I know what y'all are talking about but I can't begin to explain it. Sorry guys.

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Mon Oct 17, 2011 5:47 pm Thanks for the reassurance. I'm curious about how the physical stimulation is possible with no penis there, though. Does the urethra remain sexually sensitive? Is stroking the end of a stump effective? Or does one need to massage the prostate (I guess I could do that for him, but I wouldn't look forward to it)? Or is some other form of stimulation (electrical?) needed. I'd like to understand what's at the end of the road we may be finding ourselves on.

Sandi

As byebyejunk stated, the perineum above the anus is perfect for external prostate massage, and YodaNell has commented how sensitive his urethral area can be. Others have noted their pubic mound becomes much more sensitive to stimulation, similar to a woman's pubis.

I posted this on another thread just incase you missed it.

This a glass thruster that I use to stimulate my prostate for an orgasm. I never found a dildo to work like this one.

http://www.extremerestraints.com/gla...ildo_3149.html

Sandy (C&TL2745),

In answer to your question: "Can a man without a penis have an orgasm?" If the complete penis is removed along with the testicles, which includes the two to three inches of penis up inside his body, orgasm will be difficult but as some complete nullo's have told us, it's not impossible. Yoda Nell had his penis completely removed (I believe it was him) and he's also castrated, nothing down there, but he continues to orgasm because he uses testosterone gel and or testosterone patches. Without any testosterone orgasm is less likely. If the penis is cut off at the base, but the internal part of the penis remains inside, orgasm is more likely, though one of our members had his penis cut off at the base but says he can't orgasm. He calls himself roadrunner99 I think. So if your husbands penis was cut off it might just depend upon him.

However, you should be ready for it. Those who fantasize frequently about being penectomized are more likely to go through with it and actually have it cut off or removed. I know I'll have mine cut off one day and I'm not sure what's holding me back except sometimes as a eunuch, I just don't care about it. Before I was castrated the desire to be castrated and penectomized was so overwheliming I couldn't control myself and had to be castrated and was, but now that I'm castrated the penectomy desire has waned. Once in a while the desire will come over me and one day I think it'll become so strong I'll have my penis cut off. I'm just missing that motivation.

You should read the blogs from Yoda Nell, Castr8edmale, Bill, and several others. All of the testimonies of these men after having their penises cut off are positive. Bill said recently that his only regret is that he didn't do it sooner, when he was much younger. These men wanted to be penectomized and eventually it happened. You might want to read about some of those men who were penectomized if you haven't already. http://www.eunuch.org/forums/showthread ... -penectomy

C&TL2745,

I understand your reservations and caution, I think it's really important because once the penis is cut off, it's going to be very difficult to reattach and it won't ever be the same if it is reattached. Those who've had them reattached have experienced numbness and some erectal dysfunction. Did you have a penectomy/castration fetish before you were married? If so, where do you think this came from? We had a woman in the eunuch community years ago named Yoli who was raped, and from that, she developed a castration fetish or desire.

Hash (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:39 am C&TL2745,

I understand your reservations and caution, I think it's really important because once the penis is cut off, it's going to be very difficult to reattach and it won't ever be the same if it is reattached. Those who've had them reattached have experienced numbness and some erectal dysfunction. Did you have a penectomy/castration fetish before you were married? If so, where do you think this came from? We had a woman in the eunuch community years ago named Yoli who was raped, and from that, she developed a castration fetish or desire.

My younger brother and I were sexually abused by my father. We set him up to be discovered in the act by Mom, and she divorced him soon thereafter. I think the experience affected my brother more than me, but we both went through counseling. Donny was the one most abused, and our father made me participate in abusing him. Later, having me abuse him became Donny's fetish. He wanted me to kick him in the testicles, and I did, not out of malice but because it was fun and he wanted it. Donny and I were really close and still are.

So, no, I can't say I had

Hash (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 19, 2011 10:39 am a penectomy/castration fetish before

Tim and I were married, but when he asked me to kick him where it hurts, I wasn't put off by that, either.

I harbor no ill will against men, and certainly not against my husband. He's a sweetie. But for 20 years he's been continually asking me to be less cautious in our playtime, to increase the risk level, and I've already done some irreversible damage, though it hasn't slowed him down sexually. I was hoping to get some assurance that I at least knew the consequences of what we're doing if things go wrong.

Sandi

Must be a great sex life.

C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:13 pm The thing that gets my husband most excited is when I threaten his genitals, particularly his penis, and we've done some fairly risky things. So I'm wondering, if he should end up without a penis or with a non-functional penis, is that definitely the end of orgasms for him, or can a man without a penis still get an orgasm? And if so, how? Thinking that it would be all over is 90% of the excitement for him, but it's 50% of the worry for me.

Sandi

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C&TL2745 (imported) wrote: Wed Oct 19, 2011 9:31 pm But for 20 years he's been continually asking me to be less cautious in our playtime, to increase the risk level, and I've already done some irreversible damage, though it hasn't slowed him down sexually

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I think that's the way it is or the way it goes for a lot of us men. As time goes by, we want to increase the risk level and that's because we can't get the same thrill or thrills that we had the last few times so we want to/have to go further until ultimately the fantasy becomes a reality and we do something irreversible. Maybe you should ask him if he wants to see a doctor who will chemically castrate him temporarily. That might excite him and it might also help him determine whether he can live without his testicles and penis. Chemical castration also stops most if not all erections. If he's chemically castrated he won't be able to have intercourse and his penis might even shrink.

I was just tortured with electro. Took a while, but I had the same orgasms. Very intense and similar to passing out. Took an enormous amount of electro. Guy who did it is good.

jerry4033 (imported) wrote: Sat Oct 22, 2011 4:42 am I was just tortured with electro. Took a while, but I had the same orgasms. Very intense and similar to passing out. Took an enormous amount of electro. Guy who did it is good.

Applied with a TENS unit or something else? And applied where?

Sandi