is the current drug of choice for depression. I have fewer sexual side-effects from it than from either Paxil or Prozac. I may have no sexual side-effects from Lexapro. Other factors may now be in play. Of course, I've had a round of testostorone shots (four) to jump start my system. I do feel better.

I think that what I enjoy at least for now is a kind of blend of mild desire with a lot of calmness, serenity, and tolerance. Feeling sexual desire some of but not all of the times feels good. Not being driven by desire all of the time as I was in my youth also feels good. This is sort of like getting the temperature of the shower water just right! This is a good time for me.

Thank you again, Andrew. Your wisdom and advice are always on target. Thanks for jumping in on this thread.