Playing Fantasy vs Reality

[SunLord (imported)]

Seems as if we share many fantasies. Being castrated by my wife or other female I know, is my favorite masturbation pastime. While I was able to get my wife to cause me pain by ball squeezing etc, we never got to the castration fantasy discussion itself. As I wrote in another post, it does not seem as if she wants to go there (no real castration, no roleplay... i'm only interested in the role play, for me castration is just a fantasy). I noticed she is also reluctant to the CBT play in general, and over the years we abandoned it.

We had an interesting meeting at a marriage counseling though, I mentioned that sometimes I feel my wife does is upset by the fast she was born female, and that she would somehow want us to live as a couple of androgyny... the therapist (not a bad looking chick) asked 'you mean some thing of the sort of having you castrated?' and the discussion went on. Just the thought of that female therapist and my wife, taking my clothes off and castrating me right there...

I agree. I actually bought this up with my wife (after on of my EA fantasy sess) but she was a but freaked out by it. Besides she says she enjoys squeesing them while I'm up top (if U get what I mean) :dong:

[considering (imported)]

It's the casual honesty that one finds here that makes this all so relevant. The only thoughts about castration and penectomy I have revolve around surgery. The sort I've discussed with my Urologist. That said, certainly I have fantasies about weird and wonderful things done to and with my cock and balls. Most recently it's been having my research partner remove all my pubic hair with a Bunsen burner. Maybe I've been spending too much time in the lab. Now that I think of it, I wonder what his fantasy life is like? And that's another good thing about here, we can discuss, even enliven, our thoughts and dreams. One wonders if more were open about even the most mundane of thoughts if the tedium of everyday might lift. On the other hand, I really am not sure how I'd feel if my butcher told me of his fantasy about ME on his block and.......