Personally I don’

seanthomas (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 2:16 pm t want to know about my parents sex lives just as I

’m sure my kids don’

seanthomas (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 2:16 pm t want to know about ours. Unfortunately our kids discovered the drawer in the bedside table and know more than they ever wanted to. Don’t go meddling in your parents bedroom was the lesson they learned from that.

I think it is healthy for kids to realize that sex is normal and healthy for adults and that perfectly normal people can enjoy kinks and wild sex.

erikboy (imported) wrote: Mon Apr 05, 2021 4:54 pm That is an interesting question. Has anyone ever tried to shed the light? At least I don't have any knowledge about that. There certainly is something that can not be learned. And there is something we have learned. It seems like kinks are so deeprooted, it is impossible to unlearn them. Just ingnore, or put aside. Also, at youth, you just discover some stuff in yourself, before you ever can learn anything. With puberty suddenly many kinks are switched on, out of the blue. And with castration, they are switched off. So there must be something that exist in us, before we even know. As surveys indicate, too often castration kink can often be related to growing up in farms and being exposed to castraion. But then again, some people have no knowledge about castration until it is triggered by mere knowledge, that in history some boys and men were castrated. There is no learning process, kink just kicks in.

I think you bring up many very interesting points.

I think a few survey studies have been done on this website by respected researchers to find the origins of desiring castration for men. I have never answered any of those to know what was covered in those online surveys. I agree it should be studied and researched. I wonder about the origins of my own castration fetishes and why they are so strong ? I think lots of men do wonder about the cause or origins of many different fetishes. So many fetishes do seem dormant in us and ready to spring out and blossum at puberty or at our first contact with a fetish.

Farming and ranching livestock castrating certainly does increase a boy, teen, or man s likelihood of turning on to castration sexually. Get any group of livestock men together and if they are honest, castration as a sexual turn on is way more frequent among males handling livestock than in the general male population. That would be very interesting to study if men and younger males would be honest about answering. Personally growing up, as a young boy before puberty, livestock castrating was no big deal. Just selective breeding of the best males and it seemed very unfair to only sterilize the males and not the females. But of course, one male can impregnate countless females. Where females can t produce nearly as many offspring as males or any one male. So production needs far more fertile females than males. As boys, we always joked about castrating each other as a punishment or some male needing castrating for any excuse we could think of. Without really knowing all the changes and effects of castrating men or boys. Then at puberty, suddenly, castrating livestock clicked into being a huge sexual turn on. Our own balls kicking into action and changing our own bodies and minds made us intensely aware of what balls give us horny males ! Castrating livestock turned into a very sexual thing. But more in thinking of myself and other men being castrated, more than being sexually excited by animals. Imagining yourself getting castrated or other males you knew getting castrated. Either voluntarily or by force. That was the big turn on. The only real turn on in the animals was in how similar their balls are to our human balls and imagining their balls being my own or some other man s balls getting exposed and cut off. And how much each male is changed in mind and body by castrating him. That power that is so vital to sex ability and enjoyment, all contained in 2 testicles that hang so exposed and vulnerable in sports and daily life for all males.

But you are right in how many males with no past experience with any kind of castrating can be so immediately turned on sexually by it, even in just reading about history accounts of past human castrations in different cultures, or injury castrations in modern men. Many of these men experience immediate and strong sexual responses to their first encounter with human castration.

Cseriess (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 4:58 am I must have been a strange child. I went through everything in my parents room when they were out regularly. Probably started looking for birthday presents, but I found some very interesting things and literature. My dad was a photographer and there were plenty of photos demonstrating their use. When I had to clean out my parents house my friend helped me. There was still the large sturdy envelope with all their photos in at the back of a wardrobe. He had known my parents since we were at school together,my dad even taught him. He was very curious about me not wanting to share and it became a bit of a joke over the couple of days . Eventually as we finished and getting ready to lock up he asked if I was let him see them. I asked if he really wanted to see my parents and describe one photo. He thought I was joking, but when he realized I wasn't was rather shocked and said no, the image in his mind was bad enough. As we were all very somber at my mother's funeral, I said I had asked for her to be placed in the coffin doing the same as I had describe to him in the picture. He couldn't stop laughing so hard he was crying. People thought they were tears of sorrow and thought it very touching.

Most of the extra horny boys I knew also invaded their parents privacy and shared what they discovered with their friends, including stealing their dad s or older brother s condoms and trying them on to see what they felt like, and if our dicks were big enough erect to keep them on, see how our dicks measured up to our dad s and older brother s dicks, or if their condoms slid off of our immature penises. Most boys were very shocked at first to learn how sexual or kinky their own parents and brothers really were. But by comparing with our friends, we quickly learned that kink was common among normal parents. And even more common and normal among our older brothers that we spied on.

I think lots of boys learn about sex and kinks and accept them as being normal and healthy by doing these invasive searches of other people s belongings. Hardly anyone will ever discuss these things with boys or teens for fear of corrupting them or being accused of illegal activity. So it forces boys to seek out knowledge in hidden ways. And to use what little sexual info or items are available to them. No one would sell us boys condoms or X rated magazines or sex videos. Now boys and teens are lucky in having condom vending machines in many men s restrooms and online porn to learn about sex without invading other people s belongings around home to learn about sex.

rogerwpbfl (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 8:02 am My Mom always said it was vulgar for it to be so visible. I only got on the swim team with Dad's help. I wanted to play a sport but football was out of the question, and I was truly a competitive swimmer. Mom said we were trying to show off, but she gave in.

Here's a memory you may appreciate. I remember when we were clothes shopping, I remember it was for start of seventh grade. She didn't like the way the first pair of pants fit around my front. She tried only that one time to adjust it and she never tried ever again. I actually think she had to catch herself when she realized it wasn't going to budge. After that she just told me I needed to tuck myself down better. I still remember it like it just happened.

Hahaha your mom didn t realize how big your dick had grown until that pants bulge at 7th grade outmanned her past boyfriends ! She didn t expect you to catch up to your dad as a 7th grader.

Her embarassment likely set up a big conflict in your young mind between pleasing your mom, and enjoying your own growing penis and sexuality. But your huge dick made it front and center in your mom s face any time your clothes revealed how genetically blessed you are ! She, instead of congratulating and praising your exceptional penis, reacted with embarassment and by her trying to hide your dick and telling you to hide your growing dick better, to join her in shame over your exceptional sex organ.

Lucky your dad was rightfully proud of you and backed you in joining the swim team in spite of your huge dick obviously being highlighted in speedos and knowing you could not wear any modest swim trunks in competitive swim meets without looking crazy to everyone. Football pants would have shown your champion cock off almost as much as speedos would, especially since finding any hard plastic cup protector big enough for you to fit inside would be impossible. Most average sized men can hardly fit into most protective jockstrap nut cups. There is no way yours could fit inside any nut cup that I ve ever seen. Most big hung men end up with nut cups hovering over big gaps between their legs and not protecting their balls very well at all. Your mom would have been upset any time your penis got loose in your tight football pants to show proudly.

I m guessing that conflict between pleasing your mom and pleasing yourself and the obvious envy and admiration of your teamates and girlfriends enjoying Ranger so clearly, set up a problem in your young mind. Even now, some women fear Ranger s size and refuse sex while other women can t wait to try him inside their bodies. Oral sex is a challenge for most anyone taking on Ranger lol.

HumanFly (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 11:16 am It's mandatory in some religions (such as Judaism and Islam) and became popular in the US at some point as doctors came to regard it as more hygienic, though it never caught on in Europe. (It was the custom in the British royal family up to Prince Charles, but Diana blocked the circumcision of Wills & Harry.) Unless a child is a ward of the state, the doctor can only advise parents on a matter like circumcision, not make the decision.

Most of those religions do describe and require circumcision as a " sacrifice " or an " offering " to cement or create a covenant or agreement with God by giving up something treasured and valuable to all males. These religions readily admit that male circumcision deprives males of a valuable item as a sacrifice or offering to their God.

I m guessing that even ancient barbarians figured out that human sacrifice and castrating every member of a religion quickly killed off that religion. So, the blood lusting religious leaders were forced to settle for circumcising every male instead. It is very curious that these same religions rarely have any female equivilant for male circumcision that is required of females to have any covenant with God ?

DeaconBlues (imported) wrote: Tue Apr 06, 2021 5:16 pm At one time, I leaned to circumcision for males mostly because I had heard it was easier to keep clean and that is might reduce the probability of a man getting some STD's, then I watched "The Red Pill" and actually saw a circumcision performed, and ever since I have said NO WAY would I ever want that to happen to any baby boy. If an adult man decides he want to be circumcised then fine, he can do to his own body what he wants, but there is NO WAY IN HELL I would ever want that done to any baby boy. As for cleanliness and STD's, we live in the 21st century and clean washing water is relatively available most places, there is no reason for anyone to inflict this on a baby boy, if you don't agree with me, please WATCH the part of "The Red Pill" and I am pretty sure that you will then agree with me.

I agree that male circumcision is very brutal and has lifelong affects on males penis healthy, sensativity, protection, and sexual pleasures. Clearly there are immense numbers of sexual pleasure nerves cut off in circumcision, especially in removing the entire frenulum which only serves to give males sexual pleasures and can t possibly be any hygine problem to leave those intact. Even torn frenulums can be stretched or heal up like every female s hymen does after being torn open. No one cuts off infant female hymens to prevent them from being torn in use some day.

Hopefully circumcision will require each male s adult permission some day. Most cultures where infant male circumcision is not routine, prove the lies of hygine, or torn frenulums, or widespread phimosis as excuses for any routine circumcisions. And few uncircumcised males in those cultures seek circumcision as adults.

I think both cut and uncut penises are great ! Both look incredibly good. I think each male should choose for himself at any time after he reaches age 18. And I bet few intact males would choose circumcision after enjoying their foreskins for 18 years.

I think lots of females who are used to seeing routinely circumcised males fear foreskins. They falsely claim foreskins are breeding places for disease and bacteria and yet very conveiniently don t see the other tissues of their own vaginas similarly. Or seek " cleaner " or " better looking " vagina cutting for themselves. The uncut male populations of the world prove that foreskins are healthy and clearly protect penises from all kinds of injury and many diseases as the protective penis shield nature designed them to be. Uncut men do not transmit more diseases than cut men. That is a lie used to sell circumcision for profit worldwide. But uncut populations prove no more disease transmission because of foreskins than cut populations transmit.

cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Sun Apr 04, 2021 8:06 am Do you think our sexual kinks are genetic and inherited from our fathers and grandfathers ?

It seems like sexual kinks or various paraphilias are very common in men. One study states that 60% of men have had paraphilic thoughts. It is certainly inherited, as it hasn't been possible to root them out. As acting on some paraphilias is against the law.

I have so many kinks I couldn't even begin to list them. Where they came from I have no idea.

It seems to me that the more sexuality is suppressed (not able to have natural sexual relief) the more kinks T washed brain generates over time. But certainly there is a genetic component in there as well.

I wonder if IQ affects amount and complexity of kinks? Are there any kinks in animals?

erikboy (imported) wrote: Fri Dec 09, 2022 10:44 am It seems to me that the more sexuality is suppressed (not able to have natural sexual relief) the more kinks T washed brain generates over time. But certainly there is a genetic component in there as well.

I wonder if IQ affects amount and complexity of kinks? Are there any kinks in animals?

It is well known that those animals that can reach their genitals seem to spend an amazingly large amount of their time attending to them (even after being fixed...) but no idea what they might be dreaming about while doing so... :-\

I've also seen more than a few reports of animals engaging in homosexual activities under some circumstances - who knows if the motivation is a kink, or some other reason....

WheelyCurious

WheelyCurious wrote: Fri Dec 09, 2022 3:16 pm It is well known that those animals that can reach their genitals seem to spend an amazingly large amount of their time attending to them (even after being fixed...) but no idea what they might be dreaming about while doing so... :-\

I've also seen more than a few reports of animals engaging in homosexual activities under some circumstances - who knows if the motivation is a kink, or some other reason....

WheelyCurious

I completely agree, read and even posted here a message about similar facts.

Everything that happens in wildlife is not accidental and is repeated.

Undoubtedly it is inherited.

It seems to me not entirely correct to call such phenomena perversions.

The concept of "sexual perversion" refers to the sphere of social interpretation of biological phenomena.