Hello cogman!

I looked a little more into the CB scene. Whew... Not sure I'm as brave as you on that. Why would you say that her knowing you were taking a Testosterone blocker would cause her to end both? I'm curious.

I guess my issues were more complex. Multi reasons for impotence / hormone problems. Maybe some of it was interrelated but fixing one sure as heck didn't fix the other. Having erections and no interest was a bad combo. I would take having drive and no erections anyday. You can still orgasm flacid but the other way around I just felt like "whats the point?"

When your hormones tank I suspect your interest will dial lower and lower as well as any interest in "kink" if that is part of the appeal of the CB6000. Then its going to get twitchy because what do you tell your wife then? I don't want to wear it and it makes no difference because I'm not "into" sex anymore?

Anyway good luck with all that.

Hi Mrt,

Your logic makes perfect sense, lower drive=lower kink, but to my surprise so far that is not the case (although I was/am expecting what you said). I have found being let out of the cage somewhat depressing and I am actually looking forward to geting back into it. I find self manipulation has far more impact on how I think than it did before, and when it is no longer possible will be somewhat a relief.

I also find my desire and admiration for my wife has not diminished....appart from after self manipulation..., in fact all in all I find myself more selective and critical and feel more dedicated to my spouse.

Also the last couple of solos I have been completly dry, this is a bit scarey I must admit...to orgasm with absolutely no ejaculate is weird and a bit unexpected, but I was able to achieve a proper full hardon.

I am expecting my desire to fall ....lagging my hormon level by a significant extent which is why I am attemping to dial back my dosage in anticipation of this.

After tomorrow when I put the cage back on, if there are no night time arousals I will go back to 12mg per day.

To be honest if presented to her in the right way I doubt she would object but I want to see how it works out before I make the decision tell her or not....