Andrew (imported) wrote: Tue Dec 30, 2003 1:52 pm
In theory, it is legal to have yourself castrated at age 18 or 21, depending on where you live, and assuming you can find a Physician, Doctor, or Surgeon willing to do the operation. In such cases, tthose Doctors might be more willing to prescribe chemical castration.
So I am wondering if I should do a rewrite, with a suggestion that age 25 is the cut-off date (pun intended), under which a person should try chemical castration before making the final decision for surgery?
If not 25, what age? 30? 40? Castration before age 40 increases your risk of ostreoporosis.
This is really a tricky issue. The needs of those who would benefit from orchiectomy need to be weighed against the needs of those who need to think about this and be careful. Do we just give this surgery on demand and never mind those who will regret it, or do we make it difficult to obtain, which might prevent a few regrets, but cause problems for those who do need to be castrated?
Personally I lean toward allowing consenting adults to be able to obtain the surgery. I had my orchiectomy at age 31, and I am happy with my route, but I also regret that I didn't get to do it when I was younger. Back in 1985 I made an irreversible decision which I now regret. I decided to try and repress my gender issues, and as a result I allowed years of testosterone effects on my body. I was fortunate in many ways, for in spite of waiting until my early 30s, I was still able to effect my physical and social transition and be just another woman in everyday life, but I did lose my hair, developed a beard which cost me $12,000 plus other expenses to remove it, and worst of all lost 14 or so years of happiness which I could have had sooner. I was 17 years old at that time, and no therapist or doctor asked me if I was sure I wanted to deny my gender issues and let testosterone take effect on my body. No friends warned me or asked if I would be happy pretending to be a man.
If standards were made, that might cause a few unsure persons to hesitate before getting the surgery, but there will still be some who will put themselves through whatever protocol we put in their path, get the surgery, and then regret it. In addition, some will find ways to go around such a system by forging therapist letters or pretending to be on anti-androgen medications. One such example of a person who went around the system for transsexuals to get SRS and then regretted it is:
http://transsexual.org/letters20.html#moron
Transitioners like myself would no doubt benefit from castration at a younger age. When a non-transgendered man writes to me, if he is between 18 and 25, I advise him to consider that his body has not finished masculinizing yet, and is he sure he wants to forego the additional masculinization? However, just because someone is not transgendered does not always mean that they would regret being castrated while still a young adult. Some men would wish to let their development finish, while others would rather feel peaceful and calm already.
In my E-Mails, I have suggested to persons of all ages to try chemical castration if they are not sure. It should be noted that those who are transitioning often take estrogen (a form of chemical castration) for some time before orchiectomy, and usually before SRS.
I just posted a new page on my website urging persons who are sure they would be happier for being castrated to obtain the surgery safely and intelligently, and I wish there were more doctors who would safely perform this surgery, especially for the non-transgendered men here. Instead of calling for more standards, I would wish anyone considering castration, regardless of their age, to be absolutely certain that they know themselves.