I have found that after castration and low level TRT that sex is better than ever before, as my imperative to penetrate and orgasm has radically diminished and I now enjoy the kissing, cuddling etc much more and that I am now a much better lover to the lady in my life.

My wife already has orgasms much more frequently without penetration than with it, so I've know how to please her without it. I can easily imagine that not being concerned about my own sexual pleasure at all could make me a better lover for her.

I've noticed that since I was castrated, my desire for sex is much reduced, even though I am on TRT and my T level is in the normal range. I just don't think about sex very much these days and when I see an attractive woman, I don't have the immediate desire to have sex with her. Even if I momentarily think about it, I quickly dismiss the thought realizing I probably couldn't do anything anyway. My thought then quickly goes to something like "she's really attractive" and the thought of sex isn't that appealing. And like Micdavi24, I look forward to just being with my wife and cuddling. It seems like I have been "tamed," if you know what I mean. I feel great and overall think it is a big improvement for me. However, it's another YMMV situation. Everyone is a little different.

I'm the the same I use T when I clan be bothered to put it on and now my sex life is very low but when I do have sex it's so much better it takes much longer I I get a couple of dry orgasams then one amazing toe turning one. My main Bromley now is because my is low my penus is shrinking and I can't get a full election which is a problem I will have to see my doctor may be it's time for viagra.

Energizer (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 06, 2015 3:15 pm I've noticed that since I was castrated, my desire for sex is much reduced, even though I am on TRT and my T level is in the normal range. I just don't think about sex very much these days and when I see an attractive woman, I don't have the immediate desire to have sex with her. Even if I momentarily think about it, I quickly dismiss the thought realizing I probably couldn't do anything anyway. My thought then quickly goes to something like "she's really attractive" and the thought of sex isn't that appealing. And like Micdavi24, I look forward to just being with my wife and cuddling. It seems like I have been "tamed," if you know what I mean. I feel great and overall think it is a big improvement for me. However, it's another YMMV situation. Everyone is a little different.

This way of being is very appealing to me.

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Energizer (imported) wrote: Tue Oct 06, 2015 3:15 pm I've noticed that since I was castrated, my desire for sex is much reduced, even though I am on TRT and my T level is in the normal range. I just don't think about sex very much these days and when I see an attractive woman, I don't have the immediate desire to have sex with her. Even if I momentarily think about it, I quickly dismiss the thought realizing I probably couldn't do anything anyway. My thought then quickly goes to something like "she's really attractive" and the thought of sex isn't that appealing. And like Micdavi24, I look forward to just being with my wife and cuddling. It seems like I have been "tamed," if you know what I mean. I feel great and overall think it is a big improvement for me. However, it's another YMMV situation. Everyone is a little different.

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I guess everyone's mileage varies, but we have something similar: when I am off T, sex is just not thought about, and while the cuddle is very good indeed and much enjoyed by both, we have often thought about a Thailand visit for a well-done nullo*. Both find this interesting, and maybe another stage in life's rich variety. She seems to find the idea of cuddling her nullo as attractive as does her husband returning the favor -maybe as a nullo.

With T, we enjoy regular sex, but after many years we find that it is largely something from a stage of life mostly passed. The next stage beckons, but we need the right time.

*We have seen posts and pix and discussed the idea of getting nulled, so we now have a clearer idea of what would be ideal. The testicles have long gone. The penis, all of it, should also be gone, leaving a flat or tight featureless "under" with just a midline scar line and a pee a couple of inches in front of the anus. No erectile anything would be left, just smooth and ideal for a cuddle. Seems that Thailand clinics do this for a reasonable fee, though they advise leisurely recuperating before a flight back to US.

(Don't even think of doing this if either of you need or want anything more than a cuddle!)