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Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 5:53 am
by littletits (imported)
Stevie I could not put it better myself. While I became a eunuch by accident I am becoming feminised by choice and it has been a very positive experience both in mind and body. I found that I could not quit either. Any point of no return for me is long gone and I have no regrets about having to present for life as a woman. Now to have the last of my maleness ( the limp little bit) removed is all I have to resolve. Just labiaplasty or full SRs is my only remaining issue. it certainly will be gone one way or the other in the short to medium term.

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Thu Jun 07, 2012 11:57 pm
by ned123 (imported)
Stevie is pretty much on the money. It is important to take into consideration that you may find the experience so compellingly positive that it will be extremely hard for you to ever walk away from it. I was warned by a number of people, and even my therapist that if I decide to try hormones I have to accept that I may find that there is no way to go back. So with that in mind
Cyndigurl45 (imported) wrote: Fri Jun 01, 2012 7:40 am I would say the point of no return
for many is the first dose.

I also believe that even if you do them for a very very short time, you will be altered. I know there are various notions regarding times that you will physically not be able to reverse certain traits ect. But I personally believe that there are subtle shifts that occur from the very first dose. Once taken you will never fully be as you where.

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 12:00 pm
by whyohwhy (imported)
This thread is interesting. I have fetish for (forced) feminization and oddlily for chemical castration which may have developed out of my unquestionable gender identity sympthoms. But I'm still unsure if I want to really live as a woman or if I would like a feminine body and the mental changes. I crave a feminine body but I don't know if this developed out of sexual frustration too but right now I'm unable to get a girlfriend because I feel depressed and failed to to it for years, probably because I'm actually not the man I'm trying to be.

So I'm verrrry tempted to try hrt. I actually did a couple of times over the last years but never had the courage to pop more than a few pills and then got scared of the consequences.

As far as I gather information through this forum most people got their potency back after they stopped after a few months so I'm wondering if this is for everyone because I seem to be very sensitive to these meds. My ejaculate and erection changed in quality and quantity practically over night and that was scary so I wonder if it would also take ashorter time for me to feel the full effect or if I have to be careful because changes could become permanent faster!? The longest trial was about a week and at the end my nipples were erect all the time, so is it possible to grow irreversible breast/nipple growth in under a months time?

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Sun Jun 10, 2012 6:19 pm
by smoothie36 (imported)
Why complicate things. As I said before, t
smoothie36 (imported) wrote: Wed May 30, 2012 5:34 pm here is no return once you have gender reassignment surgery.
Let's close this thread andmove on.

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 11:29 am
by voodoller (imported)
words

Try anti androgens for a bit before going ahead with more hormones, it cleared my head and I was in pretty much the same state you are - now I'm transitioning all legit like :)

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 2:15 pm
by whyohwhy (imported)
What?

@voodoller

but wouldn't that make me feel different compared with E?

Forgot a important point: When would be the point of no return for sterility? I had clear ejaculate after a few days of hrt. Does that mean I'm sterile in that time? But when will I get permanently sterile?

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Mon Jun 11, 2012 4:25 pm
by transward (imported)
whyohwhy (imported) wrote: Mon Jun 11, 2012 2:15 pm Forgot a important point: When would be the point of no return for sterility? I had clear ejaculate after a few days of hrt. Does that mean I'm sterile in that time? But when will I get permanently sterile?

Absolutely no way to tell. One of those "your mileage may vary" situations.

I knew a M2F couple who stayed together after the husband transitioned, who conceived a child several long years after they assumed it was impossible. (plus she was still taking estrogen) (I won't address the obvious skeptical question) Another I knew tried transition for only a few months then changed his mind. The T levels never did (at least for the few years I knew him) return to normal and he had to inject it. Playing w/ hormones has a large degree of uncertainty involved. Don't play there unless you feel you really don't have any other choice.

Transward

Recently a trans woman I know, who started taking hormones and blockers in her teens, and who is now in a relationship w/ a bio woman with whom she is trying to have a kid. At 33 she stopped doing hormones. Recently her wife had a miscarriage, so apparently she is still fertile.

Transward

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 9:20 am
by voodoller (imported)
OK so to clarify - you're saying you're worried it's a sexual thing right? but anti androgens will kill your libido and you'll get to know whether it is just a sexual thing or whether what you want is something more significant. Hence my poorly worded suggestion :)

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:02 am
by _g (imported)
whyohwhy (imported) wrote: Sun Jun 10, 2012 12:00 pm This thread is interesting. I have fetish for (forced) feminization and oddlily for chemical castration which may have developed out of my unquestionable gender identity sympthoms. But I'm still unsure if I want to really live as a woman or if I would like a feminine body and the mental changes. I crave a feminine body but I don't know if this developed out of sexual frustration too but right now I'm unable to get a girlfriend because I feel depressed and failed to to it for years, probably because I'm actually not the man I'm trying to be.

So I'm verrrry tempted to try hrt. I actually did a couple of times over the last years but never had the courage to pop more than a few pills and then got scared of the consequences.

As far as I gather information through this forum most people got their potency back after they stopped after a few months so I'm wondering if this is for everyone because I seem to be very sensitive to these meds. My ejaculate and erection changed in quality and quantity practically over night and that was scary so I wonder if it would also take ashorter time for me to feel the full effect or if I have to be careful because changes could become permanent faster!? The longest trial was about a week and at the end my nipples were erect all the time, so is it possible to grow irreversible breast/nipple growth in under a months time?

Yes, it is possible to grow irreversible breast/nipple growth in under a months time.
But then both my grand mothers had very large breasts. I did have irreversible breast growth in two weeks.

_g

Re: Going female. When is the point of no return?

Posted: Tue Jun 12, 2012 11:25 pm
by whyohwhy (imported)
ned123 (imported) wrote: Thu Jun 07, 2012 11:57 pm I also believe that even if you do them for a very very short time, you will be altered. I know there are various notions regarding times that you will physically not be able to reverse certain traits ect. But I personally believe that there are subtle shifts that occur from the very first dose. Once taken you will never fully be as you where.

Another intreasting point. I'm not sure if it's my imagination but since my first trial run it seems that the amount of ejaculate is slightly smaller than before and my dick doesn't get rock hard all the time during a fap session as it used to. It also seems that it's a bit harder to visualize sexual things or my imagination in that respect got a little numb idk it's hard to seperate this from paranoia or placebo effects.