My wife and I have been married for nearly 30 years but sex has dropped off in the last 10 due to her medical problems.

I still masturbate.

I've been married to my right hand wife for 39 years. Sex has dropped off dramatically since the final cut.

The right hand wife is much rested now. For a while, the wife was complaining of my constant need for relief.

The both of us are now happy as can be...

I lost my first wife from me not being loyal. My testosterone was raging all the time and I had crazy behaviors. I hated the testosterone and being horney and those nasty awful burning feelings all over. I couldn't stop chasing woman and masterbating and always making lude remarks about other woman and young girls. today is so different. My wife decides when I will have testosterone and she balances my behaviors with how much she gives me or doesn't give me. I go for a few monts sometimes without any "T" I like that calm I get at those times. There are times, when she wants sex and she then will give me my patch for 2 weeks or so until the "T" is built up again. I do not masterbate, for I don't really have the desire most of the time. good luck. I think having this thread is great for us marrieds. Scottie