homptydumpty,

You don't want to limit yourself.

Here in Australia there is a Trans Radio announcer on the national public broadcaster, the ABC.

There are Trans commercial pilots and who know what.

I am thinking of you as Trans and not as a Eunuch, which is a different gender.

To be a really authentic Trans though, one should first become a Eunuch.

Enough of statements.

Yeah, just stay away from photography unless it's as a hobby.

There's no money in it anymore.

Hey Hompty,

Here in Maryland, to do make up and hair for dead people, you must be licensed as a cosmetologist. You can get that license without attending any school if you apprentice with a licensed person for two years, and do home study on the medical knowledge part of the test. I would guess that many states offer such a program, so you might look into that.

Also , there are many student loan programs out there for which you could qualify. As a transgender/ eunuch person, you are in a minority, and as such could have an advantage in the granting of those type student loans.

There are also Small Business Administration loans, that are available, where you could set up to do hair and make up for multiple mortuaries. A friend of mine, who is in the funeral business, has been using an outside company for hair and make up for years. He says that its just cheaper than paying a full time person, when they may not have a corpse for a week or more at a time.

If you developed a business plan, and included your costs for training, which, BTW for a cosmetology license in most places would be 6 months to a year in a classroom enviornment, you might just get approved.

The SBA, has a minority/ disabled preference policy in the granting of loans. You would certainly qualify as a minority, since the number of either eunuchs or transsexuals, which ever label you decide to use, is small.

Two guys I know here, just got 250 k to open a restaurant, from SBA. The rate is good, and they have 30 years to repay it.

Ray

chilliwilli (imported) wrote: Thu Jul 17, 2008 1:29 pm Yoli-

Your a blast! I love having you on this board,...

I must ask if this ladyboy has been tested for hep c also? Just as deadly as HIV and so much easier to contract...

Theatrics would probably be great for a trans-eunuch. To bad the ladyboy will not do more than private shows for wealthy men. Community theater could add up to a rich full life for this little darling.

Chilli

Chillikins,

Thanks for the kind words.

As I understood the dealio, a Hep C test was part of the package, as were tests from some other "items" such as Herpes (but not Chirpees, as only canaries contract that.)

Can't wait to get the "All Clear" so that I might finally indulge my curiousity re fun 'n games with a "real" ladyboy...and a castrated one at that. The burning question now is: Is sex with her (to whatever extent, great or small,) going to be related to my Sapphic side or my equally eager Hetero side? After all, at first, second, and third glance "she" is a beautiful little female. The fourth glance reveals an adorable, in fact downright lovely and very small, penis. The fifth glance, with rapidly morphs into a blatant stare, reveals the little wrinkle that was once a ball-carrying baggie. I guess my self-admitted "Trisexual" nature, based on my enjoyment of fairly frequent sex play with Barry T.Eunuch, will be well-evidenced by anything I "do" with "her".

Frankly, I've been making a "To do" list...or should I say "To try"?...accompanied by excited fantasizing, to be addressed when and if the "Lady" and I get nekkid together. I won't bore you with the details...

I did discuss my little menu with Barry T. Eunuch and Ash(leigh). As a result of that they are threatening to have me committed to The Smileview Home For The Hopelessly Weird.

Whatever happens, and if you're very, very good, I'll report.

Thanks again for the kind comment.

Yoli

Atip with anticipation.

homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Mon Jul 14, 2008 11:32 pm I know this may not be the best way to ask, so please hear me out! Having been post castration now for a year & a half the sense of a mid life crisis has come over me. Work is hard. Maybe it is simply the profession of mine.

Finding enjoyment in life has become increasingly hard for me while subjecting myself to a unhealthy work environment.

I guess what the thought here is, what things do eunuchs do for work? To make money & pay the bills! Have we come far from the past professions of our ancestors?

EDIT: Your follow-up post explains the situation better, so these comments probably do not apply in this case.

I don't understand the question. The presence of testicles or a penis or the absence of one or both really have nothing to do with the work that one can do (unless maybe one is seeking employment as an underwear model or a sperm donor ). The choice of Employment, it seems to me, depends on one's inclinations, abilities and education. I do however completely understand and empathize with how emotionally and spiritually toxic an unhealthy work environment can be, whether it is in an executive suite, a government office or on an assembly line, so I hope you can resolve that!

homptydumpty (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 15, 2008 1:07 pm I should have mentioned for starters that i work for a privately owned transportation system. throughout my time with the company i have experienced harassment and also been outed by my employer to fellow co-workers. in a way i feel the company forced me to transition in order to conform with set "standards".

OK. now I understand better. It's not just the lack of testicles/penis that is the challenge, but bias. That's a different story. You probably have fewer protections in a privately owned company than you would in a large and diverse corporate or financial institution, or in an educational institution. If the "outing" included revelation of confidential medical information regarding sugery or medications, then you probably have a legitimate grounds for legal action, assuming you work in a country that recognizes litigants' rights to privacy. I hope this works out for you.

Mid-life crisis eh Z? Hehe, I've been having them about every 5 years, trouble is now it really is mid-life, and a real crisis. That got me thinking of how it all went wrong, so here’s my advice.

Focus on something and specialize in it. Being jack-of-all-trades gets you nowhere but a master of one leads to success. You need to find what that one thing is, even if it’s not a perfect choice and becomes tedious, stick with it. Flitting from one thing to another like I have done might be fun for a while but is no good in the long run.

Only you can decide what you want to do, and I suppose that depends also on opportunities around you. Maybe social sciences or the medical profession would suit you, your background has given you valuable experience and perspective. If you prefer creativity then maybe some form or art but as already pointed out, computer based work is probably best.

It's better to take a little bit of time now to investigate and then go for your choice wholeheartedly. Of course we never can tell where life takes us and the changes it makes in us, but anyway that's my view of things.

cordonone (imported) wrote: Fri Jul 18, 2008 1:19 pm OK. now I understand better. It's not just the lack of testicles/penis that is the challenge, but bias. That's a different story. You probably have fewer protections in a privately owned company than you would in a large and diverse corporate or financial institution, or in an educational institution. If the "outing" included revelation of confidential medical information regarding sugery or medications, then you probably have a legitimate grounds for legal action, assuming you work in a country that recognizes litigants' rights to privacy. I hope this works out for you.

HEAVENS TO HIPPAA (http://www.hipaadvisory.com/)!

MAKE CLICK HERE! (http://www.complianceonline.com/ecommer ... on_id=2255)

DO DA expression MALPRACTICE (http://www.ama-assn.org/ama/pub/category/11567.html) contain any meaning for ya?

FEED 'EM to the SHARKS! (http://www.martinandmartinlaw.com/Cases.shtml)

Would you like some more ideas who to use to fuck them like the EEOC (http://www.eeoc.gov/facts/qanda.html)?

...or are these enough?

How about a keeper of exotic animals? I kept a viper for years both before and after the army. Me and that guy won all kinds of awards. He loved music. The blasts from the speakers and rapid firing woofers seemed to only get him more excited! It's wired, the glass wound start shaking on his tank and he would fucking splooge!!!! Problem was once I bought a place and settled down I was told it's either me or the viper, but "you can't keep both".

I used to live in an apartment and all the residents were scarred shittless of the beast. Eventually someone identified the monster and I was told he had to leave. But at that point I couldn't give the son of a bitch away! Well just about this time he died and now I have him on display. I live in a small town and people come by and salute him in the window periodically.

I thought about an exotic animal rescue for my cayman. There are people their that take great care for him and he is now safe and loved. Everything is relative, and of coarse avoid the relatives, unless they got your back and I'm not talking about side. Anyway I guess I was so ignorant, like alot of people who raise these types of animals. I guess its just good to see people respecting nature and enjoying nature rather than sitting cross legged in their pews.

Sometimes people point at him and throw nuts at him, I'm afraid one day they'll damage something back there. I guess they think it's fun, like he could really do something, reel around and bite 'em on the head. I suppose if he was a constrictor he could squeeze the fucking blood right outta 'em. I guess people like a little thrill in their otherwise boring fuckin' lives and what better way than a fucking wild exotic?. Right? no left, no no I'M SURE IT'S RIGHT. People are such pigs.

chilli-

The good sister took me out to a dive bar, with a friend of hers. While they talked I wandered off, as usuall. Which one came first I don't know, there were five. Each one was packin' twice so that made ten. Anyway, my blood sugars started falling fast, they always do I can't never seem to keep them up(started when I left the military)...and all the blood rushed to my guts...so I left the bar to get a glass of milk. Anyway I woke up with a headache and a soft collar, I guess I'm supposed to wear the dam thing for a week.

A-1 (imported) wrote: Sun Jul 20, 2008 6:36 am HEAVENS TO HIPPAA (http://www.hipaadvisory.com/)!

MAKE CLICK HERE! (http://www.complianceonline.com/ecommer ... on_id=2255)

DO DA expression MALPRACTICE (http://www.ama-assn.org/ama/pub/category/11567.html) contain any meaning for ya?

FEED 'EM to the SHARKS! (http://www.martinandmartinlaw.com/Cases.shtml)

Would you like some more ideas who to use to fuck them like the EEOC (http://www.eeoc.gov/facts/qanda.html)?

...or are these enough?

Not sure what all the "CAPS" and "!!!" are all about, nor am I exactly clear on the tone of your questions that seems to assume I'm a dolt, but the original poster never described where they lived, on what is an international board. I see from the poster's profile that the residence is in the US, which tends to be friendlier than other countries when it comes to litigation and rewards under litigation, but by no means a sure thing. Finally, it's not all that clear to me how aggressively the Bush "Justice" Department pursues these matters, especially in relation to people who are "different than them."

In general, in cases like this, the defendants tend to have very big pockets and the plaintiffs usually have to make many difficult decisions at the outset, not the least of which is how much of their privacy they want to give up. So, implying that the suit itself, let alone its success, is as straightforward a matter as you suggest is probably not consistent with what our plaintiff would find in this case.

I see that you have a lot more posts than I do and I clearly have to acknowledge and respect that fact and experience, but in the future if you want to correct what you think is a mistake I have made, how about doing it on the assumption that I'm a reasonable and thoughtful observer and not an idiot?