Well, thanks to IEunuch, my computer seems to be working better. He gave me a couple of different anti-virus programs and I ran them last night

kristoff wrote: Fri Jun 10, 2011 1:33 pm What the hell, do you beat on them?

Au contraire Kristoff, I'm submissive ergo, my computer would need to beat me

Last night, my house guests were in and out the front door constantly from 11:00 pm to 2:00 am. I can't sleep knowing the front door is unlocked.

I finally locked the dead bolt which I still have the only key for. Liz "ordered" me to unlock the door saying she would "fuck me up" if I didn't. Not being as young or as brave as I used to be, I complied.

I feel a lil better now but last night I can say I felt my life was in jeopardy.

According to Liz, I'm either talking to the police or telling my friends to talk to the police for me. She says if she can confirm this, she'll destroy my computer.

I guess I'm

MacTheWolf (imported) wrote: Wed Nov 21, 2007 4:21 pm between a rock and a hard place.

If I do nothing, I get more misery. If I seek help, I lose my computer. What do I do?

I would take those threats as Elder Abuse, she can be charged for that.

Eunuken (imported) wrote: Tue Jun 14, 2011 6:39 pm I would take those threats as Elder Abuse, she can be charged for that.

Thanks Ken, I'm taking the bus to the Office on Aging tomorrow

Maybe you can find a place to live and sell the house. Get a realtor to take it over to sell it? Put the cash in the bank and find a place to rent you can afford. The aging group may be able to help you with this.

Tome

Liz is A sick greedy person

UGH too much stress and pressure yesterday culminated in a migraine today.

Since my head pain subsided somewhat from a 9.2 down to a reasonable 2.0, I took the bus downtown and paid my $88 water/trash/sewage bill.

On the way back, I stopped off at the Office on Aging...or least I thought I did ... it was ann abandoned building now. There were no other federal buildings nearby to find where they had moved to.

Now that I think about it, I more than a little hesitant about telling anyone there what is going on in my house. Why, you ask? If they can't take dramatic action, I'm forced to suffer the backlash from Liz and her friends. I'm not emotionally or physically equipped to deal with that.

This will definitely take more thought.

Mac you need to report her threats and request an order of protection. No one knows better than I that if you do not stop the abuse and victimization you are giving her permission to continue. I let shame keep me quiet for too many years. Please Mac you do not deserve this intimidation, fear and threats.

This is the time of your life to relax and have some peace. You were a good caregiver to your mom now please give care to yourself.