1tc (imported) wrote: Tue Jul 01, 2008 1:15 pm My wife and I did that for a couple of months in consent. She was intrigued and me too, we both wanted to see what it feel likes if I remain soft in sexual situations where I used to be hard. This was quite an experience.
Having her playing with my balls, while my penis remains soft has been quite an experience, an extreme psychological trip. The sense of humiliation of being essentially impotent, and allow a female thoroughly "test" your manhood and see, for certain that you remain soft no matter how she teases you is a huge thrill.
When we stopped it, she said that besides the thrill of seeing me limp, she also liked it because I did not want to cum so quickly and was more patient to pleasure her.
I'm considering doing it again, I'd even undergo an operation (if there was such available) not to remove my testicle completely but to reduce libido to a much much lower level, and being almost impotent again. I liked the feeling.
I wonder of there is an operation that would just disable erections without reducing the sex drive?
There is such an operation. It's called penectomy.
Seriously, there are other more common operations that frequently have that effect. Prostate surgery, for example, often leaves the patient unable to achieve an erection but with his libido intact. And men who ride bicycles a lot sometimes find that the pressure of the bicycle seat over a long period of time causes erectile problems. The key is severing or damaging critical nerves.
Sandi