Again I hope it all goes well for you.
Let us know how it all goes.
GordonGG (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 15, 2019 6:15 pm I'm all set to be de-balled on Feb 15th. The clinic gave me a price of $3535. I'll be paying for it out of my own pocket. I'll be a eunuch!
cutnbulls2ox (imported) wrote: Tue Jan 15, 2019 7:24 pm Congrats !
That s a big expense for two balls. But if you spread that out over all the future years of you being a eunuch, its not so bad a price per year.
Hope it all goes smoothly and you enjoy your once in a man s lifetime experience. I hope it will be fast healing too.
Did they give you the details on which method you will be gelded with ?
GordonGG (imported) wrote: Wed Jan 16, 2019 8:45 pm A simple orchiectomy, not radical. Still not sure if it's going to be done under a local or general. At this point I don't care.
kastranja (imported) wrote: Thu Jan 17, 2019 1:06 am In my personal opinion, "because I want to" is way enough of a reason. So wish you well in going ahead. And make sure you have it done in the way you want to have it done. By the way, even when you're awake, you probably won't be able to see anything (I didn't, and I had spinal anesthesia).
No need to explain that you are not planning any transition towards a female stereotype. Every self-view is valid, and again - what you want for yourself is the only thing that matters.
Towards dysphoria: It is right that trans people (not necessarily transwomen) often have dysphoria in one way or another, but not always, and not necessarily. Speaking for myself, it took me about thirty years to realize that my impression to be phase-shifted to my environment (sometimes strong, often unnoticeable) was in fact a kind of dysphoria. But again, there are many trans people without dysphoria, that is not a requirement to be allowed to call oneself trans.