Neutered (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 16, 2013 7:51 am If you don't like yourself how the hell do you expect someone else to like you? Castrating yourself and hiding in the back room is only going to make things worse than they already are for you. Oh, and even Shrek found a girlfriend...

I totally agree but I doubt he will seek help for his problem:(

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I also agree, I thought that from his first post. His problem is a low opinion of himself.

That,

And my grandkids are into girls, my adult sons and grandsons are into women, not girls.

River

Only had interest in girls when young and women now. Would still only have interest in women now even if I could be total nullo.

I have recently started a life style change. Weight lifting and Running. This is to improve upon myself and be the best version I can be. I think for sure almost any girl/women have choices to pick out of, to each female they have options from relationships to one night stands with very little difficulty. Most girls are after the best man possible. this leaves me with low chances. The gender differences is what makes it hard for me. a female almost all would pick someone who is successful at most things in life. Without lots of confidence, good career, personality, and being highly appealing there is little to no chances there. basically a female can choose someone who does have these things. I am talking about girls who are average are set this way. they wont just easily be with any man who likes them?, plus in fact they have lots of men who like them, most girls all shapes and sizes get plenty of attention, it would be ideal if i ever had a chance to get a decent female but seems I must accept being single. the problem is mostly about the gender differences.

Not only do you sell yourself short but women as well. There are lots of women out there looking for an honest guy, he dose not need to be all the things you list, then again what do I know, I am sure you are right after all your what, 20?

If you can't find a young lady that is interested in you, you are looking in the wrong places for the wrong women.

Try looking for a gal that is interested in the same things you are, you might be surprised at what you find. Stop trying to be something your not, be who you are, and one other thing, quit pouting and hold your head high.

River

Eliminate all desire for women? Date River's x-wife...

Neutered (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 16, 2013 7:51 am Oh, and even Shrek found a girlfriend...

I knew some guys like that in high school and they were without exception all married by their late twenties. The guys who still aren't didn't want to be for var

shadow1ninja (imported) wrote: Sat Nov 16, 2013 2:35 pm ious reasons (and even some of them ended up married.)

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ted a life style change. Weight lifting and Running.

That might get you a bit more sex but not anything more. Women don't think like that, even the shallow ones.

At a risk of sounding bold you are basically thinking of women as aliens with nothing in common with you besides sex. There are women who share you interests even if all you like is ganj and Xbox.

I can understand the bitterness and disappointments of shadow.

That's the special cruel nature of females, you can even see this phenomena in the animal world. the main aim is to get pregnant and only a wealthy, social settled, good looking man, perhaps with good genes, can give enough ressources for a good life, maintenance and further wellness of females. Nothing at all of understanding, feelings, care, love and joint hobbies.

I have had also these dreams of love, sharing interests etc., but now in my 70s I see these are and will be only illusions. I needed about 20 years to understand and accept these facts. That's nature .... It is better to reduce your sexual activities on masturbations, gay sex or on nonsexual behaviour. And when you decide for the third way then is castration indeed an option. Then you can concentrate on your own personality, your life, your own interests ... and without thinking always of getting dates, sexual desires.

So I plead for opportunities for all men to get castrated in a safe way and avoid these "natural" difficulties.

You are right. What is certain is that for women a man's talent, personality and hobbies are of completely no concern. It may be the same for most men - I'm not succesful in attracting men either - but what I can also tell is that for me a girl's looks are not absolutely crucial, I'd like her to be intelligent and have an interesting mind. No girl is attracted to men for simply such qualities.

Gerslave (imported) wrote: Mon Nov 18, 2013 8:33 am I can understand the bitterness and disappointments of shadow.

That's the special cruel nature of females, you can even see this phenomena in the animal world. the main aim is to get pregnant and only a wealthy, social settled, good looking man, perhaps with good genes, can give enough ressources for a good life, maintenance and further wellness of females. Nothing at all of understanding, feelings, care, love and joint hobbies.

I have had also these dreams of love, sharing interests etc., but now in my 70s I see these are and will be only illusions. I needed about 20 years to understand and accept these facts. That's nature .... It is better to reduce your sexual activities on masturbations, gay sex or on nonsexual behaviour. And when you decide for the third way then is castration indeed an option. Then you can concentrate on your own personality, your life, your own interests ... and without thinking always of getting dates, sexual desires.

So I plead for opportunities for all men to get castrated in a safe way and avoid these "natural" difficulties.

At this stage. my medications such as Cyprotrone and Dutasteride have lowered my sex drive by around 90%. no porn, no masturbation and its great relief not having any urges, life is better.. However its just the mental side of being attracted to girls, being aware etc. Over time yes I can accept, embrace and live single without no problems because this is how it is. Females want men that are truly great in all aspects of life, excellent/good career, own house, holiday experiences, car, appearance, being popular, personality, confidence, social skills, fashion, the list can go on etc. it is fact. any girl can choose and be picky about there choices in men. it is the cruel nature of girls for sure. funny how i once believed in nonsense myths 'in life everyone is married one day', 'when it happens it happens # relationships' 'just keep trying there is a girl out there for everyone' ? 'improve yourself read books, do sports, join clubs, etc and girls like you', 'in dating girls and men both have equal chances', 'all men find a girl and fall in love one day', and yes these myths go on.