm gay because I've had sex more often with men than with women but I don't know what I truly am perhaps asexual would be most appropriate term, anyway that doesn't matter. So I've lived a lonely life as a workaholic but now that I'm retired I need to fill that gap to give sense to my life. If I'm not already castrated it's because of my desire to father a child. Lately this fantasy became a real obsession. I have consulted a transgender psy and at the end she just approved my choices.

Yesterday, shortly after I posted this reply here, the same text appeared on my personal Facebook page, as a suggestion to publish, which of coarse I didn't do. The 2 accounts aren't related. Can someone tell me how this is possible ?

Yes, probably, but you wouldn't like the answer.

A word to the wise: don't post or email anything that you wouldn't want your boss to know.

While there is nothing wrong with it, note that EA has open logins, and the traffic is also open, unencrypted.

The site is also visited regularly by search bots and spiders which do their best to make the content indexed, searchable and therefore public. Again, nothing wrong; it's what they do, or your Google, Bing, Duckduckgo would have nothing to show you.

While I can answer only generally here, the Moderators would be better able to answer specifics of EA.

Thanks daifu-orchid

I can understand that text that we post here be found on google but how was it sent to Facebook page? I had never seen anything like that before.

It's a big topic, and maybe not for here. There are many markers that users leave on their way through the www.

It was probably not too difficult to figure that your account on EA and FB were one and the same user.

Marketers do this every day to target ads,

Spooky? Comfortable with your privacy? Yes, many questions for elsewhere.

I have written many times that the struggle you're experiencing and that others are experiencing, the

paring (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 20, 2018 11:50 am irresistible desire to be castrated,

is what I have termed the inner feminine desire. You see, when in the embryo stage, all fetuses are female:

https://www.sciencealert.com/watch-we-w ... all-female

https://www.menshealth.com/health/a1951 ... as-a-girl/

"Without hormones like testosterone, you would stay on the path to womanhood. And, sorry to say, your body already started developing by the time this decision was made—which means your lady parts were already starting to form".

Because we all started out essentially as females, I believe that for a number of men, that inner female works rather strongly on our minds, causing this irresistible urge to be castrated and or nullified. Why this "

paring (imported) wrote: Wed Jun 20, 2018 11:50 am irresistible desire to be castrated

" is stronger in some males like us, is unclear. Perhaps it's a delay in the womb to respond to testosterone, perhaps it's that our minds feminized more in the womb or it may be that some portion of our brain wants us to be female and is urging us to return to that physical state by removing our male parts. I don't know for sure, but I believe it is this internal feminine that pushes some of us with an irresistible compulsion to remove our testicles.