fredoregon (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 8:04 am - Hey, Polecat, I sent your comment to the webmaster of 'The Wizard of Jobs', and here is what he replied:

Well that wasn't very nice! I wrote the comment for this board, not to be delivered to the webmaster personally. It's good if he finds them helpful, but why are you blowing on the embers? If I want The Wizard of Jobs to know how I feel, I will tell the wizard myself. I don't need your help to upset him with my criticism.

On the other hand I'm glad you managed to contact him at all. I just assumed it was an automated front for some shady corporation somewhere. Those usually respond to personal emails by putting you on public bulk spam mailing lists. Since you obviously got a reply from a real person, I respect his site a little bit more for that, and I would never otherwise have known myself that it was a solo effort, so thank you.

As for my reply reply on this board, I plan on sending it to him myself, so don't send it to him like you did my last comment.

polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:48 pm I don't need your help to upset him with my criticism.

It wasn't my intent to upset him, obviously... I said that you had some good points (especially about accountability which I agree with you 100%) and that he could probably use some feedback on that, so...

polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:48 pm On the other hand I'm glad you managed to contact him at all. I just assumed it was an automated front for some shady corporation somewhere (...) Since you obviously got a reply from a real person, I respect his site a little bit more for that, and I would never otherwise have known myself that it was a solo effort, so thank you.

You're welcome.

(and apparently I am redeemed! )

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polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:48 pm y reply on this board, I plan on sending it to him myself, so don't send it to him like you did my last comment.

Gotcha, so don't worry. Please let me know if he replies to you? That'd be cool

(he's a personnal friend of mine that's why I could communicate that fast

Good wishes to you Polecat,

Alf

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polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:39 pm Speaking of tactless, it wouldn't be too much to use the right gender pronoun, would it? It's getting off on the wrong foot if you refer to a she as he.

>>--> my bad!

(I refered to you as he, cause I wasn't sure. Sorry! )

polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:39 pm I certainly hope he didn't just send you a message just because of little old me!

-old??? I thought you were about 26 y/o... (born in 1980, huh?)

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polecat (imported) wrote: Sat Mar 25, 2006 3:39 pm you don't need to waste your time trying to discredit me..

>>I think you might be overreacting a tiny bit here...

I don't think it ever crossed his mind to 'discredit' you, as you say...

(to whose eyes anyway? )

See ya around!

Alf

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-old???It's just an expression. I'm not little either.

fredoregon (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 27, 2006 7:52 am I don't think it ever crossed his mind to 'discredit' you, as you say...

I am oversensitive to that sort of thing. It's just people's natural instinct to react to criticism with "Hey, there must be something wrong with you." The important thing is whether we can treat each other with respect, instead of having to defend our self confidence with stuff like that.

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polecat (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:37 pm It's just an expression. I'm not little either :

( >> - you mean you're tall that is? What, we're talking 6+feet something?

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polecat (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:37 pm I am oversensitive to that sort of thing. It's just people's natural instinct to react to criticism ...

>> - I understand. It's only natural. It might also be that you get strong responses from people when your own criticism of them or what they do is a bit ... how to put it ... too straight forward? (like you say, 'setting the mood' )

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polecat (imported) wrote: Mon Mar 27, 2006 2:37 pm The important thing is whether we can treat each other with respect, instead of having to defend our self confidence with stuff like that.

>> - 100% agree with you on that ... and DON'T WE ALL lack self-confidence, if it isn't strengthened or reaffirmed regularly by some love and feedback from friends and family around us? Anyone denying this would be ... in denial!

alf

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fredoregon (imported) wrote: Thu Mar 30, 2006 7:10 am - you mean you're tall that is? What, we're talking 6+feet something?

- I understand. It's only natural. It might also be that you get strong responses from people when your own criticism of them or what they do is a bit ... how to put it ... too straight forward? (like you say, 'setting the mood' )

- 100% agree with you on that ... and DON'T WE ALL lack self-confidence, if it isn't strengthened or reaffirmed regularly by some love and feedback from friends and family around us? Anyone denying this would be ... in denial!

alf

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