Re: War Pact - If my genitals are blown off - let me die!
Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2011 7:17 pm
I found this on the web about a soldier who had his dick blown off but still has great sex.
http://www.ic-network.com/forum/showthread.php?t=31014
This was a true story told by a sex therapist and doctor from the UCSF Medical School who came to our IC support group meeting back in 1996. He told the story of a couple who had a sex life that he, frankly, envied. They were loving, compassionate, and completely sexually fulfilled. Yet, there was a shocking twist. The man had been in Vietnam and had suffered a horrific groin/shrapnel injury that had destroyed his penis. It was amputated and he returned home with an injury that most men fear.
So, how can a man without a penis have an amazing sex life that other men who were physically intact envied?? It was all about experimentation. The couple loved each dearly and decided to explore their sexuality in new ways, eventually finding TANTRIC SEX.
What's tantric sex? Imagine getting to that point right before orgasm where everything feels so amazing. We're lucky if we're at that point for, what, a few minutes? Now, imagine staying there for an hour. The goal of tantric sex is to get your partner to that point of bliss through "outercourse" (i.e. stroking, touching, etc. etc.) and to then keep them there for a sustained period of time. If intercourse/penetration/orgasm happens, fine. If it doesn't, fine. Tantric sex is mindblowingly fun, fulfilling and satisfying. REALLY!
http://www.ic-network.com/forum/showthread.php?t=31014
This was a true story told by a sex therapist and doctor from the UCSF Medical School who came to our IC support group meeting back in 1996. He told the story of a couple who had a sex life that he, frankly, envied. They were loving, compassionate, and completely sexually fulfilled. Yet, there was a shocking twist. The man had been in Vietnam and had suffered a horrific groin/shrapnel injury that had destroyed his penis. It was amputated and he returned home with an injury that most men fear.
So, how can a man without a penis have an amazing sex life that other men who were physically intact envied?? It was all about experimentation. The couple loved each dearly and decided to explore their sexuality in new ways, eventually finding TANTRIC SEX.
What's tantric sex? Imagine getting to that point right before orgasm where everything feels so amazing. We're lucky if we're at that point for, what, a few minutes? Now, imagine staying there for an hour. The goal of tantric sex is to get your partner to that point of bliss through "outercourse" (i.e. stroking, touching, etc. etc.) and to then keep them there for a sustained period of time. If intercourse/penetration/orgasm happens, fine. If it doesn't, fine. Tantric sex is mindblowingly fun, fulfilling and satisfying. REALLY!